Lucinda Margaret Grealy (June 3, 1963 – December 18, 2002) was an American poet and memoirist who wrote Autobiography of a Face in 1994. This critically acclaimed book describes her childhood and early adolescence experience with cancer of the jaw, which left her with some facial disfigurement. In a 1994 interview with Charlie Rose conducted right before she rose to the height of her fame, Lucy states that she considers her book to be primarily about the issue of "identity".
Grealy was born in Dublin, Ireland, and her family moved to the United States in April 1967, settling in Spring Valley, New York. She was diagnosed at age 9 with a rare form of cancer called Ewing's sarcoma. Treatment for this often fatal cancer (Grealy reports an estimated 5% survival rate) led to the removal of her jawbone, and over the following years she had many facial reconstructive surgeries. In her memoir, Autobiography of a Face, Grealy describes her life from the time of her diagnosis and how she weathered the cruelty of schoolmates and others, suffering taunts and endless stares from strangers.
At 18, Grealy entered Sarah Lawrence College where she made her first real friends and nurtured her love of poetry. She graduated in 1985 and went on to study at the Iowa Writers' Workshop. In Iowa she lived with fellow writer Ann Patchett. Their friendship is the subject of Patchett's 2004 memoir Truth and Beauty: A Friendship.
She taught writing at Bennington College. She also published a collection of essays in 2000, As Seen on TV: Provocations.
Following her final reconstructive surgery, Grealy became dependent upon her prescribed painkiller, OxyContin, as she had earlier with codeine. She died of a heroin overdose on December 18, 2002, in New York City, at the age of 39. Her sister, Suellen Grealy, is opposed to Ann Patchett's depiction of Lucy in Truth & Beauty. She claims that Patchett and the book's publisher Harper Collins stole the Grealy family's right to grieve privately.
- 1995 Whiting Award
Lucy Grealy won several prizes for her poetry, among them the Sonora Review Prize, the London TLS poetry prize and two Academy of American Poets awards.
- Everyday Alibis, a chapbook of poems
- Autobiography of a Face (1994). HarperCollins. 2003. ISBN 978-0-06-056966-2.
- As Seen on TV: Provocations. Tandem Library. 2001. ISBN 978-1-4177-2621-9.
- In the Mind's Eye. Arrow. 1995. ISBN 978-0-09-932701-1.
- Robert Atwan, ed. (2001). The best American essays. Houghton Mifflin Co. ISBN 978-0-618-04297-5.
- Lynn Z. Bloom, ed. (2000). The essay connection: readings for writers. Houghton Mifflin Co. ISBN 978-0-618-03965-4.
- Lehmann-Haupt, Christopher (December 21, 2002). "Lucy Grealy, 39, Who Wrote a Memoir on Her Disfigurement". The New York Times. Retrieved May 11, 2010.
- Lucy Grealy author bio. Bookbrowse.com (2010-07-27). Retrieved on 2013-07-28.
- "Do You Love Me?". The New York Times. May 16, 2004. Retrieved May 11, 2010.
- Linder, Elspeth (July 25, 2004). "A friend in need". The Guardian (London). Retrieved May 11, 2010.
- Grealy, Suellen (August 6, 2004). "Hijacked by grief". The Guardian. Retrieved November 23, 2013.
- Lucy Grealy interview with Charlie Rose
- The interview on YouTube
- Profile at The Whiting Foundation
- Lucy Grealy at Find a Grave