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Xin Xianying (191 - 269) was the daughter of Xin Pi, an official of Cao Wei during the Three Kingdoms period of Chinese history. The tribulations of this period caused insecurity and her brother Xin Chang repeatedly asked her for advice.
Xin Xianying's words showed her wisdom and practicality, for which she is famous now. Many times Xin Xianying spoke her mind, even when others couldn't.
Her hometown was in Longxi County, Gansu. Her father was a high-ranking official as an imperial adviser. As a young girl she became known for her studying. When she was sixteen, she married the aristocratic Yang Dan. During the uncertain times of the three kingdoms, her brother often asked her for advice.
In 234, when Zhuge Liang gave Sima Yi the lady's dress attempting to stir up Sima's anger. Sima wrote to Cao Rui and asked for the authority to fight Shu's forces (it was not known in history whether Sima Yi did this because he was angry himself, or just doing it to calm down his generals). Xin Pi thought it was amusing and told it to his daughter at the dinner-table, Xin Xianying replied with a serious tone, "The army determines the fate of a nation, nobody can afford to joke over that. Fighting the enemy because of anger often leads to unexpected losses, it is something we should avoid." Xin Pi thanked his daughter, and replied Cao Rui next day, advising him to enforce Sima Yi to defend his camp and wait for opportunities. Zhuge Liang died of illness the following month.
- Chen Shou. Records of Three Kingdoms, Chapter 25, Biography of Xin Pi.
- Bennet Peterson, Barbara (2000). Notable Women of China: Shang Dynasty to the Early Twentieth Century. M.E. Sharpe, Inc.