Roberto Emilio Arias (1918 – 1989), known as "Tito", was a Panamanian international lawyer, diplomat and journalist who was the husband of Dame Margot Fonteyn. Arias was from a prominent Panamanian political family, whose members had reached the Presidency four times; amongst them, his own father, Harmodio Arias.
Marriage to Fonteyn
In 1955, Arias married the great English ballerina Margot Fonteyn, after divorcing his first wife, with whom he had three children. After his marriage, Arias was appointed as Panama's Ambassador to the United Kingdom. In 1959 he and Dame Margot were charged with attempted gun-smuggling from their yacht off the coast of Panama and he was accused of fomenting a revolt against Ernesto de la Guardia Jr., who was then President. She was immediately deported to England; he took refuge in the Brazilian Embassy for two months before being given safe conduct out of the country. Eventually the charges were dropped and, after a governmental change, the couple were permitted to return to Panama. Documents released in March 2010 by the British government showed that they were both involved in the coup attempt which failed due to a last-minute blunder.
In May 1964 he was elected to the National Assembly, his first venture into active politics. Two months later he was shot in an argument with a friend and former political associate, Alberto Jiménez, on a street corner in a suburb of Panama City. It was widely rumored that the shooting was a result of an affair that Arias was having with Jimenez's wife. Arias was treated for 18 months in British hospitals and spent the rest of his life as a quadriplegic, using a wheelchair. One of the reasons Fonteyn continued to dance so late in life was to pay for Arias's enormous medical bills. Colette Clark, a close friend who worked with Fonteyn on Royal Academy of Dancing galas, said:
People said it was such a tragedy, his being shot. Of course it wasn't a tragedy, because she got what she wanted. Someone to look after and love and lavish with all the devotion and strength of her marvellous character.
Personal life and death
During Fonteyn's absence from Panama on tour as a ballerina, a socialite named Anabella Vallarino would move into the house as his shadow wife and move out again before Fonteyn's return. On the day of Tito's death on November 22, 1989, Vallarino committed suicide by swallowing a bottle of chlorine and the two were buried on the same day.
In addition to Dame Margot, Dr. Arias was survived by two daughters, Querube Brillembourg and Rosita Vallarino; a son, Roberto Arias; two brothers, Harmodio and Gilberto; a sister, Rosario de Galindo, and six grandchildren.