|Born||July 23, 1917
New York City
|Died||August 2, 1984
Sugarloaf Key, Florida
Deming directed plays, taught dramatic literature and wrote and published fiction and non-fiction works. On a trip to India, she began reading Gandhi, and became committed to a non-violent struggle, with her main cause being Women's Rights. She later became a journalist, and was active in many demonstrations and marches over issues of peace and civil rights. She was a member of a group that went to Hanoi during the Vietnam War, and was jailed many times for non-violent protest.
At sixteen, she had fallen in love with a woman her mother's age, and thereafter she was openly lesbian. She was the romantic partner of writer and artist Mary Meigs from 1954 to 1972. Their relationship eventually floundered, partially due to Meigs's timid attitude, and Deming's unrelenting political activism.
During the time that they were together, Meigs and Deming moved to Wellfleet, Massachusetts, where she befriended the writer and critic Edmund Wilson and his circle of friends. Among them was the Québécois author Marie-Claire Blais, with whom Meigs became romantically involved. Meigs, Blais, and Deming lived together for six years.
In 1976, Deming moved to Florida with her partner, artist Jane Verlaine. Verlaine painted, did figure drawings and illustrated several books written by Deming. Verlaine was a tireless advocate for abused women. Deming died on August 2, 1984.
Deming openly believed that it was often those whom we loved that oppressed us, and that it was necessary to re-invent non-violent struggle every day.
It is often said that she created a body of non-violent theory, based on action and personal experience, that centered on the potential of non-violent struggle in its application to the women's movement.
- Deming, Barbara: Prison Notes. New York: Grossman Publishers, 1966.
- Deming, Barbara: On Revolution and Equilibrium. Liberation, February 1968. From the collection: ed. Staughton Lynd and Alice Lynd. Nonviolence in America: A Documentary History. Revised Edition. Maryknoll, New York: Orbis Books, 1995.
- Deming, Barbara: Running Away from Myself: A Dream Portrait of America Drawn from the Movies of the Forties. New York: Grossman Publishers, 1969.
- Deming, Barbara; Berrigan, Daniel; Forest, James; Kunstler, William; Lynd, Staughton; Shaull, Richard; Statements of the Catonsville 9 and Milwaukee 14 Delivered Into Resistance The Advocate Press: 1969.
- Deming, Barbara: Revolution and Equilibrium. New York: Grossman Publishers, 1971.
- Deming, Barbara: Wash Us and Comb Us. New York: Grossman Publishers, 1972.
- Deming, Barbara: We Cannot Live Without Our Lives. New York: Grossman Publishers, 1974.
- Deming, Barbara: A Humming Under My Feet. London: Women's Press, 1974.
- Deming, Barbara: Remembering Who We Are. Tallahassee, FL: The Naiad Press, 1981.
- Deming, Barbara; Meyerding, Jane (Editor): We Are All Part of One Another a Barbara Deming Reader . Philadelphia: New Society Publishers, 1984.
- Deming, Barbara; McDaniel, Judith; Biren, Joan E.; Vanderlinde, Sky (Editor): Prisons That Could Not Hold . University of Georgia Press, 1995.
- Deming, Barbara; McDaniel, Judith (Editor) I Change, I Change: Poems. New Victoria Publishers, 1996.
In 1968, Deming signed the “Writers and Editors War Tax Protest” pledge, vowing to refuse tax payments in protest against the Vietnam War.
Money for Women / The Barbara Deming Memorial Fund
In 1975, Deming founded The Money for Women Fund to support the work of feminist artists. Deming helped administer the Fund, with support from artist Mary Meigs. After Deming's death in 1984, the organization was renamed as The Barbara Deming Memorial Fund. Today, the foundation is the "oldest ongoing feminist granting agency" which "gives encouragement and grants to individual feminists in the arts (writers, and visual artists)". 
- “Writers and Editors War Tax Protest” January 30, 1968 New York Post
-  Archived December 6, 2012 at the Wayback Machine
- "Barbara Deming Memorial Fund, Inc. : Home". Demingfund.org. Retrieved 2015-09-25.
- Dusenbery, Maya. "Quickhit: Calling all Feminist Fiction Writers". Feministing.com. Retrieved 2015-09-25.
- Barbara Deming: An Activist Life
- Ira Chernus, American Nonviolence: The History of an Idea
- Barbara Deming Papers. Schlesinger Library, Radcliffe Institute, Harvard University.
- A Random Chapter in the History of Nonviolence, by Michael L. Westmoreland-White
- On Revolution and Equilibrium