The Opposite of Sex

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For the 1956 drama, see The Opposite Sex. For the musical, see The Opposite of Sex (musical).
The Opposite of Sex
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Theatrical release poster
Directed by Don Roos
Produced by David Kirkpatrick
Michael Besman
Written by Don Roos
Starring Christina Ricci
Martin Donovan
Lisa Kudrow
Lyle Lovett
Johnny Galecki
Ivan Sergei
Music by Mason Daring
Cinematography Hubert Taczanowski
Edited by David Codron
Distributed by Sony Pictures Classics
Release date(s)
  • May 22, 1998 (1998-05-22)
Running time 105 minutes
Country United States
Language English
Budget $5 million
Box office $5,881,367

The Opposite of Sex is a 1998 film written and directed by Don Roos and stars Christina Ricci, Martin Donovan and Lisa Kudrow.[1]


Teenager Dedee Truitt (Ricci) runs away from home after her stepfather's funeral and moves in with her half-brother Bill (Donovan), a gay teacher in a conservative, suburban community in Saint Joseph County, Indiana.

Dedee seduces Bill's young lover, Matt (Sergei), then tricks him into believing he has impregnated her. In fact, the father of her child is her ex-boyfriend Randy Cates (Scott). She and Matt elope, leaving Bill and the uptight Lucia (Kudrow), the sister of Bill's deceased partner Tom, to track them down and sort out the mess. In the meantime, Matt's "bit on the side", Jason Bock (Galecki), attempts to blackmail Bill in order to track down Matt, claiming Bill sexually assaulted him while he was a student. Bill and Lucia find Dedee and Matt, only to discover Dedee has stolen Tom's ashes and is holding them for ransom. Randy also finds Dedee; they inform Matt that they are taking the ashes and moving to have the baby elsewhere. They escape but soon get into an argument that leads to Dedee accidentally shooting Randy. She and Matt escape to Canada, and Bill eventually finds them.

After giving birth to Randy Jr., Dedee returns Tom's ashes to Bill, apologizing for her actions in the past year. After a few months in prison, she moves back in with Bill, while Matt and Jason go traveling together, and Lucia marries her old friend Carl (Lovett). Eventually, Dedee decides that Randy Jr. would be better off alone with Bill (who is now dating Dedee's parole officer) and runs away.

Narrating the ending, Dedee sarcastically concludes that sex is precisely the opposite of what people should want, leading as it does to kids, disease or, worst of all, relationships. At the end of the film, the vignettes of the various caring relationships among the characters show the opposite of superficial sexual gratification.



For its North American run, The Opposite of Sex took in film rentals of $5,881,367. The opening weekend saw a per screen average of $20,477 for the 5 theaters showing it.

Janet Maslin in The New York Times called it a "gleefully acerbic comedy". Christina Ricci's performance was widely praised, she also received a Golden Globe nomination for Best Actress in a Comedy. Roger Ebert especially enjoyed the voice-over narration supplied in-character by Ricci, calling it "refreshing" and comparing it to Mystery Science Theater 3000:

When you've seen enough movies, alas, you can sense the gears laboriously turning, and you know with a sinking heart that there will be no surprises. The Dede character subverts those expectations; she shoots the legs out from under the movie with perfectly timed zingers. I hate people who talk during movies, but if she were sitting behind me in the theater, saying all of this stuff, I'd want her to keep right on talking.

Overall, the film scored an 80% on the Rotten Tomatoes site.

American Film Institute recognition:


The film began in the aftermath of another film Don Roos had been working on that had shut down when the lead actress left it, putting Roos in house-bound funk.[citation needed] He had a mental image of a woman throwing a chair into an open grave at a funeral and from that one image grew the script of The Opposite of Sex.[citation needed]

Production began on June 8, 1997, with the filming of a library scene between Kudrow and Donovan that would ultimately be cut from the finished film.[citation needed] The restaurant scene was shot at the closed Chasen's restaurant site[citation needed] (Dan Bucatinsky, Roos' life-partner, makes a cameo during this scene as the waiter).[citation needed]


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