Melissa Drexler (born 1978) is an American who delivered a baby in a restroom stall during her high school prom. She put the newborn in the trash and then returned to the dance. Drexler pled guilty to aggravated manslaughter, and was sentenced to 15 years of imprisonment. After serving nearly 37 months, she was released on parole.
Drexler attended Lacey Township High School in the Forked River section of Lacey Township, New Jersey. She kept her pregnancy secret from the baby's father, her parents and friends. Five feet seven inches tall, and about 60 kg (130 pounds) when not pregnant, she apparently showed no signs of her pregnancy. On June 6, 1997, Drexler gave birth in a toilet stall at her senior prom. She then retrieved the baby from the toilet bowl, cut the umbilical cord on the serrated edge of a sanitary napkin dispenser, wrapped the baby in several garbage bags, and deposited the bundle in a trash can. She then returned to the dance floor.
The body of the baby was discovered by a janitor who responded to reports of blood in the restroom and who became suspicious of the weight of the trash bag. Emergency workers attempted to resuscitate the baby for two hours. Originally charged with murder, Drexler pled guilty to aggravated manslaughter on August 20, 1998, and Judge John A. Ricciardi sentenced her to 15 years in prison, the maximum penalty. On November 26, 2001, she was released on parole after serving a little over three years. Drexler was nicknamed the "The Prom Mom" by the American media.
The Nickelback song "Throw Yourself Away", which appeared on their 2003 album The Long Road, is about Drexler. The case, along with that of Amy Grossberg and Brian Peterson, also inspired the Family Guy musical number Prom Night Dumpster Baby in the episode Airport '07.
In The Rise and Fall of the American Teenager, Thomas Hine uses Drexler's case to embody "the grotesque consequences of the teenage mystique", or the harm from qualities associated with teenagers.
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