Pre-engagement ring

A pre-engagement ring (also known as a promise ring) is a ring given to a romantic partner to signify a commitment to a monogamous relationship, often as a precursor to an engagement ring. Promise rings can be worn on any finger, but those symbolizing pre-engagement are generally worn on the left ring finger; sometimes, the left middle finger or right ring finger is used instead to prevent confusion with an actual engagement ring.

History

Promise rings allegedly date back to the 16th century. One illustration,^{[citation needed]} dating from 1576, might be showing a promise ring being given, demonstrating that the tradition could have existed at that early date. In those days, when a man could not afford to get married, he would often give his intended bride a promise ring as a placeholder until marriage became possible.

During Shakespeare's time, poesy rings were popular among young couples. Each band was engraved with romantic sayings such as "vous et nul autres" (you and no others) or "a ma vie de coeur entier" (my whole heart for my whole life), binding the lover's words to the beloved's body.

During the 20th century, in some instances women would offer men's promise rings to their man because, at the time, he was unable to commission to be wed.^{[citation needed]} It was generally a surprise offering and was something the man could accept or deny. Tradition generally holds that these rings were given by younger couples. This was usually the case because it was normal for the young couple not to have a wealth position that would allow for marriage and children.

See also

• Wedding ring
• Engagement ring
• Dating
• Claddagh ring