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July 1, 1904
New York City, U.S.
|Died||October 24, 1998 (aged 94)|
|Alma mater||Vassar College|
University of Rochester
|Employer(s)||Planned Parenthood |
|Known for||Sex education|
|Spouse(s)||W. Lon Martin |
Dr. Frank A. Calderone
Mary Steichen Calderone (July 1, 1904 – October 24, 1998) was an American physician and a public health advocate for sexual education. Her most notable feat was overturning the American Medical Association policy against the dissemination of birth control information to patients.
Calderone served as president and co-founder of the Sex Information and Education Council of the United States (SIECUS) from 1954 to 1982. She was also the medical director for Planned Parenthood. She wrote many publications advocating open dialogue and access to information at all ages. Her extensive work with popularizing sexuality education has often been compared to Margaret Sanger's campaign for birth control.
Calderone was born in New York, New York on July 1, 1904. Biographer Jeffrey Moran suggests that her bohemian childhood with her famous father, Edward Steichen, her uncle poet Carl Sandburg, and Quaker upbringing influenced her liberal outlook on sex as well as contributed to her opinionated and passionate nature. When Calderone was six, for instance, she berated the family friend and sculptor Constantin Brâncuși for his horizontal-headed bird pieces, which would undoubtedly hinder the bird from singing. Brâncuși complied and began sculpting birds with more upturned heads.
Calderone attended the Brearley School in New York City for her secondary education. She matriculated at Vassar College, graduating in 1925 with an A.B. in Chemistry. Calderone decided to go into theatre and studied for three years at the American Laboratory Theatre. She was the model for the figures on the Pratt Institute flagpole, whose bronze was sculpted by her uncle Willard Dryden Paddock, and was erected in 1926 to commemorate the soldiers who served in World War I.
Calderone married actor W. Lon Martin and had two daughters, Nell, who died at age 8 of pneumonia, and Linda.
She abandoned acting and divorced in 1933. The death of her eight-year-old daughter Nell, along with dashed acting dreams and a divorce, plunged Calderone into depression. After an in-depth series of aptitude tests at the Johnson O'Connor Research Foundation in New York, she decided to return to school and study medicine. She was 30 years old.
She obtained her M.D. degree from the University of Rochester medical school in 1939. She then received an M.P.H. from Columbia University in 1942. During this time she interned at hospitals and clinics, one belonging to Dr. Frank A. Calderone, whom she married in 1941. Frank Calderone was then a district health officer in New York and eventually became the chief administrative officer of the World Health Organization. Mary Calderone worked as a physician in the Great Neck, New York public school system. The couple had two daughters, Francesca (1943) and Maria (1946).
In 1953, Calderone joined the staff of the controversial Planned Parenthood Federation of America as its Medical Director. Her tenure there was prolific. In 1958, she organized a national conference that instigated the movement to legalize abortion. Her biggest success at Planned Parenthood came in 1964 when she overturned the American Medical Association policy against physicians disseminating information on birth control. Calderone did not believe that her work should be limited to preventive measures against pregnancy. Letters arrived at Planned Parenthood daily asking questions about not just sex, but sexuality at large. Calderone came to the realization that sexuality did not just equate to genitality, and that sex education was sorely lacking from American society.
With the conviction that "handing out contraceptives was not enough," Calderone quit her position at Planned Parenthood in 1964 and established the Sex Information and Education Council of the United States, Inc. (SIECUS). Driven by Calderone's dynamic talks across the nation and its mission statement, "to establish man's sexuality as a health entity," the organization became an essential umbrella group for school administrators, sex educators, physicians, social activists, and parents seeking to access information about teaching sexuality education. Calderone and her organization became recognized and respected with the message of sex as a positive force, but opponents also watched her closely. Calderone's insistence that sex education should begin as early as kindergarten did not impress religious conservative groups like MOMS (Mothers Organized for Moral Stability) and MOTOREDE (Movement to Restore Decency), who called Calderone the leader of the "SIECUS stinkpot." A bestselling 1968 pamphlet, Is the School House the Proper Place to Teach Raw Sex?, targeted SIECUS, calling Calderone the "SIECUS Sexpot" and claiming that she wanted to undermine Christian morality and corrupt children.
By 1969, Calderone's influence had been weakened by these attacks, and she stepped down as President, although she remained the Executive Director of SIECUS. Calderone published a rebuttal of the conservative attacks in the Vassar Quarterly, but according to Moran, it was a movement spearheaded by Playboy that would effectively fight the charges against sex education. Nevertheless, Calderone's crusade for sexuality education with a "positive approach and moral neutrality" continued. Until 1982 she held leadership positions at SIECUS and continued to expand sex education as a means to talk about topics other than the sexual act, such as sexism and homosexuality. Calderone lectured widely, including twice at Vassar. Her 1983 lecture as President's Distinguished Visitor was titled "Sexuality in Infancy and Childhood—The Need for a Learning Theory."
Calderone wrote several books on sex education: The Family Book about Sexuality and Talking with Your Child About Sex are two. Although she was adamant about sexual freedom, her beliefs did not align with the burgeoning sexual revolution of the late 1960s. Calderone believed that the sex act should be ultimately reserved for marriage, and that sexuality found its peak expression through the "permanent man-woman bond."
In an article in Penthouse (magazine), and later in his book Sex By Prescription, the American psychiatrist Thomas Szasz criticized Calderone for her advocacy of the medicalization of sex, and her alleged hostility to homosexuals. Szasz described her as “confused and hypocritical” for telling an interviewer that she was “not suggesting the distribution of...contraceptive information to teenagers."
Calderone was a resident of Kendal at Longwood, a Quaker continuing care retirement community in Kennett Square, Pennsylvania. She died in the skilled nursing facility there on October 24, 1998. She was 94. 
- Jane Ellen Brody (October 25, 1998). "Mary S. Calderone, Advocate of Sexual Education, Dies at 94". New York Times. Retrieved 2009-12-14.
Dr. Mary Steichen Calderone, the grande dame of sex education, died yesterday at the Kendal at Longwood nursing home in Kennett Square, Pa. She was 94 and had suffered from Alzheimer's disease for the last decade.
- Mary Steichen Calderone Vassar Encyclopedia. Retrieved November 29, 2016.
- Sibyl Shalo Wilmont (January 2014). "The Calderone Prize in Public Health A Legacy of Legends". American Journal of Public Health. 103 (1): 41–46. doi:10.2105/AJPH.2012.300982. PMC 3518370. PMID 23153163.
- Susan Ware (2004). Notable American Women: A Biographical Dictionary Completing the Twentieth Century. Harvard University Press. p. 100. ISBN 9780674014886. Retrieved 10 August 2019.
- Thomas Szasz. "The Case Against Sex Education". No. January 1981. pp. 124–125.
- Thomas Stephen Szasz (1990). Sex by Prescription (Second ed.). Syracuse, New York. ISBN 9780815602507.
- National Women's Hall of Fame, Mary Steichen Calderone
- New York (October 25, 1998). "Dr. Mary Calderone, 94". Chicago Tribune. Retrieved 2009-12-14.
Dr. Mary Steichen Calderone, the grande dame of sex education, died Saturday in Kennett Square, Pa. She was 94 and had suffered from Alzheimer's disease for a decade. Indefatigable and fired by a zeal for sexual responsibility and realism, Dr. Calderone persuaded the American Medical Association to let doctors dispense birth control as a matter of course to their patients, and she set in motion the means of educating schoolchildren about human sexuality. Dr. Calderone did more than any other individual to convince the medical profession and the public that human sexuality goes far beyond the sex act. She heralded it as a multifaceted and vital part of a healthy life that should not be hidden under a shroud of secrecy or limited to erotic expression.