Forced orgasm

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A woman consents to a forced orgasm while restrained and gagged at Exxxotica Expo 2008
A forced orgasm using a wand vibrator belt

A forced orgasm is a consensual BDSM sexual play whereby a person consents to be forced to orgasm despite their attempts to delay or not to orgasm. The person who is to be brought to involuntary orgasm would typically be put in physical restraints to increase the feeling of helplessness,[1] and deprive them of the ability to control the onset and intensity of orgasm.[2] This is a common element during BDSM play and is a form of orgasm control.

With the consenting partner restrained and unable to stop being sexual stimulated, the active partner would stimulate their genitals and other erogenous zones until the bound partner is brought to orgasm, and sometimes beyond. The bound partner is open to a wide range of sexual stimulation, including vaginal, oral, or anal sex. Forced orgasms may be induced with manual stimulation of the genitals (in the form of a handjob or fingering). The stimulation may involve the use of vibrating sex toys, such as a vibrator, typically a wand vibrator.

In men, the most common way of achieving orgasm is by physical sexual stimulation of the penis.[3] In women, the most common way to achieve orgasm is by direct sexual stimulation of the clitoris (meaning consistent manual, oral or other concentrated friction against the external parts of the clitoris). General statistics indicate that 70–80 percent of women require direct clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm.[3]

The practice of forced orgasm may also be combined with other orgasm control plays, such as orgasm denial, edging, or ruined orgasms.

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  1. ^ Jahme, Carole (2010-08-13). "Why does my girlfriend only achieve orgasm when tied up?". the Guardian. Retrieved 2018-11-23.
  2. ^ Lords, Kayla (October 6, 2016). "Try These Kinky Forced Orgasm Scenarios". Kinkly.com. Retrieved 2018-11-23.
  3. ^ a b See 133–135 Archived April 2, 2016, at Wikiwix for orgasm information, and page 76 for G-spot and vaginal nerve ending information. Rosenthal, Martha (2012). Human Sexuality: From Cells to Society. Cengage Learning. ISBN 978-0618755714.