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A personal or personal ad is an item or notice traditionally in the newspaper, similar to a classified ad but personal [disambiguation needed] in nature. With its rise in popularity, the World Wide Web has also become a common medium for personals, commonly referred to as online dating. Personals are generally meant to generate romance, friendship, or casual (sometimes sexual) encounters, and usually include a basic description of the person posting it, and their interests.
Due to newspaper prices being based on characters or lines of text, a jargon of abbreviations, acronyms and code words arose in personals, and have carried over to the internet.
[edit] Examples of single-letter abbreviations used in three-letter acronyms (TLA)
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The first letter describes the person seeking.
[edit] Middle letter
The middle letter represents the ethnicity of the person posting the ad. Can be replaced by 4, standing for for ("seeking", "desires", etc.).
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- 225: Seeking domination (i.e. will accept when told that 2+2=5)
- 420 (or 4:20): refers to cannabis (see 420 (cannabis culture))
- ASL: Age Stats Location OR Age Sex Location
- ATM: Ass To Mouth - Anal copulation where the penis pulls out and ejaculates into a mouth
- B&D (also B/D): Bondage and Discipline
- BB: Bodybuilder, or Barebacking
- BBC: Big Black Cock, or Big Black Cunt
- BBW: Big Beautiful Woman (Overweight)
- BDSM: Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and submission, Sadism and masochism
- BF: Black Female, or Boyfriend
- BHM: Big Handsome Man (uncommon, see BBW)
- Bi: Bisexual
- BiF: Bisexual Female
- BiM: Bisexual Male
- BJ: Blow Job (Fellatio)
- BMW: (Big Mexican Woman) overweight Mexican woman
- BOTS: Bit on the Side
- BTW: By The Way...
- BWC: Big White Cock
- CBT: Cock & Ball Torture, used in BDSM
- CD: Cross Dresser
- CFNM: Clothed female, naked male
- CP: Cock Play, between 2 or more males
- D/D: drug and disease
- DDF: Drug and Disease Free
- DL: Down low: secretive same gender sex, often parallel to a heterosexual relationship
- Dom: Male Dominant partner/participant in BDSM
- Domme: Female Dominant partner/participant in BDSM
- DP: Double Penetration, as when one person is penetrated by two objects
- D/s: Dominance and Submission - lowercased "s" signifies power exchange
- DTE: Down-to-earth
- DWF: Divorced White Female
- DWM: Divorced White Male
- FB: Fuck-Buddy
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- FTM: Female-to-Male Transgender
- FWB: Friend With Benefits (friendship plus sex and no emotions)
- GAM: Gay Asian Male
- GB: Gang Bang, a person having sex with multiple partners in turn or simultaneously
- GBM: Gay Black Male
- GF: Gay Female (Lesbian), or Girlfriend
- GG: Genetic Girl/Real Girl/All-Girl as opposed to a TV/TS/TG "girl"
- GHM: Gay Hispanic Male
- GSOH: Good Sense Of Humour
- GWC: Gay White Couple
- GWF: Gay White Female
- GWM: Gay White Male
- Het: Heterosexual
- HJ: Hand-Job
- HWP: Height Weight Proportional: indicates an 'ideal' body weight
- IRL: In Real Life: face to face meeting
- ISO: In Search Of
- LF: Looking For
- LTR: Long Term Relationship (opposite of NSA)
- M4M: Man seeking man
- M4MW: Man seeking man and woman
- M4T: Male seeking transsexual or transvestite (cross dresser)
- M4W: Man seeking woman
- MBC: Married Black Couple
- MBiC: Married Bisexual Couple
- MHC: Married Hispanic Couple
- MOTOS: Member of the Opposite Sex
- MOTSS: Member of the Same Sex
- MTF: Male-to-Female Transgender
- MW4M: Man and woman seeking man
- MW4MW: Man and woman seeking man and woman
- MW4W: Man and woman seeking woman
- MWC: Married White Couple
- ND: Non-drinker
- NS: Non-smoker or non-smoking
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- NSA: No strings attached (no future obligation—opposite of LTR)
- OFAC: Own Flat And Car
- OHAC: Own House And Car
- OTK: Over The Knee, see erotic spanking
- PNP: Party and Play (drugs, usually crystal meth, and sex)
- Poly: Polyamory
- Pre-Op: Pre-operative transsexual with genitalia unaltered, typically male-to-female
- RTS: Real-Time Sex
- S&M (also S/M): Sadomasochism (Sadism & Masochism)
- SAE: Self Addressed Envelope
- SASE: Self Addressed Stamped Envelope
- SBF: Single Black Female
- SBM: Single Black Male
- SBiF: Single Bisexual Female
- SBiM: Single Bisexual Male
- ski: an outdoor snow or water sport, or code for cocaine use
- snow: cocaine
- SSBBW: Super-Sized Big Beautiful Woman
- STD: sexually transmitted disease
- Str8: Straight (not bisexual or gay)
- sub (also subby or subbie): Submissive participant in BDSM
- SWF: Single White Female
- SWM: Single White Male
- SWS: Sex Without Strings (one night stand)
- TG: Transgender person
- Tina: Methamphetamine
- TLC: Tender Loving Care
- TS (also Transsexual or Tranny): Transsexual person, typically male-to-female
- TT: Titty-Torture, used in BDSM
- TV: Transvestite
- TYVM: Thank You Very Much
- VAS: Vasectomy
- VGL: Very Good Looking
- W/E: Well Endowed: larger than average male organ
- W/S: Watersports
- W4M: Woman seeking man
- W4MW: Woman seeking man and woman
- W4W: Woman seeking woman
- WLTM: Would Like To Meet
- YO: Years Old
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