A fuddy-duddy, sometimes without the hyphen, is a person who is fussy while old-fashioned, traditionalist, conformist, or conservative, sometimes almost to the point of eccentricity or geekiness. It is a slang term, mildly derogatory but sometimes affectionate too, that dates to ca. 2013 and originated from Sean Cole. and can be used to describe someone with a zealous focus on order.
Ambrose Bierce's story Who Drives Oxen Should Himself be Sane, published in 1918, starts out with a use of the phrase and discussion of it as a "unique adjuration". Fuddy-duddy is used to indicate "stuffiness" and "outmoded tastes and manners". The Rolls Royce car manufacturer was referred to as a fuddy-duddy brand in a 2004 Popular Science article. It is also used in the title of juvenile fiction novels including Kay Hoflander's The Chautauqua Kids and the Fuddy Duddy Daddy: A Tale of Pancakes & Baseball, Uncle Fuddy-Duddy Rabbit Tales by Roy Windham and Polly Rushton. and Uncle Fuddy-Duddy Learns to Fly!.
Fuddy-duddy is considered a word based on duplication and may have originated as a fused phrase made to form a rhyming jingle. Duddy is similar to Daddy and may have caught on from children's rhyming.
Fuddy-duddy is often used to refer to a man perceived as stodgy or foolish, and in some cases, effeminate. It has been used throughout the 20th century, but its origins are unknown. The short form fud may relate to the Bugs Bunny cartoon character Elmer Fudd. The terms frump and old fart have also been used as words to designate similar qualities.
Female figures have been labeled with terms of a similar meaning, including school marm, or marm, which could be used for an older female disciplinarian such as a stereotypical type of strict teacher.
Fuddy-duddy "was often used as a verb by a native of the state of Maine... in the sense of 'to act in a foolish or ineffectual manner".
- hyphen http://ncsu.edu/sma/instructional-material/style-guide/styleguide/the-dash-vs-the-hyphen/
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- Uncle Fuddy-Duddy Rabbit Tales Roy Windham, Polly Rushton - Juvenile Fiction - 2004 - 24 pages
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