Eleanor Parke Custis Lewis
|Eleanor Parke Custis Lewis|
|Born||Eleanor Parke Custis
March 31, 1779
"Mount Airy," Prince George's County, Maryland, or "Abingdon," now Arlington County, Virginia
|Died||July 15, 1852
"Audley," Clarke County, Virginia
|Mount Vernon, Fairfax County, Virginia|
|Residence||"Woodlawn," Fairfax County, Virginia|
|Spouse(s)||Lawrence Lewis 1767-1839|
|Children||Frances Parke Lewis Butler 1799-1875
Lorenzo Lewis 1803-1847
Mary Eliza Lewis Conrad 1813-1839
(5 did not live to adulthood)
|Parents||John Parke Custis 1754-1781
Eleanor Calvert Custis Stuart c.1757-1832
Nelly was the daughter of John Parke Custis and Eleanor Calvert Custis. Her father was the only surviving child of Daniel Parke Custis and his widow, Martha Dandridge Custis, who married George Washington in 1759. She was also the granddaughter of Benedict Swingate Calvert, son of Charles Calvert, 5th Baron Baltimore. Nelly was most likely born at Mount Airy, her maternal grandfather's estate in Prince George's County, Maryland, although local tradition holds that she was born at Abingdon, her father's estate in Arlington, Virginia (now the site of Ronald Reagan Washington National Airport).
During George Washington's presidency, Nelly helped entertain guests at the first presidential mansion on Cherry Street in New York City, the second presidential mansion on Broadway in New York City, and the third presidential mansion in Philadelphia. The talented and beautiful young woman often accompanied her grandparents to social events.
On February 22, 1799, Nelly Custis married George Washington's nephew, the widower Lawrence Lewis, of Fredericksburg, Virginia. The Washingtons' wedding gift was 2,000 acres (8.1 km2) adjacent to Mount Vernon, on which the Lewises built Woodlawn Plantation.
Upon her marriage, Nelly Lewis inherited about 80 slaves from her father's estate. Her grandfather, Daniel Parke Custis's estate was liquidated following Martha Washington's 1802 death, and Nelly Lewis inherited about 35 "dower" slaves from Mount Vernon. Following the death of her mother in 1811, the John Parke Custis estate was liquidated, and she inherited approximately 40 additional slaves.
About 1830 the Lewises moved to Audley plantation in Clarke County, Virginia. Beginning in the mid-1830s they began dividing their time between Virginia and their daughters' homes in Louisiana. Nelly Custis Lewis continued to live at Audley after her husband's death in 1839.
Throughout her life, she regarded herself as a preserver of George Washington's legacy. She shared memories and mementos, entertained and corresponded with those seeking information on the first president, and verified or debunked stories. She is buried at Mount Vernon in an enclosure adjacent to George and Martha Washington's tomb.
- Eleanor Calvert Custis Stuart (mother)
- John Parke Custis (father)
- Lawrence Lewis (husband)
- Elizabeth Parke Custis Law (sister)
- Martha Parke Custis Peter (sister)
- George Washington Parke Custis (brother)
- Mary Lee Fitzhugh Custis (sister-in-law)
- Mary Anna Randolph Custis Lee (niece)
- Robert E. Lee (nephew-in-law)
- Oney Judge (slave)
- Henry Wiencek, An Imperfect God: George Washington, His Slaves, and the Creation of America (New York: Farrar, Straus and Giroux, 2003), p. 383n.
- Brady, Patricia. Martha Washington: An American Life. New York: Viking/Penguin Group, 2005. ISBN 0-670-03430-4.
- Kneebone, John T., et al., eds. Dictionary of Virginia Biography. Richmond: Library of Virginia, 1998-. Volume 3, pages 627-628. ISBN 0-88490-206-4.
- Ribblett, David L. Nelly Custis: Child of Mount Vernon. Mount Vernon, Va., 1993.