|Angelina Emily Grimké|
February 20, 1805|
Charleston, South Carolina, USA
|Died||October 26, 1879
Hyde Park, Massachusetts, USA
|Occupation||Politician, abolitionist, suffragist|
|Spouse(s)||Theodore Dwight Weld|
Angelina Emily Grimké Weld (February 20, 1805 – October 26, 1879) was an American political activist, abolitionist, women's rights advocate, and supporter of the women's suffrage movement. While she was raised a southerner, she spent her entire adult life living in the North. The years of her greatest fame were between 1836, when a letter she sent to William Lloyd Garrison was published in his anti-slavery newspaper, The Liberator, and May 1838, when she gave a courageous and brilliant speech to abolitionists gathered in Philadelphia, with a hostile crowd throwing stones and shouting just outside the hall. The essays and speeches she produced in that two-year period were incisive arguments to end slavery and advance women's rights.
Drawing her views from natural rights theory (famously set forth in the Declaration of Independence), the Constitution, and from Christian beliefs in the Bible, as well has her own experience of slavery and racism in the South, she argued for the injustice of denying freedom to any man or woman, and was particularly eloquent on the problem of racial prejudice. When challenged for speaking in public to mixed audiences of men and women in 1837, she, joined by her sister Sarah, fiercely defended women's right to make speeches and more generally be fully political beings.
Grimké married Theodore Weld, a prominent abolitionist himself, in May 1838. They lived in New Jersey, with her sister Sarah Grimke, and raised three children, and supported themselves by running two schools, the later located in the Raritan Bay Union utopian community. After the Civil War ended, the Grimke-Weld household moved to Hyde Park, Massachusetts, where they spent their last years. Angelina and Sarah were active in the Massachusetts Woman Suffrage Association in the 1870s.
Grimké was born in Charleston, South Carolina, to John Faucheraud Grimké, a wealthy Episcopalian lawyer, judge, planter, politician, slaveholder, Revolutionary War veteran and distinguished member of Charleston society. In 1784 he married Mary Smith, a descendant of Landgrave Thomas Smith, another family from the Charleston elite. Together they had a total of fourteen children, of whom Angelina Grimké was the youngest.
Early years and religious activity
Both Mary and John Grimké were strong advocates of the traditional, upper class Southern values that permeated Charleston society. Mary would not permit the girls to socialize outside of the prescribed elite social circles, and John remained a slaveholder his entire life.
Nicknamed “Nina,” young Angelina Grimké was very close to her older sister Sarah Moore Grimké, who, at age thirteen, persuaded her parents to allow her to be Angelina’s godmother. They consented, and the two sisters maintained an intimate relationship throughout their lives, living together for most of that time, although with several short periods of separation.
Even as a child, Grimké was described in family letters and diaries as the most self-righteous, curious and self-assured of all her siblings. In the biography, The Grimké Sisters from South Carolina, historian Gerda Lerner writes that “It never occurred to [Angelina] that she should abide by the superior judgment of her male relatives or that anyone might consider her inferior, simply for being a girl.” More so than her elder sister (and later, fellow abolitionist), Sarah, Angelina seemed to be naturally inquisitive and outspoken, a trait which often offended her rather traditional family and friends.
When the time came for her confirmation in the Episcopal Church at age thirteen, Angelina refused to recite the required pledge. Always an inquisitive and rebellious young woman, she concluded that she could not agree with the pledge, and would not participate in the confirmation ceremony. Angelina converted to the Presbyterian faith in April 1826, aged 21.
Angelina was an active member of the Presbyterian church. A proponent of biblical study and interfaith education, she taught a Sabbath school class and also provided religious services to her family’s slaves—a practice her mother originally frowned upon, but later participated in. Grimké became a close friend of the pastor of her church, Rev. William McDowell. McDowell was a northerner who had previously been the pastor of a Presbyterian church in New Jersey. Grimké and McDowell were both very opposed to the institution of slavery on the grounds that it was a morally deficient system that violated Christian law and human rights. McDowell advocated patience and prayer over direct action against the system, which was unsatisfactory to the radical young Grimké.
In 1829, she addressed the issue at a meeting in her church and stated that all slaveholding members of her congregation should openly condemn the practice. Because she was such an active member of the church community, her audience respectfully declined her proposal. This incident led to Grimké’s loss of faith in the values of the Presbyterian church. With her sister Sarah’s support, Grimké adopted the tenets of the Quaker faith. The Quaker community was very small in Charleston, and Grimké quickly set out to reform her friends and family. However, given Grimké’s self-righteous nature, her condescending comments about their wasteful and flashy behavior served merely to offend those around her. Grimké’s behavior even led to her official expulsion from the Presbyterian church in 1829. Afterwards, Grimké became convinced that the South was not the proper place for her or her work, and so she relocated to Philadelphia.
After her self-induced exile from South Carolina in 1827, Grimké moved in with her sister Sarah and together they joined the Orthodox Meeting of the Philadelphia chapter of the Religious Society of Friends. During this particular period, the Grimké sisters remained relatively ignorant of certain political issues and debates; the only periodical they read regularly was The Friend, the weekly paper of the Society of Friends. The Friend provided limited information on current events and discussed them only within the context of the Quaker community. Thus, at the time Grimké was unaware of (and therefore, uninfluenced by) events such as the Webster–Hayne debates and the Maysville Road veto, as well as controversial public figures such as Frances Wright.
For a time in Philadelphia, Angelina lived with her widowed sister, Anna Grimké Frost. Grimké was struck by the lack of options for widowed women (during this period they were mostly limited to remarriage or joining the working world) and realized the importance of education for women. She decided to become a teacher and briefly considered attending the Female Seminary in Hartford, an institution that was founded and run by Catharine Beecher, a future public adversary. Grimké never attended the school, however, and remained in Philadelphia for the time being.
Over time, Grimké became frustrated by the Quaker community’s slow and passive response to the contemporary debate on slavery. She exposed herself to more extreme abolitionist literature, such as the periodicals The Emancipator and William Lloyd Garrison’s The Liberator (in which she would later be published). Sarah and the traditional Quakers disapproved of Grimké’s new-found interest in radical abolitionism, but Grimké became steadily more involved in the movement. She began to attend anti-slavery meetings and lectures and joined the newly organized Philadelphia Female Anti-Slavery Society in 1835.
In the fall of 1835, mob violence erupted over the controversial abolitionist George Thompson. William Lloyd Garrison wrote an article in The Liberator in the hopes of calming the rioting masses. Grimké had been steadily influenced by Garrison’s work, and this article inspired her to write him a personal letter on the subject. The letter stated her concerns and opinions on the issues of abolitionism and mob violence, as well as her personal admiration for Garrison and the values he symbolized. Garrison was so impressed with Grimké’s letter that he published it in the next issue of "The Liberator" and praised her for her passion, expressive writing style and noble ideas. The letter put Grimké in great standing among many abolitionists, but its publication offended and stirred controversy within Orthodox Quaker meeting, which openly condemned such radical activism. Sarah Grimké even asked her sister to withdraw the letter, concerned that such publicity would alienate her from the community. Though initially embarrassed by the letter’s publication, Angelina refused. The letter was later reprinted in the New York Evangelist and other abolitionist papers and was also included in a pamphlet with Garrison’s Appeal to the Citizens of Boston. In 1836, Grimké wrote An Appeal to the Christian Women of the South, urging southern women to petition their state legislatures and church officials to end slavery (see below). It was published by the American Anti-Slavery Society and is often considered by scholars one of the best manifestations of Grimké’s sociopolitical agenda.
In the fall of 1836, the Grimké sisters were invited to New York City to become the first women to attend the American Anti-Slavery Society's two-week training conference for anti-slavery agents. There they met Theodore Dwight Weld, a trainer and one of the society's leading agents, whom Angelina would later marry (see Personal Life). During the following winter, the sisters were commissioned to speak at women's meetings and organize women's antislavery societies in the New York City region and nearby New Jersey. In May 1837 they joined leading women abolitionists from Boston, New York, and Philadelphia in holding the first Anti-Slavery Convention of American Women, held to expand women's antislavery petitioning into other states.
Immediately after this convention, the sisters went by invitation of the Boston Female Anti-Slavery Society to Massachusetts. New England abolitionists were being accused of distorting and exaggerating the realities of slavery, and the sisters were asked to speak throughout New England on their first-hand knowledge of slavery. Almost from the beginning, their meetings were opened to men. Although defenders later claimed that the sisters addressed mixed audiences only because men insisted on coming, primary evidence indicates that their meetings were opened to men by deliberate design, not only to carry their message to male as well as female auditors, but as a means of breaking women's fetters establishing "a new order of things." Now, in addition to petitioning, women transgressed social mores by speaking in public. In response, a state convention of Massachusetts' Congregational ministers meeting at the end of June issued a pastoral letter condemning public work by women and urging local churches to close their doors against the Grimkés' meetings.
As the sisters spoke throughout Massachusetts during the summer of 1837, the controversy over women abolitionists' public and political work fueled a growing controversy over women's rights and duties, both within the antislavery movement and outside of it. Angelina responded to Catharine Beecher's letter with open letters of her own, "Letters to Catherine Beecher," printed first in The New England Spectator and The Liberator and then in book form in 1838. And Sarah Grimké wrote "Letters on the Province of Woman, addressed to Mary S. Parker," which appeared first int the Liberator before also being published in book form. Addressed to the president of the Boston Female Anti-Slavery Society, who in the wake of the pastoral letter wanted women abolitionists to withdraw from public work, Sarah's letters were a strong defense of women's right and duty to participate on equal terms with men in all such work.
In February 1838, Angelina Grimké addressed a legislative committee of the Massachusetts State Legislature, becoming the first woman in the United States to address a legislative body. She not only spoke against slavery, but also defended women's petitioning both as a moral and religious duty and as a political right. Abolitionist Robert F. Wallcut stated that “Angelina Grimké’s serene, commanding eloquence enchained attention, disarmed prejudice and carried her hearers with her.”
Grimké’s lectures were critical of Southern slaveholders, but also of Northerners who tacitly complied with the status quo by purchasing slave-made products and exploiting slaves through the commercial and economic exchanges they made with slaveowners in the South. They were met with a considerable amount of opposition, both because Angelina was a female and an abolitionist.
In 1831, Grimké was courted by Edward Bettle, the son of Samuel and Jane Bettrimké. Diaries show that Bettle intended to marry Grimké, though he never actually proposed. Sarah supported the match. However, in the summer of 1832, a large cholera epidemic broke out in Philadelphia. Grimké agreed to take in Bettle’s cousin Elizabeth Walton, who, unbeknownst to anyone at the time, was dying of the disease. Bettle, who regularly visited his cousin, contracted the disease and died from it shortly thereafter. Grimké was heartbroken and directed all of her energy into her activism.
Grimké first met Theodore Weld in October 1836, at the agent training convention. She was greatly impressed with Weld’s speeches and wrote in a letter to a friend that Weld was “a man raised up by God and wonderfully qualified to plead the cause of the oppressed.” In the two years before they married, Weld encouraged Grimké’s activism, arranged for many of her lectures and the publication of her writings. They confessed their love for each other in letters in February 1838. They married 14 May 1838 in Philadelphia.
Although Weld was said to have been supportive of Grimké’s desire to remain politically active after their marriage, Grimké eventually retreated to a life of domesticity due to failing health. Sarah lived with the couple in New Jersey, and the sisters continued to correspond and visit with their friends in the abolitionist and emerging women's rights movements. They operated a school in their home, and later at a boarding school at Raritan Bay Union, a utopian community. At the school, they taught the children of other noted abolitionists, including Elizabeth Cady Stanton. In the years after the Civil War, they raised funds to pay for the graduate education of their two mulatto nephews, the sons of their brother Henry W. Grimké (1801-1852). The sisters paid for Archibald Henry Grimké and Rev. Francis James Grimké to attend Harvard Law School and Princeton Theological Seminary, respectively. Archibald became a lawyer and later an ambassador to Haiti and Francis became a Presbyterian minister. Both became leading civil rights activists. Archibald's daughter, Angelina Weld Grimke, became a poet and author.
Two of Grimké’s most notable works were her Appeal to the Christian Women of the South and her series of letters to Catharine Beecher.
An Appeal to the Christian Women of the South (1836)
An Appeal to the Christian Women of the South, published by the American Anti-Slavery Society, is unique because it is the only written appeal made by a Southern woman to other Southern women regarding the abolition of slavery, and written in the hopes that Southern women would not be able to resist an appeal made by one of their own. The style of the essay is very personal in nature and uses simple language and firm assertions to convey her ideas. Grimké’s Appeal was widely distributed by the American Anti-Slavery Society, and was received with great acclaim by radical abolitionists. However, it was also received with great criticism by her former Quaker community and was publicly burned in South Carolina.
The Appeal makes seven main arguments:
- First: that slavery is contrary to the Declaration of Independence;
- Second: that slavery is contrary to the first charter of human rights bestowed upon man in the Bible
- Third: that the argument that slavery was prophesized gives no excuse to slaveholders for encroaching on another man’s natural rights
- Fourth: that slavery was never supposed to exist under patriarchal dispensation
- Fifth: that slavery never existed under Hebrew Biblical law
- Sixth: that slavery in America “reduces man to a thing”
- Seventh, that slavery is contrary to the teachings of Jesus Christ and his apostles.
In this way, and as a devout believer, Grimké uses the beliefs of Christian religion to attack the idea of slavery:
"Did not Jesus condemn slavery? Let us examine some of his precepts. "Whatsoever ye would that men should do to you, do ye even so to them", Let every slaveholder apply these queries to his own heart; Am I willing to be a slave —Am I willing to see my wife the slave of another — Am I willing to see my mother a slave, or my father, my sister or my brother? If not, then in holding others as slaves, I am doing what I would not wish to be done to me or any relative I have; and thus have I broken this golden rule which was given me to walk by".—Grimké, page 14
Grimké also states, in a reply letter to Catharine E. Beecher, what she believes to be the abolitionist’s definition of slavery: “Man cannot rightfully hold his fellow man as property. Therefore, we affirm that every slaveholder is a man-stealer… To steal a man is to rob him of himself.” She reiterates well-known principles from the Declaration of Independence regarding the equality of man. Grimké argues that “a man is a man, and as a man he has inalienable rights, among which is the right to personal liberty… No circumstances can ever justify a man in holding his fellow man as property… The claim to him as property is an annihilation of his rights to himself, which is the foundation upon which all his other rights are built.”
The essay also reflects Grimké’s lifelong enthusiasm for universal education of women and slaves. Her Appeal emphasizes the importance of women's educating their slaves or future laborers: “Should [your slaves] remain [in your employ] teach them, and have them taught the common branches of an English education; they have minds and those minds, ought to be improved.”
Letters to Catharine Beecher
Grimké’s Letters to Catharine Beecher began as a series of essays made in response to Beecher’s An Essay on Slavery and Abolitionism with Reference to the Duty of American Females, which was addressed directly to Grimké. The series of responses that followed Beecher’s essay were written with the moral support of her future husband, Weld, and were published in both The Emancipator and The Liberator before being reprinted as a whole in book form by the Liberator's printer, Isaac Knapp, in 1838.
Beecher’s essay argues against the participation of women in the abolitionist movement, on the grounds that women hold a subordinate position to men as “a beneficent and immutable Divine law.” It continues to argue that “Men are the proper persons to make appeals to the rulers whom they appoint… [females] are surely out of their place in attempting to do it themselves.”
Grimké’s responses were a defense of both abolitionist and feminist movements. The arguments made in support of abolitionism reflect many of the points that Weld made in the Lane Seminary debates. Also openly critical of the American Colonization Society, Grimké states her personal appreciation for people of color and writes, “it is because I love the colored Americans that I want them to stay in this country; and in order to make it a happy home to them, I am trying to talk down, and write down, and live down this horrible prejudice.”
Grimké’s Letters are widely recognized as an early feminist argument, although only two of the letters address feminism and woman suffrage. Letter XII reflects some of the rhetorical style of the Declaration of Independence and is indicative of Grimké’s religious values. She argues that all humans are moral beings, and should be judged as such, regardless of their sex: “Measure her rights and duties by the unerring standard of moral being… and then the truth will be self-evident, that whatever it is morally right for a man to do, it is morally right for a woman to do. I recognize no rights but human rights – I know nothing of men’s rights and women’s rights; for in Christ Jesus, there is neither male nor female. It is my solemn conviction, that, until this principle of equality is recognised and embodied in practice, the Church can do nothing effectual for the permanent reformation of the world.” 
Grimké continues by directly responding to Beecher’s traditionalist argument on the place of women in all spheres of human activity: “I believe it is the woman’s right to have a voice in all the laws and regulations by which she is to be governed, whether in Church or State: and that the present arrangements of society, on these points, are a violation of human rights, a rank usurpation of power, a violent seizure and confiscation of what is sacredly and inalienably hers.”
In popular culture
- Although not an onstage character, Angelin Grimké Weld is referred to many times in Ain Gordon's 2013 play If She Stood – commissioned by the Painted Bride Art Center in Philadelphia – by the characters Sarah Moore Grimké and Angelina Weld Grimké.
- Lerner, Gerda (1967). The Grimke Sisters From South Carolina. New York: Schocken Books. ISBN 0-8052-0321-4.
- Million, Joelle, Woman's Voice, Woman's Place: Lucy Stone and the Birth of the Women's Rights Movement. Praeger, 2003. ISBN 0-275-97877-X, pp. 29-30
- For the Grimké-Beecher exchange, see 
- Katharine Henry (1997). "Angelina Grimké's Rhetoric of Exposure". American Quarterly 49 (2): 328–355.
- "Angelina Grimke". The Dinner Party: Heritage Floor. Brooklyn Museum. Retrieved 4 June 2012.
- National Womens Hall of Fame
- For the Grimké-Beecher exchange, see 
- Angelina Grimké (1836). "An Appeal to the Christian Women of the South". American Political Thought: 572–577. ISBN 978-0-393-92886-0.
- Angelina Grimké (1837). "Letter to Catharine Beecher". American Political Thought: 510–514. ISBN 978-0-393-92886-0.
- Salisbury, Stephen. "Painted Bride productions on 19th century women touch familiar issues" Philadelphia Inquirer (April 26, 2013)
- Miller, William Lee (1995). Arguing About Slavery. John Quincy Adams and the Great Battle in the United States Congress. New York: Vintage Books. ISBN 0-394-56922-9.
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- An entry from the Columbia Encyclopedia
- Robert K. Nelson, "'The Forgetfulness of Sex': Devotion and Desire in the Courtship Letters of Angelina Grimké and Theodore Dwight Weld," Journal of Social History 37 (Spring 2004): 663-679.
- Works by Angelina Grimké at Project Gutenberg
- "Weld, Theodore Dwight". Appletons' Cyclopædia of American Biography. 1889