|Byron Kathleen Mitchell|
(Byron Katie: 2006)
|Born||Byron Kathleen Reid
December 6, 1942
|Other names||Byron Katie|
"The Work (of Byron Katie)"
Byron Kathleen Mitchell, better known as Byron Katie (born December 6, 1942), is an American speaker and author who teaches a method of self-inquiry known as "The Work of Byron Katie" or simply as "The Work". She is married to the writer and translator Stephen Mitchell. She is the founder of Byron Katie International (BKI), an organization that includes The School for the Work and Turnaround House in Ojai, California.
In February 1986, while in a halfway house for women with eating disorders, Byron Katie experienced a life-changing realization: "I discovered that when I believed my thoughts, I suffered, but that when I didn’t believe them, I didn’t suffer, and that this is true for every human being. Freedom is as simple as that. I found that suffering is optional. I found a joy within me that has never disappeared, not for a single moment." Byron Katie calls her method of self-inquiry "The Work." She has taught it to people all over the world, at free public events, in prisons, hospitals, churches, corporations, shelters for survivors of domestic violence, universities and schools, at weekend intensives, and at her nine-day School for The Work.
The Work is a way of identifying and questioning any stressful thought. It consists of four questions and a turnaround. This is a way of experiencing the opposite of what you believe. The four questions are: 1) Is it true? 2) Can you absolutely know that it's true? 3) How do you react, what happens, when you believe that thought? and 4) Who would you be without the thought? The turnaround involves considering the thought in a reversed form--changing subject and object, changing yes and no, or changing it to be self-referential. For example, for the thought "My husband should treat me better," turnarounds could include "I should treat my husband better," "I should treat myself better," or "My husband shouldn't treat me better."
Byron Katie has been criticized for setting herself up as a guru figure and controlling her followers and students in a setting similar to a cult. She promotes a "one size fits all" solution to all problems and has said that The Work can eliminate all wordly problems, whether personal, social or environmental.[verification needed] Some observers think The Work can be harmful to people suffering from mental and emotional disorders, particularly those with post-traumatic stress disorder. Participants in her workshops have described extreme and intensive days that include fasting, little sleep, and public confessionals. One participant who expressed dissatisfaction during the workshop was forced to leave the premises. Janaki, a woman who worked for Byron Katie International from 1998 to 2008, has said that despite Katie's claims to have never had an angry or sad moment since her epiphany in 1986, she witnessed Katie being angry with others. 
The Work is an emotion-focused coping formula that uses denial to reinterpret stressors as unavoidable, positive experiences. Underlying Byron Katie's ideas is a modified form of moral nihilism where all actions are not only morally equivalent but inherently good. For example, she asserts that she would be joyful if her baby was killed in the Holocaust and that if she broke her arm she would "immediately begin to see the advantages".
- Loving What Is: Four Questions That Can Change Your Life, with Stephen Mitchell, Harmony Books, 2002, ISBN 0-609-60874-6 (HC)
- I Need Your Love - Is That True? How to Stop Seeking Love, Appreciation, and Approval and Start Finding Them Instead, with Michael Katz, Harmony Books, 2005, ISBN 1-4000-5107-X (HC)
- A Thousand Names for Joy: Living in Harmony with the Way Things Are, with Stephen Mitchell, Harmony Books, 2007. ISBN 978-0-307-33923-2 (HC)
- Question Your Thinking, Change the World: Quotations from Byron Katie, edited by Stephen Mitchell, Hay House, 2007. ISBN 978-1-4019-1730-2 (PB)
- Who Would You Be Without Your Story?: Dialogues with Byron Katie, edited by Carol Williams, Hay House, 2008 ISBN 978-1-4019-2179-8 (PB)
- Tiger-Tiger, Is It True?, illustrated by Hans Wilhelm, Hay House, 2009 ISBN 978-1-4019-2560-4 (HC)
- Peace in the Present Moment, with Eckhart Tolle, Hampton Roads Pub Co Inc 2010, Newburyport, MA 2010, ISBN 978-1-57174-643-6
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