A Voice for Men
|Motto||Changing the Cultural Narrative|
|Purpose||Men's issues, Anti-feminism|
A Voice for Men (also known as AVfM, AVFM or AV4M) is a United States-based for-profit limited liability company and online publication founded in 2009 by Paul Elam. A proponent of the men's rights movement, or "Men's Human Rights Activism", it is the largest and most influential men's rights website. Its editorial position is strongly antifeminist and frequently accuses feminists of being misandrist in their mindset.
AVFM hosts articles, radio shows, and a forum. It occasionally features groups. AVFM's staff members and contributors are unpaid volunteers with the exception of the founder. The site has an online store, called The Red Pill Shop, which sells T-shirts, cell phone covers, and holiday decorations. The site also accepts donations, all of which go to Elam, who says he uses the money to advance his cause. According to Dun & Bradstreet's database, AVFM has an estimated $120,000 in yearly revenue and one employee.
In early 2011, AVFM created the website Register-Her, a wiki page which listed the names, addresses and other personal information of women that AVFM considered guilty of crimes against men, false rape accusations, or bigotry against men. Under the motto "Why are these women not in jail?", the site also published personally identifying information of women who participated in protests against the men's rights movement (MRM), mocked the MRM on social media, or women who voiced feminist ideas. AVFM founder Paul Elam stated that there would no longer be "any place to hide on the internet" for "lying bitches."
In 2014, AVFM launched a website called White Ribbon, adopting graphics and language from the White Ribbon Campaign, a violence prevention program which was established in 1991. AVFM's White Ribbon site was initially established as a response to the White Ribbon Campaign, arguing that women's shelters were "hotbeds of gender hatred" and that "corrupt" academics had conspired to conceal violence against men. The website was harshly criticized by Todd Minerson, Executive Director of White Ribbon, who stated that the AVFM White Ribbon website is a "misguided attempt to discredit others" and urged its supporters to "not to be fooled by this copycat campaign".
AVFM individuals assisted in setting up the first International Conference on Men’s Issues, which was held in Detroit, Michigan. Elam stated that the choice of the city took place since it represents "masculinity". Held in June 2014, individuals that spoke included Mike Buchanan and Warren Farrell. Topics discussed included the affect of unemployment on men in the aftermath of the world economic recession, the possibility of developing a male birth control pill, and attempts to increase care for men who had served in the U.S. military.
AVFM was included in a list of twelve websites in the spring 2012 issue ("The Year in Hate and Extremism") of the Southern Poverty Law Center's (SPLC) Intelligence Report in a section called "Misogyny: The Sites". The dozen sites were described in the report as "women-hating" and "thick with misogynistic attacks that can be astounding for the guttural hatred they express". Later that year, the SPLC published a statement about the reactions to their report, saying it "provoked a tremendous response among men's rights activists (MRAs) and their sympathizers", and "It should be mentioned that the SPLC did not label MRAs as members of a hate movement; nor did our article claim that the grievances they air on their websites – false rape accusations, ruinous divorce settlements and the like – are all without merit. But we did call out specific examples of misogyny and the threat, overt or implicit, of violence."
A 2014 statement by the SPLC criticized the International Conference on Men’s Issues, particularly finding fault with the citations made that "40% to 50% of rape allegations are false" since the SPLC views that "the best scholarly studies show that between about 2% and 8% of such allegations are actually false— a rate that is comparable for false allegations of most other violent crimes." However, the organization's statement also argued that the AVFM-associated conference was "relatively subdued" given that most of those there worked to keep "vitriol to a minimum" in the discussions. A commentary on the nature of grief for men received praise from the SPLC, but the organization cautioned that the nature of prior material stated by those in AVFM was still a severe problem.
AVFM's rhetoric has been described as misogynist and hateful by commentators such as Leah McLaren, Jaclyn Friedman, Jill Filipovic, Brad Casey, Clementine Ford and Mark Potok of the SPLC. Writing in the New York Times, Charles McGrath stated that websites like AVFM contain "a certain amount of anti-feminist hostility, if not outright misogyny." Kate Abbey-Lambertz of The Huffington Post wrote that "some have criticized MRA for packaging misogyny as promoting equal rights for men." Time has reported on SPLC's "misogynist" description of the group as well as on the movement's official disavowing the concept of misogyny, with Elam cited as stating that being controversial was a way of drawing attention. Journalist Jessica Joy remarked that she found the AVFM's conference divided between many individuals on the one hand making violent threats as well as laughing openly at jokes about rape and many individuals seeking to promote socio-economic and legal changes by polite discussion on the other hand.
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- Filipovic, Jill (24 October 2014). "Why Is an Anti-Feminist Website Impersonating a Domestic Violence Organization?". Cosmopolitan (magazine). Hearst Communications. Retrieved 6 December 2014.
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- Leah McLaren (March 12, 2015). "How men's rights groups are distorting the debate about equality". The Globe and Mail. Retrieved April 26, 2015.
They are actively supported by the U.S. organization A Voice For Men, the very openly misogynist men's rights organization that coined the term “rape farmers” for feminists.
- Jaclyn Friedman (October 24, 2013). "A Look Inside the 'Men's Rights' Movement That Helped Fuel California Alleged Killer Elliot Rodger". Prospect.org. Retrieved April 26, 2015.
A Voice For Men makes no excuses for their hatred of women, from posts ranting about women who are 'begging to be raped' to treatises about how fat women want to be sexually violated because it would mean we are desired.
- Casey, Brad (April 17, 2013). "We Went to a Men's Rights Lecture in Toronto". Vice. Retrieved May 8, 2015.
AVFM is run by a man named Paul Elam and provides a forum for vitriolic hatred against women and feminists.
- Ford, Clementine (June 19, 2014). "A lesson for men's rights activists on real oppression". Australian Broadcasting Corporation. Retrieved May 8, 2015.
Unfortunately, as it's being hosted by A Voice for Men - a motley crew who espouse hatred and fear of women - it promises to be about as useful to the advancement of men's issues as a condom made out of sticky tape.
- Serwer, A.; Baker, K.J.M. (February 6, 2015). "How Men's Rights Leader Paul Elam Turned Being A Deadbeat Dad Into A Moneymaking Movement". BuzzFeed. Retrieved April 26, 2015.
The claim that Elam and his friends are merely trying to have a conversation about the rights of men in modern society is bogus. What it's really about is the defamation of women as a group; that’s called misogyny.
- McGrath, Charles (January 7, 2011). "The Study of Man (or Males)". The New York Times. Retrieved May 8, 2015.
- Abbey-Lambertz, Kate (29 May 2014). "Controversial Men's Rights Conference Sparks Backlash". Huffington Post. Retrieved 8 December 2014.