Milk and Honey (poetry collection)
|Publisher||Andrews McMeel Publishing|
|Pages||226 pp (hardcover)|
Milk and Honey (stylized as milk and honey) is a collection of poetry and prose by Rupi Kaur. The collection is about survival. It is divided into sections, with each section serving a different purpose and relevance to Kaur’s experience. The sections explore the themes of violence, abuse, love, loss, and femininity.
Kaur’s writing style stems from her cultural background and desire to be accessible to the audience: however, her style and intentions have also been a target of negative controversies and rumors.
Milk and Honey was published on November 4, 2014. This poetry collection was sold over 3 million times. As of June 7, 2020, it has been listed on The New York Times Best Seller list for 165 weeks.
After arriving in Canada, at the age of 5, Kaur began reading, drawing, writing poetry, and painting because she could not speak English and struggled to make friends. Kaur eventually learned English by fourth grade and credits her finding her voice to community open microphone nights. As she got older she continued reciting her poems at open mic events and gathered a group of followers who showed interest in Kaur expanding her poems in the book.
Kaur has 4 million followers on Instagram, which is where she first gained fame through her photography and poem posts. This medium of work is called Instapoetry. Kaur’s is recognized as Instapoet, because her Instagram feed was where she published her poems.
In 2015, Kaur posted a photo on Instagram showing her menstrual blood on her pants as an opposition to a “misogynist society”. For a school project, Kaur posted a photo on Instagram, which received over 100,000 likes, where her menstrual blood could be seen on her bed sheets and sweatpants. This photo was removed twice from the platform. In response to her photo being taken down, Kaur states, “'I will not apologize for not feeding the ego and pride of misogynist society that will have my body in an underwear, but not be OK with a small leak.’" Her group of followers grew as she posted her poetry and controversial photography on Instagram earning the title of an Instapoet.
The book is divided into 4 themed chapters: "the hurting," (30 poems), "the loving," (32 poems), "the breaking," ( 60 poems), and "the healing," (57 poems). Some of the singular poems, which follow the theme of the overall section, have drawings by Kaur.
The first chapter, "the hurting," is about the author's experience with sexual assault, abuse, and family issues.
The next chapter, "the loving," has a lighter tone as the topic overall is about positive experiences. The poems have been described as sweet, and they are supposed to remind couples of the good things in a relationship. This section is described as being filled with the emotions of falling in love with love and life.
"The breaking," brings the reader back to a dark place in the author's life. These realistic poems relate to the sad feeling after a breakup. While speaking about the effects after love is gone, Kaur speaks about a break-up to-do list.
The last chapter, "the healing," tries to comfort and show women that they should embrace who they are and that they are valuable, no matter what they had to endure. This section also speaks to embracing your emotions as they are important to improving one’s internal strength and abilities. Another aspect of this section which critic Davis positively speaks upon is that it speaks to the idea that loss is not necessarily a bad thing, which is an ideology readers are not accustomed to.
This collection uses sexual terminology, accessible language, and discusses personal trauma that is recommended for the ages of 14 and up. Kaur jumps between first- and second-person pronouns and breaks the conventional rules of traditional poetry to honor Punjabi, the language of her birthplace. She writes with lower-case letters and uses little punctuation similar to the writing features in Punjabi. Her style is direct, which enables the reader to develop a relationship with the author.
Kaur's poetry has been described as easy and simple and it is credited with changing people's views of poetry, because "she tells it how it is".
Milk and Honey received criticism regarding InstaPoetry, with Bustle stating that Kaur and the book have "by far born the brunt of these critiques. For every positive review of Kaur's work, there is at least one scathing critique, ranging from actual engagement with her writing to cheap shots claiming she had 'commodified her South Asian heritage'". Critic John Maher of Publishers Weekly has described Kaur "as a polarizing figure" for literacy, publishing, and media who might be able to make poems sell again. Maher also stated that while a 2015 survey reported a drop in poetry reading between 1992 and 2012, poetry sales figures doubled in 2017, two years after Kaur published Milk and Honey.
Chiara Giovanni critiques Kaur’s ability to be a representative for women empowerment, stating, “‘there is something deeply uncomfortable about the self-appointed spokesperson of South Asian womanhood being a privileged young woman from the West’”.
The book received criticism over claims that Kaur's work plagiarized that of Nayyirah Waheed. Critics cited similarities between the two poets' writing style of short poems with jagged punctuation and line breaks, and for the same imagery.
Kaur was not able to find a publisher, so she decided to self-publish Milk and Honey. Having learned how to design and edit in college, Kaur self-published her book with a budget of zero dollars. After first self-publishing Milk and Honey, the book was later under Andrews McMeel Publishing.
- The Sun and Her Flowers
- This is the second poetry collection that follows Milk and Honey that completes the series. Kaur maintains her writing style and drawings in The Sun and Her Flowers as she did in Milk and Honey.
- The Princess Saves Herself In This One
- This poetry collection is described as the most reminiscent of Milk and Honey, not only does this book speak of women empowerment, but it is said to be as powerful by critic Holstrom.
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