Palatnik was born into a Conservative Jewish family in Toronto, Canada. She majored in communications at the University of Windsor and earned a special degree in advertising. She began her career in radio copywriting.
In 1985 she was a participant on the first Jerusalem Fellowships trip to Israel, and her experience was so positive that she decided to take time off to learn more about Judaism. She studied for a year at the EYAHT and Neve Yerushalayim colleges for advanced Jewish learning in Jerusalem. She returned briefly to Toronto for a writing job for Aish HaTorah, and afterward returned to Israel, where she met her husband, Yaakov Palatnik, a native of Chicago. and became an Orthodox Jewish outreach educator, public speaker, and author. They have five children, one daughter-in-law, Esti Couzens, and one son-in-law, Shlomo.
They were the founding rabbi and rebbetzin of Toronto's Village Shul, a family synagogue in Forest Hill, Toronto, which they led for 11 years. During that time, Lori also hosted The Jewish Journal, a Toronto television show.
The Palatniks next moved to Denver, Colorado, where for the next four years he worked with Aish Denver and she was educational and program director for the Aish-Ahavas Yisrael project. The couple also co-hosted a weekly Denver radio show called The Palatniks on 630-KHOW.
In 2005, the Palatniks relocated to Washington, D.C., where Rabbi Palatnik became executive director of Aish Washington, D.C. In 2008 Lori was one of eight founders of the Jewish Women's Renaissance Project, an outreach effort dubbed "Birthright for Women". As of 2016, JWRP has brought more than 10,000 women to Israel on a free, 8-day tour and learn program; participants only pay for their airfare. A 2010 poll of tour participants revealed that "76 per cent increased their attendance at Jewish services, 90.3 per cent increased their Jewish learning, and 75.4 per cent increased their observance of Shabbat" after participating in the tour.
In 2008, Palatnik revealed that she had donated one of her kidneys to a stranger. She explained her rationale in an article on Aish.com, in a live video performance, and in speeches covered by local press.
In 2013 she was recognized as one of the nation's "Ten Women to Watch" by Jewish Women International.
Her 2002 book, Gossip: Ten Pathways to Eliminate It from Your Life and Transform Your Soul (co-authored with Bob Burg), was featured on the Dr. Laura show as a recommended book.
In 2015 Hadassah added her to the list of "Most Outstanding Jewish American Women of Our Time".
- Friday Night and Beyond: The Shabbat experience step-by-step, 1977
- Gossip: Ten Pathways to Eliminate It from Your Life and Transform Your Soul (with Bob Burg), 2002
- Remember My Soul: What to do in memory of a loved one — A path of reflection and inspiration for shiva, the stages of Jewish mourning, and beyond (with Rabbi Yaakov Palatnik), K'hal Publishing, 2008
- Turn Your Husband Into Your Soul Mate, 2015
- Audio cassettes
- Holy Diner: Shabbat, 20-cassette series, 1999
- Video Blog
- Protecting the Sanctity of Marriage, Lori discusses why you should not hire a cleaning woman who is "cuter than you".
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- "The Utah-8 Mission: To create a movement that would bring values back to the world". Jewish Women's Renaissance Project. 2010. Retrieved 1 December 2010.
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- "First Annual Houston Conference for Jewish Women will be a Hard Act to Follow". Jewish Herald-Voice. 1 October 2003. Retrieved 1 December 2010.
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- Coopersmith, Nechemia; Simmons, Shraga (2002). Heaven on Earth: Down-to-earth Jewish spirituality. Targum Press. ISBN 1-56871-206-5.
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- Palatnik, Lori (2 February 2008). "A Kidney To Give: Why I donated my kidney to someone I didn't know". aish.com. Retrieved 1 December 2010.
- "Why I Donated a Kidney to a Total Stranger", live video by Lori Palatnik in 4 parts: Part I, Part II, Part III, Part IV.
- Benari, Elad (15 December 2009). "Save a Life, Make a Life". Shalom Life. Archived from the original on 5 April 2012. Retrieved 21 November 2011.
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- "Welcome to Jewish Community Heroes". jewishcommunityheroes.org. 2010. Retrieved 1 December 2010.
- Josephs, Susan (Fall 2013). "Lori Palatnik: Educator Helps Jewish Mothers Connect to Their Faith". Jewish Women International. Retrieved 12 August 2014.
- "Recommended Books: Gossip: Ten Pathways to Eliminate It from Your Life and Transform Your Soul". drlaura.com. Retrieved 1 December 2010.[dead link]
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- Palatnik, Lori (1999). Friday Night and Beyond: The Shabbat Experience Step-By-Step. Jason Aronson. Retrieved 1 December 2010.
- Palatnik, Lori; Burg, Bob (2002). Gossip: Ten Pathways to Eliminate It from Your Life and Transform Your Soul. Simcha Press. ISBN 0-7573-0055-3. Retrieved 1 December 2010.
- Palatnik, Lori; Palatnik, Yaakov (2008). Remember My Soul: What to Do in Memory of a Loved One: A Path of Reflection and Inspiration for Shiva, the Stages of Jewish Mourning, and Beyond. K'hal Publishing. ISBN 978-1-60204-014-4. Retrieved 1 December 2010.
- "Holy Diner:Shabbat". goodreads.com. Retrieved 1 December 2010.
- Protecting the Sanctity of Marriage