Mary Harlan Lincoln

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Not to be confused with Mary Todd Lincoln.
Mary Harlan Lincoln
Mary Harlan Lincoln.jpg
Born (1846-09-25)September 25, 1846
Iowa City, Iowa
Died March 31, 1937(1937-03-31) (aged 90)
Washington, D.C.
Known for Wife of Robert Todd Lincoln
Religion Christian Science[1]

Mary Eunice Harlan Lincoln (September 25, 1846 – March 31, 1937) was the daughter of United States Senator James Harlan and the wife of Robert T. Lincoln.

Life and family[edit]

The eldest child of James Harlan and Ann Eliza Peck, Mary Eunice Harlan was born in Iowa City, Iowa on September 25, 1846.[2] The only one of James Harlan's children to live to adulthood, she was raised in Mount Pleasant, Iowa and Washington, D.C. She was educated in Mount Pleasant and at Madame Smith's Finishing School in Washington. In addition to learning French, dancing and deportment, Mary Harlan received training in music and became an accomplished harpist.[3][4][5]

In 1864 Robert Lincoln noticed the teenaged Mary and began to court her. She had also come to the attention of Robert's mother Mary Lincoln, who approved and attempted to play matchmaker. President Abraham Lincoln became aware of his wife's activities and aided her by asking Senator Harlan to escort Mrs. Lincoln to Lincoln's 1865 presidential inaugural, enabling Robert to escort Mary Harlan. In order to keep their courtship secret, Robert Lincoln often used the assistance of his friend Edgar Welles to meet Mary Harlan at the home of Edgar's father Secretary of the Navy Gideon Welles. Their marriage was delayed by the assassination of Robert's father and the subsequent mourning period.[6][7]

Marriage and children[edit]

On September 24, 1868, Robert Todd Lincoln and Mary Eunice Harlan were finally married. They had two daughters and one son: [8]

In an era before air conditioning, Robert, Mary and the children would often leave hot city life behind in summer for the cooler climate of Mt. Pleasant. During the 1880s the family would "summer" at the Harlan home. The Harlan-Lincoln home, built in 1876, still stands today. Donated by Mary Harlan Lincoln to Iowa Wesleyan College in 1907, it now serves as a museum with many artifacts from the Lincoln family and from Abraham Lincoln's presidency.[10]

For a time Mary Lincoln lived with Robert Lincoln and Mary Harlan, but the two women apparently did not get along, and Mary Lincoln moved out,[11] eventually being committed by Robert to Bellevue Place, a private, sanitarium in Batavia, Illinois in May, 1875.[12] Some sources indicate that Mary Harlan Lincoln may have been an alcoholic, which negatively affected her relationship with her mother in law, husband and children. The available information is circumstantial, and this question has not been resolved with certainty.[13][14]

Robert and Mary Harlan Lincoln's mansion, Hildene, in Manchester, Vermont.

Robert Lincoln pursued a successful career in law, business and politics, serving as Secretary of War from 1881 to 1885 under Presidents James A. Garfield and Chester A. Arthur. The Lincolns lived in London, England for a period of time as Robert served as United States Ambassador to the United Kingdom from 1889 to 1893 under President Benjamin Harrison. Afterwards, he returned to practicing law. Made quite wealthy by his law practice, which included General Counsel to, and later President of, the Pullman Palace Car Company the Lincolns lived at homes in Chicago, Washington, and Hildene in Manchester, Vermont.[15]

By all accounts, Mary Harlan Lincoln was intensely private, and worked diligently to keep herself out of the public eye and prevent herself from being photographed. In addition to managing the family households, she was responsible for her husband's estate after his death in July 1926. She also oversaw charitable bequests and family trusts before her death.[16][1] Mary Harlan Lincoln died in Washington on March 31, 1937.[17] She was buried with her husband and son Jack at Arlington National Cemetery, Section 31.[18]


  1. ^ a b Mark E. Neely, Harold Holzer, The Lincoln Family Album, 1990, page 20
  2. ^ Friends of Hildene, Four Marys and a Jessie: The Story of the Lincoln Women, 2005, page 70
  3. ^ Charles Lachman, The Last Lincolns: The Rise and Fall of a Great American Family, 2008, page 84
  4. ^ C.J. King, Friends of Hildene, Inc., Four Marys and a Jessie: The Story of the Lincoln Women, 2005, page 65
  5. ^ Ruth Painter Randall, Lincoln's Sons, 1955, page 173
  6. ^ Jason Emerson, Giant in the Shadows: The Life of Robert T. Lincoln, 2012, page 94
  7. ^ Gideon Welles, Edgar Welles, Diary of Gideon Welles, Volume 3, 1911, page 444
  8. ^ "Robert Todd Lincoln entry". Notable Names Database (NNDB). 
  9. ^ Bruce Chadwick, The Two American Presidents: A Dual Biography of Abraham Lincoln and Jefferson Davis, 1999, page 441
  10. ^ Allt, Kate (12 February 2013). "Mt. Pleasant; the second Land of Lincoln". KTVO-TV via website. Retrieved 13 February 2013. 
  11. ^ Charles Lachman, The Last Lincolns: The Rise & Fall of a Great American Family, 2008, page 279
  12. ^ Mary Todd Lincoln's Stay at Bellevue Place. Retrieved on 2011-08-06.
  13. ^ Jean H. Baker, Mary Todd Lincoln: A Biography, 2008
  14. ^ Group for the Use of Psychology in History, The Psychohistory Review, Volume 17, 1988, page 30
  15. ^ Pullman Company, The Pullman News, Robert T. Lincoln, Second Pullman President, Dies, Volumes 5-6, August, 1926, page 113
  16. ^ Samuel Agnew Schreiner, The Trials Of Mrs. Lincoln, 1987, page 309
  17. ^ Associated Press, St. Petersburg Independent, Todd Lincoln's Widow is Dead, April 1, 1937
  18. ^ Mary Harlan Lincoln at Arlington Cemetery.Net, accessed January 1, 2013