Colin Murray Parkes

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Colin Murray Parkes OBE (born 1928[1]) is a British psychiatrist and the author of numerous books and publications on grief.[2] He was made an Officer of the Order of the British Empire by Queen Elizabeth II for his services to bereaved people in June 1996.


Since 1966, Parkes has worked at St Christopher's Hospice in Sydenham, where he set up the first hospice-based bereavement service and carried out some of the earliest systematic evaluations of hospice care.

Parkes serves as an honorary consultant psychiatrist to St. Christopher's Hospice in Sydenham.[3] He was formerly a senior lecturer in psychiatry at the Royal London Hospital Medical College and a member of the research staff at the Tavistock Institute of Human Relations.

Parkes is a former chairman and now life president of the charity Cruse Bereavement Care.[4] He acted as a consultant and adviser following the Aberfan disaster (October 21, 1966), the air crash of Invicta International Airlines Flight 435 in Switzerland (April 10, 1973), the Bradford Football Club fire (May 11, 1985), the capsize of the MS Herald of Free Enterprise in Belgium (March 6, 1987), and the Pan American Flight 103 explosion over Lockerbie (December 21, 1988). At the invitation of UNICEF, he acted as consultant in setting up the Trauma Recovery Programme in Rwanda in April 1995. At the invitation of the British government, he helped to set up a programme of support to assist families from the United Kingdom who were flown out following the terrorist attacks of 11 September, 2001, in New York City. In April 2005, Parkes was sent by Help the Hospices with Ann Dent to India to assess the psychological needs of people bereaved by the 2004 Indian Ocean earthquake and tsunami.[citation needed]

Writing and editorial career[edit]

Parkes worked with Dora Black as a scientific editor of Bereavement Care, the international journal for bereavement counsellors. He also has served as an advisory editor on several journals concerned with hospice, palliative care, and bereavement, and has edited books on the nature of human attachments, The Place of Attachment in Human Behaviour[citation needed] and Attachment Across the Life Cycle.[citation needed] More recently he has edited Death and Bereavement Across Cultures[citation needed] and, in 1998, with Andrew Markus, a series of papers which have now been published as a book entitled Coping with Loss.[citation needed] This last work is intended for members of the health care professions.

Recently Parkes's work has focused on traumatic bereavements (with special reference to violent deaths and the cycle of violence) and on the childhood roots of psychiatric problems that can follow the loss of attachments in adult life.[citation needed]

A quote from his 1972 work Bereavement: Studies of Grief in Adult Life, "The pain of grief is just as much a part of life as the joy of love; it is, perhaps, the price we pay for love, the cost of commitment"[5] was later made famous by Queen Elizabeth II as "Grief is the price we pay for love" in a message of support after the September 11 attacks.[6]


  • Parkes, Colin Murray, Laungani P. & Young, W.(Editors) (2015) [1996]. Death and Bereavement Across Cultures (Second ed.). London & NY: Routledge. {{cite book}}: |author= has generic name (help)CS1 maint: multiple names: authors list (link)
  • Markus, Andrew & Parkes, Colin Murray (Editors (1998). Coping with Loss. BMJ Books. {{cite book}}: |author= has generic name (help)CS1 maint: multiple names: authors list (link)
  • Parkes, Colin Murray (Editor & Contributor) (2014). Responses to Terrorism: Can psychosocial approaches break the cycle of violence?. Routledge Hove, UK & New York. {{cite book}}: |author= has generic name (help)
  • Parkes, Colin Murray (2015). The Price of Love: The Selected Works of Colin Murray Parkes. UK & New York: Routledge, Hove.
  • Parkes, Colin Murray. Bereavement: Studies of Grief in Adult Life (4th edition with Holly Prigerson 2010 ed.). London & New York: Pelican, London and Routledge.
  • Parkes, Colin Murray (2006). Love and Loss: the roots of Grief and its Complications. London & New York: Routledge.
  • Relf, M. & Couldrick, A. & Parkes, Colin Murray (1996). Counselling in Terminal Care and Bereavement. British Psychological Society.{{cite book}}: CS1 maint: uses authors parameter (link)
  • Stevenson-Hinde, J. & Marris, P. & Parkes, Colin Murray (Editors) (1991). Attachment Across the Life Cycle. London & NY: Routledge.{{cite book}}: CS1 maint: uses authors parameter (link)
  • Stevenson-Hinde, J. & Parkes, Colin Murray (1982). The Place of Attachment in Human Behaviour. New York: Basic Books.{{cite book}}: CS1 maint: uses authors parameter (link)
  • Weiss, Robert & Parkes, Colin Murray (1983). Recovery from Bereavement. New York & London: Basic Books. ISBN 9780465068685.{{cite book}}: CS1 maint: uses authors parameter (link)


  1. ^ "Colin Murray Parkes". Hospice History Project. 1996. Archived from the original on 31 July 2003. Retrieved 18 July 2011.
  2. ^ Meerabeau, Liz; Wright, Kerri (2011). "6". Long Term Conditions: Nursing Care and Management. Wiley Blackwell.
  3. ^ Stein, Samuel; Black, David Macleod (1999). Beyond belief: psychotherapy and religion. Karnac. p. xiii. ISBN 1-85575-186-0.
  4. ^ "Bereavement 'raises risk of dangerous heart changes'". BBC News. 14 November 2010. Retrieved 18 July 2011.
  5. ^ "Oxford Essential Quotations (4 ed.)".
  6. ^ "Grief is price of love, says the Queen". The Daily Telegraph. 21 September 2001.

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