GayRomeo
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| URL | www.gayromeo.com |
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| Slogan | Make friends, get dates, have sex |
| Commercial? | Yes |
| Type of site | Social Networking and Dating website |
| Registration | Optional |
| Available language(s) | Chinese, Czech, Dutch, English, French, German, Greek, Hindi, Hungarian, Italian, Polish, Portuguese, Romanian, Russian, Serbian, Spanish, Swedish, Tagalog, Thai, Turkish |
| Owner | PlanetRomeo B.V. |
| Created by | Jens Schmidt and Manuel Abraham |
| Launched | October 2002 |
| Current status | Active |
GayRomeo is a worldwide social network, instant messaging and dating community for gay, bisexual and transgender men. The site was established in October 2002 by PlanetRomeo GmbH in Berlin, Germany. According to its own figures, GayRomeo has more than 6,740,000 registered profiles and 1,107,000[1] active users worldwide and is the biggest German-speaking chat and dating community for gay, bisexual and transgender men on the web.
Because of its German origins the majority of GayRomeo's users come from German-speaking countries Germany, Austria and Switzerland. However, since the site is available in altogether 20 languages (English, Chinese, Spanish, Hindi, Russian, Portuguese, French, Tagalog, Turkish, Italian, Thai, Polish, Romanian, Dutch, Serbian, Greek, Hungarian, Czech, and Swedish), the number of users from non-German-speaking countries is constantly increasing.
In order to expand the international services of GayRomeo and in order to avoid possible legal problems with the comparatively strict German laws for the protection of children and young people,[2] GayRomeo has been operated by PlanetRomeo B.V. located in Amsterdam, the Netherlands since September 2006.
In March 2009 the online community Guys4Men.com joined up GayRomeo.[3]
Users who prefer to keep the site layout strictly non-sexual and inconspicuous, can use a graphical neutral version and a small GayRomeo-messenger available under www.planetromeo.com . This can be helpful when using GayRomeo in gay-unfriendly public spaces like offices, hotels or internet cafés.
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[edit] Social coverage and impact
| Country | User |
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| Germany | 372,347 |
| Italy | 109,915 |
| Philippines | 107,678 |
| India | 82,668 |
| France | 78,766 |
| Spain | 61,860 |
| Switzerland | 37,691 |
| Malaysia | 32,386 |
| Thailand | 32,369 |
| United Kingdom | 29,803 |
| Austria | 28,355 |
| Netherlands | 25,347 |
| Greece | 23,315 |
| Belgium | 23,285 |
| USA | 22,935 |
| Turkey | 19,563 |
| Poland | 16,076 |
| Romania | 14,554 |
| Singapore | 12,047 |
| Hungary | 10,101 |
| Serbia | 10,069 |
| Morocco | 9,048 |
| Indonesia | 8,462 |
| Brazil | 7,338 |
| Canada - Alberta |
6,677 |
| Croatia | 6,529 |
| Russia | 5,972 |
| China | 5,819 |
| Australia | 5,494 |
| Portugal | 5,099 |
| Sweden | 4,677 |
| United Arab Emirates |
4,675 |
| Mexico | 4,181 |
| Czech Republic | 3,695 |
| Colombia | 3,472 |
| Finland | 3,421 |
| Ghana | 3,347 |
| Slovenia | 3,270 |
| Ireland | 3,046 |
| Bulgaria | 2,933 |
| Peru | 2,763 |
| Argentina | 2,750 |
| Norway | 2,678 |
| Israel | 2,672 |
| Cyprus | 2,493 |
| Denmark | 2,410 |
| Côte d'Ivoire | 2,310 |
| Cameroon | 2,226 |
| Bosnia and Herzegovina |
2,192 |
| Algeria | 2,127 |
| Vietnam | 2,121 |
| South Africa | 1,986 |
| Luxembourg | 1,968 |
| Egypt | 1,728 |
| Macedonia | 1,686 |
| Ukraine | 1,626 |
| Venezuela | 1,584 |
| Japan | 1,528 |
| Slovakia | 1,415 |
| Taiwan | 1,380 |
| Lebanon | 1,377 |
| Cuba | 1,286 |
| Chile | 1,275 |
| Saudi Arabia | 1,190 |
| Estonia | 1,145 |
| New Zealand | 1,009 |
| Ecuador | 1,006 |
| Other | 26,723 |
| Worldwide | 1,324,939 |
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In Germany, due to its high number of registered users, GayRomeo is often called the "Gay Registry Office" (schwules Einwohnermeldeamt) or "The Blue pages" (Die blauen Seiten), referring to the well known telephone directories the yellow pages and the white pages. Of course not every gay man is registered on GayRomeo, but GayRomeo reaches almost every social and professional class and includes people from all walks of life. In a satirical reference to the Nazis' compilation of lists of homosexual men in the 1930's, the German newspaper "Taz" announced: "The pink lists are back".[4]
Just like general Internet use, the use of GayRomeo varies depending on age, education level and other criteria. Even politicians are known to use the services of GayRomeo. For example, member of the German Parliament Volker Beck (Green Party) offered virtual consulting hours on GayRomeo during the election campaigns of 2005.
[edit] Influence on the gay scene
The increasing popularity of GayRomeo and other chat and dating websites has had a great impact on the general social behaviour of gay and bisexual men and their subculture. Traditional cruising areas like parks, motorway picnic areas, public toilets etc. are nowadays much less busy than they used to be. Dating via the internet reflects a need for more security. Many men prefer to have the opportunity to check out sexual compatibility through chatting before meeting someone in real life.
At the same time, gay cafés, bars, clubs, saunas etc., in traditionally popular gay centres have become less popular in recent years while web services have thrived. There may be no direct correlation between these two trends as other social factors certainly play a role: high prices, an aging population and the increased integration of gays in wider society all play a role. Over the past 10 years the increase in popularity of large scale parties has no doubt also had a negative impact on smaller bars and clubs.
[edit] Countering social isolation
One key reason for the constantly increasing popularity of GayRomeo and other web services seems to be the permanent availability of date and sex partners no matter if you are at home, at work, in a hotel or an internet café regardless of where you are in the world. Some behavioural theories say that websites like GayRomeo support the social isolation of individuals and can lead to a form of addiction. According to these theories addicted internet users neglect their social contacts in the "real" world while not establishing or maintaining appropriate new contacts. The original motivation to build up new social contacts with people of similar interests via the internet can lead to an endlessly repeated search for new friends.
The other side to this coin is that services like GayRomeo can provide a lifeline to men living in isolated areas, cities or even countries where there is little or no established gay community. GayRomeo has proved especially important for gay men in small cities and villages as for them it is much harder to find other gay men or in their area. Certainly many valuable friendships and relationships have came about due to GayRomeo and other web services.
[edit] Controversies on GayRomeo
[edit] Real vs fake
Fake or inaccurate user profiles are a known problem in web communities. The anonymous nature of the internet allows people to create inaccurate or fictional profiles for themselves.[5] Age and body type are the areas of information that are most commonly misreported, but profile may also contain photos that have been retouched or that are of third parties. Some users may even create several different profiles according to different preferences and moods. As a protection against fakers GayRomeo employs an interactive system whereby users can mark each other's profiles as "personally known". The more a profile has been saved as "known", the higher the credibility of the profile and its owner.
Fakers on GayRomeo can also be reported through a system of user feedback and are quickly removed from the site. In general therefore the GayRomeo community is only slightly influenced by fakers.
[edit] Safer sex
Gay Dating Websites have been linked to an elevation of risk for acquiring HIV and other STI's when compared to other methods of meeting partners.[6] Some sites have even been created specifically for men who are looking for bareback (unprotected) sex partners. To counter this trend GayRomeo offers detailed and high-profile information about safer sex, the risks associated with barebacking and other sexually transmitted diseases. Reflecting its community roots GayRomeo also freely gives its own point of view about such issues.
Contact information for HIV/AIDS support groups and organisations in Germany, Austria, Switzerland is also provided on the website. There is no censoring of user profiles that promote unsafe sex or barebacking, but in their profiles users have the option to state their position regarding safer sex to indicate whether they always or never practise safer sex or whether the issue for them requires discussion.
In addition to the health information available on the site, in February 2007 GayRomeo launched a live and online health advise service in cooperation with Germany's national NGO for HIV/Aids issues Deutsche Aids-Hilfe. The online supporters are trained in questions of health and healthcare, and all user's enquires are dealt with in the strictest confidence. In this way users are offered the same level of service as when Deutsche Aids-Hilfe do their outreach work in gay bars, clubs and saunas.
[edit] Using GayRomeo
[edit] Personal profiles
To access GayRomeo users create an individual profile which typically includes a simple physical description and one or more photographs of themselves. Sexual preferences, cultural interests and hobbies can be added optionally. GayRomeo is exclusively for men (gay, bisexual or transgendered) of eighteen years or older. Profiles of other users are removed as are profiles that contain commercial or illegal content.
The purpose of a personal profile is to present a user in an accurate and attractive way to others for chatting, dating or for sex. It is interesting to note that many users do not see GayRomeo primarily as a tool for sexual encounters but as a new way of making and keeping in touch with friends.
GayRomeo differs from some other internet forums in that it is not a Chatroom in the traditional sense. Messages sent between two users cannot be seen by other users and can only be sent from one user to another. Its function therefore is similar to a messenger.
[edit] Clubs and guide entries
Aside from personal messaging, GayRomeo offers users the chance to create clubs-profiles and guide-entries as another way of getting in touch with gay men sharing similar interests. For example the regular customers of a bar or sauna can link their private profile to the club or guide-profile of that place. Members of a particular club can exchange news or discuss diverse subjects in the club’s forum or via a newsletter. Clubs also exist for supporters of political parties, members of religious groups and employees in particular industries. There are also clubs that are more sex or fetish orientated such as a club for men who like men with big ears. There are also fan-clubs for pop or movie stars, classical music etc. In fact, since any user can create a club-profile, the list is limitless.
[edit] Community information
Reflecting its community ethos GayRomeo also includes a lot of information regarding safer sex, coming out, health support as well as links to gay magazines and other community organizations. All these functions are free on GayRomeo. Unlike most other gay dating websites, users with a free account can send and receive as many messages as they wish.
[edit] Plus accounts
Some additional features are reserved for users who upgrade to a so called "plus"-account such as customized profile design, picture search and SSL-encrypted log-in. Also, in cooperation with some studios that produce gay sex movies, a plus account offers one free full gay porn movie every about 30 days. The plus-account has a small monthly charge. The website also provides free "plus" accounts for users who are living in countries where homosexuality is illegal.
[edit] The PlanetRomeo Foundation
The PlanetRomeo Foundation was established in the Netherlands in 2009.[7] The foundation is a brain-child of GayRomeo.com. The website of the foundation is [3].
To raise money for or otherwise support charities or other good causes, in particular but not limited to those concerned with the interests of the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender (LGBT) communities in areas such as education, culture, gay rights, health, emancipation and sport. To perform other activities that may in some way or to some extent benefit those communities.
[edit] References
- ^ GayRomeo Statistics
- ^ Gayromeo Statement concerning the German Youth Protection Law
- ^ Article of Austrian magazine "Gayboy" (in German)
- ^ Die Tagezeitung - Gefährlich hoher Datingfaktor (in German)
- ^ Davies, Scott W: "I Liked Your Profile: Experiences in Gay Online Dating", page 7. iUniverse, 2005
- ^ Halkitis, Wilton & Drescher: "Barebacking: Psychosocial and Public Health Approaches", page 20. Haworth Medical Press, 2006
- ^ [1]
- ^ [2]
