|Grey's Anatomy character|
Patrick Dempsey as Derek Shepherd in 2012
|First appearance||"A Hard Day's Night"
1x01, March 27, 2005
|Last appearance||"You're My Home"
11x25, May 14, 2015
|Created by||Shonda Rhimes|
|Portrayed by||Patrick Dempsey|
|Full name||Derek Christopher Shepherd|
Seattle Grace Brain butcher
|Occupation||Attending neurosurgeon and Board Member at Grey Sloan Memorial Hospital (former)|
Chief of Surgery (formerly)
Head of Neurosurgery (formerly)
Carolyn Maloney Shepherd
Kathleen "Kate" Shepherd
Elizabeth "Lizzie" Shepherd
9 unnamed nieces
6 unnamed nephews (one deceased)
|Spouse(s)||Addison Montgomery (m. 1994–2006) (divorced)
Meredith Grey (m. 2009–15)
|Children||Zola Grey Shepherd (adopted daughter, with Meredith)
Derek Bailey Shepherd (son, with Meredith)
Ellis Shepherd (daughter, with Meredith)
|Relatives||Lexie Grey (sister-in-law)|
Derek Christopher Shepherd,  M.D., also referred to as "McDreamy", is a fictional surgeon from the ABC medical drama Grey's Anatomy, portrayed by actor Patrick Dempsey. He made his first appearance during "A Hard Day's Night", which was broadcast on March 27, 2005. Derek was married to Dr. Addison Montgomery (Kate Walsh) for 12 years, before their divorce in 2006. Before his death in 2015, Derek was happily married to his longtime girlfriend Meredith Grey (Ellen Pompeo). The couple are often referred to as "Mer & Der" and they have three children together. Derek was formerly the Chief of Surgery at Seattle Grace Mercy West Hospital, but abruptly resigned as chief in season 7 following the shooting. For his portrayal of Derek, Dempsey was nominated in 2006 and 2007 Golden Globe for the Best Performance by an Actor in a Television Series Drama for the role, and the 2006 SAG Award for the Outstanding Performance by an Actor in a Drama Series award.
Derek arrives at Seattle Grace Hospital as the new Head of Neurosurgery from New York City. He is a Bowdoin College graduate and attended Columbia University College of Physicians and Surgeons alongside Mark Sloan and Addison Montgomery and Private Practice characters Naomi Bennett and Sam Bennett. Derek was a student of Chief Webber and was enticed to come with an "offer he couldn’t refuse" – the position of Chief of Surgery, which Derek eventually turned down. He came to Seattle Grace with a reputation for taking on "hopeless" and "impossible" cases and is both well-liked and feared — well-liked by patients and his scrub nurses for his gentlemanly manner and feared by interns and residents who are intimidated by his reputation and high standards. As a physician, he is passionate about his job and has been known to expel staff or remove interns and residents from his service if he deems their attitude to be detrimental to his patient's well-being.
Derek first meets Meredith Grey at a bar, only to find out that she was an intern at Seattle Grace Hospital. They begin to have feelings for one another and it causes some awkwardness at work, particularly after her supervising resident Dr. Miranda Bailey discovers their relationship. Her housemates and fellow interns Cristina and Izzie both antagonized her for some time as they felt she was using her relationship with Derek, an attending, to further her career but they change their opinions of Derek and accept his presence after he moves into her place, which he once dubbed a "frat house", despite his dislike for having to share his living space with interns who worked under him. His sister Nancy disliked Meredith and repeatedly called her "the slutty intern". However, his mother Carolyn approved of her as she felt Meredith's grey perspective of life complemented Derek's tendency to see everything in black and white.
In the season 1 finale, Derek's past eventually catches up with him when his estranged wife Addison Montgomery moves to Seattle, shortly followed by his childhood best friend Mark Sloan, who joins Seattle Grace as the new head of plastic surgery. Derek and Addison attempt to repair their marriage but later acknowledge that their marriage should have been ended a long time ago and that Meredith was his true love. Since their divorce they have remained on amicable terms, with Addison even admonishing Meredith for breaking up with Derek in season 3. In the Private Practice episode "Ex-Life" he finally tells Addison that his mother never liked her in the first place. He admits to Meredith that Addison cheating on him with Mark was partly his fault as he was an absentee husband. Addison eventually leaves Seattle to work in a private hospital in LA, spawning the spin-off Private Practice. In the season 8 episode "If/Then", in which Meredith dreams of an alternate universe where her mother never had Alzheimer's, Derek and Addison are still married but their strained marriage and Derek's disillusionment causes his career to stagnate and earns him the nicknames "Bad Shepherd" and "McDreary" due to his poor attitude and Addison still cheats on him with Mark.
Derek is offered the job of Chief of Surgery for the second time after the board wants to oust Dr. Webber. Derek, being faithful as a friend to Richard, wants them to consider keeping him somehow. During the merger of Seattle Grace with Mercy West, Richard and Derek do not agree with how the situation is being handled, and their relationship begins to sour. Derek learns from Meredith that the Chief has since resumed drinking and feels forced to have him removed as Chief of Surgery. Having mixed feelings about Richard, Derek offers him two options: go into rehab and possibly pick up where he left off after, or quit.
In seasons 3 and 4 the relationship between Derek and Meredith hits a rocky patch and they dated other people for some time. His plans to propose were ruined by a series of unfortunate events in season 5. In the season finale, they were supposed to marry but let Alex and Izzie, who had just been diagnosed with stage 4 cancer, take their place. Due to their tight schedule, they instead informally marry and Derek writes down their "promises" on a post-it note. They legalize their marriage in season 7 in order to adopt Zola, a young African orphan Derek treated for spina bifida. However, they consider the post-it note to be their legitimate wedding and referred to each other as husband or wife even before legalizing it. They briefly separate after Meredith tampers with his Alzheimer's trial, jeopardizing her career and tarnishing Derek's reputation. Zola is taken away from Meredith after a social worker finds out she is not living with Derek. Derek becomes distrustful of Meredith in the OR so they agree that Meredith will not work in neuro anymore or talk about neuro at home for the sake of their marriage; in later seasons, Derek often gripes about how most of his interns – mainly Lexie Grey, Shane Ross and Heather Brooks – did not quite measure up to Meredith. The social worker comes back and announces they are the official parents of Zola. As Meredith is near the end of her fifth year of residency, she and Derek are torn between staying at Seattle Grace Mercy West or leaving for Boston where Derek would work at Harvard while Meredith would be at the Brigham and Women's Hospital.
Following his rescue from the plane crash that killed Mark and Lexie, Derek learns that he may only regain eighty percent of his hand's function. He comes to terms with the fact that his career as a surgeon may be over and is grateful that he is alive, in light of the deaths of his best friend Mark and sister-in-law Lexie. However, when head of orthopedic surgery Callie Torres (Sara Ramirez) tells him a more risky surgery could give him back full function of his hand or reduce its function if it goes wrong, Derek agrees to the surgery. He accepts the possibility that he may never hold a scalpel again. His hand recovers well and Torres clears him to return to work, but it is only weeks later that Derek feels he is ready to operate. Derek, Callie and Jackson decide to do nerve transplant for his hand. Meredith, newly pregnant with their second child, goes behind his back and calls his sisters so they can donate a nerve to him. Lizzie (Neve Campbell), Derek's younger sister, agrees to donate a nerve and the surgery is a success.
Derek and Meredith's marriage is strained after he accepted an invitation from the President to participate in the Brain-Mapping Initiative. He went back on his promise to her that he would not add to his current workload in order to devote time to their two young children and allow her the chance to establish her career as a full-fledged attending. Eventually he was offered a position at the National Institutes of Health in Washington D.C. but Meredith puts her foot down and refuses to leave her hometown and uproot their young family. They fight bitterly on and off over whether they should move. After a bad argument, he accepts the job in the heat of the moment and leaves for Washington D.C. While there, he and Meredith talk things out over the phone and agree that they did not want to end their marriage. He tells her that he could not live without her and that just being with her, raising their children and operating on patients was more satisfying than "saving the world".
In season 11 Derek suffers an accident while driving to the airport for his final trip to Washington D.C. He is able to hear and process auditory input, but unable to speak. He is recognized by Winnie, one of the victims of a crash he assisted in earlier, who tells the surgeons that their patient's name is Derek and that he is a surgeon as well. The hospital he was taken to was understaffed and his head injury was not detected quickly enough by the interns on duty that night. Although the neurosurgeon on call is paged multiple times, he takes too long to arrive and Derek is declared brain dead. Police arrive at Meredith's door and take her to see Derek, where she consents to removing him from life support. He is now deceased. At the time of his death, unbeknownst to him, Meredith was pregnant with their third child. She gives birth to a daughter whom she names Ellis after her mother.
Casting and creation
When Patrick Dempsey auditioned for the role of Derek, he was afraid that he was not going to get the part. Show creator Shonda Rhimes' first reaction was: "The very first time I met him, I was absolutely sure that he was my guy. Reading the lines of Derek Shepherd, Patrick had a vulnerable charm that I just fell for. And he had amazing chemistry with Ellen Pompeo." Rhimes admitted that Dempsey's dyslexia threw her at first, particularly at the first few table readings: "I did not know about Patrick's dyslexia in the beginning. I actually thought that he didn't like the scripts from the way he approached the readings. When I found out, I completely understood his hesitation. Now that we all know, if he is struggling with a word, the other actors are quick to step up and help him out. Everyone is very respectful." Isaiah Washington also auditioned for the part and when he did not get it, he said his reaction was like "I'd been kicked in the stomach by 14 mules." Washington was, however, later cast as Preston Burke. Rob Lowe was also considered to portray Shepherd but turned the role down.
In January 2014, Dempsey signed a two-year contract to remain on Grey's Anatomy (then in its tenth season) that would ensure his presence for potential 11th and 12th seasons. However, in April 2015, Dempsey's character was killed off while his contract was not over yet. Dempsey explained: "it just sort of evolved. It’s just kind of happened. It really was something that was kind of surprising that unfolded, and it just naturally came to be. Which was pretty good. I like the way it has all played out." In August 2015, Rhimes commented:
|“||The decision to have the character die the way that he did was not a difficult one in the sense of what were the options? Either Derek was going to walk out on Meredith, and leave her high and dry, and what was that going to mean? That was going to suggest that the love was not true, the thing we had said for 11 years was a lie and McDreamy wasn't McDreamy. For me, that was untenable. Meredith and Derek's love had to remain Meredith and Derek's love. As painful as it was for me as a storyteller, because I had never really thought that was going to happen, it preserved what felt true to me, was that Derek was going to have to die in order for that love to remain honest. Because I really couldn't have the idea that he just turned out to be a bad guy who walked out on his wife and kids be a true story. To me, it felt like that was the only way to make Meredith and Derek's magic remain true and forever frozen in time.||”|
Rhimes describes Derek as typical "Prince Charming". He was planned to be a doctor who doesn't really care about anything, who lives in his "own" universe and has a big sex appeal. A man who is charming, devilishly handsome and the type of guy every girl dreams of, and a man that often makes the wrong decisions, and is often known as a jerk or the ultimate heartbreaker. Rhimes planned to have this kind of character from the beginning, because he was the kind of guy whom girls fall in love with and a character whose storylines could easily be changed. USA Today writer Robert Bianco said: "Derek could, at times, seem like two people, warm and funny one minute, cold and self-involved the next. Dempsey's gift was in making those two sides seem like part of the same person, while keeping us rooting for that person as a whole."
With the show concluding its second season, Robert Bianco of USA Today said that Emmy voters could consider him because of the "seemingly effortless way he humanizes Derek's 'dreamy' appeal with ego and vanity". In the third season, Alan Sepinwall of The Star-Ledger wrote that "the attempt to give the moral high ground back to McDreamy was bad. Dude, whatever happened in New York ceased to count in any kind of grievance tally once you agreed to take Addison back and give things another try. You're the dick who cheated on her, you're the one who knew that she found the panties, and still you act like her getting back together with Mark justifies what you did? Wow. I didn't think it was possible for me to dislike anyone on this show more than Meredith, but congratulations, big guy."
Debbie Chang of BuddyTV noted the character's immaturity in the fourth season, saying: "The only character who did not make me love him was Derek Shepherd (Patrick Dempsey). How this character is still Shonda's golden child is beyond me. Yes, we get it. He's tormented by his love for Meredith, but that does not give him the right to lash out at her when his clinical trial patients are dying. If things don't go absolutely the way he wants them to, then he refuses to cooperate. How immature can this man possibly be? No amount of heavily styled hair or blue-blue-blue eyes is going to make me warm up to him unless he admits to being the needy, desperate one in the relationship."
Entertainment Weekly placed Shepherd in its list of the "30 Great TV Doctors and Nurses". The character was also listed in Wetpaint's "10 Hottest Male Doctors on TV" and in BuzzFeed's "16 Hottest Doctors On Television". His relationship with Meredith was included in TV Guide's list of "The Best TV Couples of All Time".
Victor Balta of Today listed Shepherd and Sloan's friendship in its "TV's best bromances". He called them "the most exciting couple on Grey’s," explaining "they’ve demonstrated an easy chemistry that makes for some of the great comic relief around Seattle Grace Hospital with their banter, sage wisdom on each other’s lives, and locker room-style teasing." Their bromance was furthermore included in lists by About.com, BuddyTV, Cosmopolitan, Wetpaint. However, following the announcement of Dane's upcoming departure from the show, Mark Perigard of the Boston Herald felt he and Derek "never clicked like you’d expect friends would. Any scene they had together ranged from uncomfortable to forced."
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