Love the One You're With

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"Love the One You're With"
Stephen Stills - Love The One.jpg
Single by Stephen Stills
from the album Stephen Stills
B-side"To a Flame"
ReleasedNovember 1970
GenreFolk rock
Songwriter(s)Stephen Stills
Producer(s)Stephen Stills
Official audio
"Love the One You're With") on YouTube

"Love the One You're With" is a song by folk rock musician Stephen Stills. It was released as the lead single from his debut self-titled studio album in November 1970. The song, inspired by a remark Stills heard from musician Billy Preston, became his biggest hit single, peaking at No. 14 on the Billboard Hot 100 in early 1971.[1] David Crosby and Graham Nash, Stills' fellow members of Crosby, Stills & Nash, provide background vocals on the song. The song was also covered by a number of artists, notably the Isley Brothers, The Meters, Bucks Fizz, Luther Vandross and Richard Clapton.


Stills wrote the song after being inspired by the tag line — "If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with" which was a frequent remark by musician Billy Preston. Stills explained in 1991: "This song has been very good to me. The title came from a party with Billy Preston. I asked him if I could pinch this line he had, and he said, 'Sure. ' So I took the phrase and wrote a song around it. It's a good times song, just a bit of fun. My favorite part is the steel drums. I played them before a little bit but I just kept diddling around till I found the right notes."[2]

Cash Box said that Stills' "unique melodic work, the harmonies and a booming rhythm track make this a bright attraction for top forty as well as FM playlists."[3]

Chart history[edit]

Weekly charts

Chart (1970–71) Peak
Canada 100 (RPM) Top Singles[4] 6
Canada RPM Adult Contemporary[5] 17
Netherlands (Single Top 100)[6] 9
Netherlands (Dutch Top 40)[7] 18
UK Singles (OCC)[8] 37
US Easy Listening (Billboard)[9] 32
US Hot 100 (Billboard)[10] 14
US Singles (Cash Box) [11] 16
US Singles (Record World)[12] 10
Australia (Kent Music Report)[13] 29
Finland Singles Chart[14] 28

Year-end charts

Chart (1971) Rank
Canada Year End [15] 85

Isley Brothers version[edit]

"Love the One You're With"
Single by the Isley Brothers
Songwriter(s)Stephen Stills
Producer(s)The Isley Brothers

Several acts have since covered the song. The most notable cover came in 1971 from the Isley Brothers, whose unique gospel-driven cover of the song sent it to the charts again reaching number three R&B and number 18 pop, giving the group their fifth US top 40 pop single.[16] It also reached number 10 US Cash Box. On the Canadian charts, their version reached No. 41.[17]

Bucks Fizz version[edit]

"Love the One You're With"
Bucks Fizz - Love the one.jpg
Single by Bucks Fizz
B-side"Too Hard"
Released20 August 1986
Songwriter(s)Stephen Stills
Bucks Fizz singles chronology
"New Beginning (Mamba Seyra)" "Love the One You're With"

UK pop group Bucks Fizz covered the song as their eighteenth single in 1986. The single, released in August, was the follow-up to the group's comeback top ten hit "New Beginning (Mamba Seyra)" and was seen as a make or break release. Ultimately the song peaked at a low No.47 in the UK Singles Chart during a three-week run.[18] In a review, music magazine Number One said that the song lacked bass and sounded rather "tinny" but predicted that it would be a hit.[19] Member Mike Nolan puts the song's failure down to the decision to showcase other male member Bobby G as the lead singer. Their previous single had featured all the group equally and was a hit, while earlier flops had featured G on lead and this was a return to that format.[20] A promotional video for the song was filmed featuring the group performing the song in a blue-toned studio accompanied by backing musicians.[21] The single was released on 7" and 12" on Polydor Records with an extended mix on the latter, the B-side was a Bobby G composition, "Too Hard".[22] Also included on the 12" was an extended mix of earlier single "I Hear Talk". A second 12" single was released featuring a dance edit of "Love the One You're With", backed by another alternate mix of "I Hear Talk".[23]

Chantoozies version[edit]

"Love the One You're With"
Love the One You're With by Chantoozies.jpg
Single by Chantoozies
from the album Gild the Lily
ReleasedFebruary 1991
Songwriter(s)Stephen Stills

Australian group, Chantoozies released a version in February 1991. The song was the second single from the group's second studio album Gild the Lily. The song peaked at number 21 on the Australian charts.[24]


Chart (1991) Peak
Australia (ARIA)[25] 21

Luther Vandross version[edit]

"Love the One You're With"
Luther Vandross-Love the One You're With.jpg
Single by Luther Vandross
from the album Songs
Songwriter(s)Stephen Stills

American singer Luther Vandross released a cover of the song on his 1994 album Songs. It peaked in the top 30 on the Billboard Hot R&B Singles, 33 on the Billboard Hot Adult Contemporary Tracks; and earned Vandross a 1995 Grammy nomination for Best Male Pop Vocal Performance.[26]

Critical reception[edit]

M.R. Martinez from Cash Box described "Love the One You’re With" as "an optimistic celebration of love and music as Vandross is backed by an all-star choir that includes Lisa Fischer, Tawatha Gee, Jim Gilstrap and others."[27] Pan-European magazine Music & Media commented, "Hailed the King of silky ballads, Luther also knows how to speed it up. In a New Orleans way, and challenged by a gospel group, this Stephen Stills cover shows him at his toughest."[28]


Chart (1994–1995) Peak
Australia (ARIA)[29] 56
Canada Top Singles (RPM)[30] 40
Scotland (OCC)[31] 41
UK Singles (OCC)[32] 31
US Billboard Hot 100[33] 95

Other notable versions[edit]

In culture[edit]

In 2012, the song was featured in Ridley Scott's sci-fi movie Prometheus. Idris Elba sings a short phrase from the song after describing a possibly fictional account of how his squeezebox used to belong to Stills.[35]


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