Glory hole (sexual slang)

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A glory hole in a restroom stall

A glory hole (also spelled gloryhole and glory-hole) is a hole in a wall or partition, often between public lavatory cubicles or adult video arcade booths and lounges, for people to engage in sexual activity or observe the person in the next cubicle while one or both parties masturbate.[1]

Glory holes are especially associated with gay male culture, and anal or oral sex, and come from a history of persecution.[1][2] The partition maintains anonymity and a sense of reassurance that the people involved would not be identified and possibly arrested.[3] However, they are not exclusively favoured by gay people, and have become more commonly acknowledged as a fetish for straight and bisexual couples.[4]

In more recent years, public glory holes have faded in popularity in many countries, though some gay websites offer directories of the remaining glory holes.

Glory holes are sometimes the topic of erotic literature, and pornographic films have been devoted to the uses of glory holes.[2]

Motivations[edit]

Numerous motivations can be ascribed to the use and eroticism of glory holes. As a wall separates the two participants, they have no contact except for a mouth, a penis, and perhaps a hand. Almost total anonymity is maintained as no other attributes are taken into consideration."[5] The glory hole is seen as an erotic oasis in gay subcultures around the world; people's motivations, experiences and attributions of value in its use are varied.[6][7]

In light of the ongoing HIV pandemic, many gay men re-evaluated their sexual and erotic desires and practices.[8] It is suggested by queer theorist Tim Dean that glory holes allow for a physical barrier, which may be an extension of psychological ones where there is internalized homophobia (a result of many societies' widespread disgust about LGBT practices and people).[8] For some gay men, a glory hole serves to depersonalize their partner altogether as a disembodied object of sexual desire, either sticking through or on the other side of the hole.[8]

History[edit]

The first documented instance of a glory hole was in a 1707 court case known as the “Tryals of Thomas Vaughn and Thomas Davis" in London, England which involved the extortion of a man known in the documents only as Mr Guillam.[9][10] At the time, gay sex frequently led to arrests by members of the Society for the Reformation of Manners. Often the authorities would wait outside the Lincoln’s Inn bog house in London as one place to catch people.

The courts heard that a man (Mr. Guillam) has visited a washroom stall to relieve himself when another male put his penis through a hole in the wall ("a Boy in the adjoyning Vault put his Privy-member through a Hole"[11]). Mr. Guillam, surprised by the action, fled the washroom, only to be followed by the male who cried out that he would have had sex with him. Mr. Guillam was then confronted by Mr. Vaughn who, knowing Mr. Guillam's innocence, threatened to turn him into the police, and reveal him to his wife, if he did not pay a sum of money.

During the mid-1900s, police often used bathroom glory holes as an entrapment method for gay men, often recording the incidents as evidence to prosecute.[4] Such incidents have been recorded in California and Ohio in the 1950s and 1960s, with archival police footage of "tearooms" appearing on pornography websites, such as Pornhub.

According to the Routledge Dictionary of Modern American Slang, the first time glory hole appears in print is in 1949, when an anonymously published glossary called Swasarnt Nerf's Gay Girl's Guide refers to a "Phallic size hole in partition between toilet booths. Sometimes used also for a mere peep-hole." [10]

Another reference to glory holes appeared in Tearoom Trade: Impersonal Sex in Public Places, a controversial book published by sociologist Laud Humphreys in 1970, where he suggests the "tearoom," or bathroom stall, as a prime space for men to congregate for sexual fulfilment. It would later appear in the 1977 book The Joy of Gay Sex.[12]

Public glory holes started to fade in popularity as the decriminalization of homosexuality was introduced in many countries, and concerns over HIV/AIDS changed gay culture. A 2001 study in the Journal of Homosexuality found that public glory holes remained popular among many gay men, "simply because they find the places exciting and/or convenient."[10]

Despite the fading prominence of glory holes in public, some gay bath houses and sex clubs maintain the presence of glory holes in their establishment, and some people have acknowledged installing private walls inside their own homes.[4]

Bathroom sex remains a fetish for a subset of gay men, who will engage in similar anonymous acts below a bathroom stall separator, rather than through a hole.

In 2007, U.S. Republican Sen. Larry Craig of Idaho was involved in a scandal over such a below-the-stall activity. His arrest received widespread attention, partly due to the senator's anti-gay voting history, which included support of the 1996 Defense of Marriage Act. The police report said a plainclothes officer investigating lewd behavior in a Minneapolis–St. Paul International Airport bathroom came in contact with Craig when the senator tapped his foot, which the officer said he recognized "as a signal used by persons wishing to engage in lewd conduct."[13] Craig then touched the officer's foot with his foot, the report said, and the senator "proceeded to swipe his hand under the stall divider several times."[13] He was then arrested before any sexual contact. Craig later entered a guilty plea to a lesser charge of disorderly conduct on August 8, 2007.[14]

In 2018, the Western Australian Museum added a "historic glory hole" to its collection. The hole had been situated in the toilet stall of the Albany Highway-side of the Gosnells train station, but was removed and saved in 1997 before the toilet was demolished.[15][16]

A 2020 BuzzFeed article collected anecdotes from gay, straight and bisexual readers recounting their experiences at swinger parties with glory holes present.[4]

Legal and health concerns[edit]

Public sex of any kind is illegal in many parts of the world, and police undercover operations continue to be used in order to enforce such laws.[17] Adverse personal consequences to participants in glory hole activity have included police surveillance, public humiliation in the press, often with marital and employment consequences, and imprisonment following a criminal conviction. Gay bashing, mugging, and bodily injury are further potential risks. For reasons of personal safety, as well as etiquette, men typically wait for a signal from the receptive partner to come through the hole before inserting any part of their genitals through a glory hole.

Potential health advantages[edit]

In June 2020, a New York Health Department COVID-19 advisory suggested sex through "physical barriers, like walls," but did not specifically reference glory holes, as part of broader measures on dating and sex during the pandemic.[18]

About a month later, the British Columbia Centre for Disease Control went a step further by suggested using "barriers, like walls (e.g., glory holes), that allow for sexual contact but prevent close face-to-face contact" as one way to lower the risk of exposure to the virus.[19]

Popular culture[edit]

In pornography, glory holes are a recurring theme, particularly in gay videos, though not exclusively. Straight porn often features scenarios involving the partition, in some instances it will involve kink mistresses, who see it as a form of women’s sexual agency and mastery."[4]

Jackass Number Two features a stunt where one of the cast members dresses his penis in a mouse costume and inserts it into a glory hole that feeds into a snake's cage.

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References[edit]

  1. ^ a b Murphy, Timothy F. (1994). Gay Ethics: Controversies in Outing, Civil Rights, and Sexual Science. Haworth Press. p. 237. ISBN 978-1-56023-056-4. Retrieved 31 December 2007.
  2. ^ a b Burger, John Robert (1995). One-Handed Histories: The Eroto-Politics of Gay Male Video. Haworth Press. ISBN 1-56024-860-2. Retrieved 31 December 2007.
  3. ^ Murphy, Rhodes (29 July 2019). "Who Do We Have to Thank for "Glory Holes"—Glass Blowers or Gays?". Slate Magazine. Retrieved 27 July 2020.
  4. ^ a b c d e "We Asked People Why They Use Glory Holes. Boy, Did They Answer". BuzzFeed News. Retrieved 27 July 2020.
  5. ^ Blachford, Gregg (2002). "Male dominance and the gay world". In Plummer, Kenneth (ed.). Sexualities: Difference and the diversity of sexualities. Taylor & Francis. p. 301. ISBN 978-0-415-21275-5.
  6. ^ Bapst, Don (June 2001). "Glory Holes and the Men who use Them". Journal of Homosexuality. 41 (1): 89–102. doi:10.1300/J082v41n01_02. PMID 11453517. S2CID 43917317.
  7. ^ Tewksbury, Richard (2004). "The Intellectual Legacy of Laud Humphreys: His Impact on Research and Thinking about Men's Public Sexual Encounters". International Journal of Sociology and Social Policy. 24 (3/4/5): 47. doi:10.1108/01443330410790867.
  8. ^ a b c Dean, Tim (2000). Beyond Sexuality. University of Chicago Press. ISBN 0-226-13934-4. Retrieved 31 December 2007. gloryhole.
  9. ^ "A History of Homoerotica". rictornorton.co.uk. Retrieved 27 July 2020.
  10. ^ a b c Murphy, Rhodes (29 July 2019). "Who Do We Have to Thank for "Glory Holes"—Glass Blowers or Gays?". Slate Magazine. Retrieved 27 July 2020.
  11. ^ "Homosexuality in Eighteenth-Century England: Trials of Thomas Vaughan and Thomas Davis, 1707". rictornorton.co.uk. Retrieved 27 July 2020.
  12. ^ "A Probing History of Glory Holes". MEL Magazine. 14 July 2017. Retrieved 27 July 2020.
  13. ^ a b "Senator pleaded guilty, reportedly after bathroom stall incident - CNN.com". www.cnn.com. Retrieved 27 July 2020.
  14. ^ Murphy, Patti; Stout, David (29 August 2007). "Idaho Senator Says He Regrets Guilty Plea in Restroom Incident". The New York Times. ISSN 0362-4331. Retrieved 27 July 2020.
  15. ^ "Loo door 'too tacky to display'". PerthNow. 11 December 2018. Retrieved 27 July 2020.
  16. ^ Herald, Your (7 December 2018). "WA's glorious history". Perth Voice Interactive. Retrieved 27 July 2020.
  17. ^ Jaffe, Harold (2005). Terror-Dot-Gov. Raw Dog Screaming Press. p. 28. ISBN 1-933293-09-8. Retrieved 31 December 2007.
  18. ^ Parker-Pope, Tara (11 June 2020). "Masks, No Kissing and 'a Little Kinky': Dating and Sex in a Pandemic". The New York Times. ISSN 0362-4331. Retrieved 27 July 2020.
  19. ^ "Try 'glory holes' for safer sex during coronavirus, B.C. CDC says". Global News. Retrieved 27 July 2020.

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