My Life Without Me

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My Life Without Me
My life without me ver2.jpg
U.S. theatrical poster
Directed by Isabel Coixet
Produced by
  • Esther García
  • Gordon McLennan
Written by Isabel Coixet
Based on Pretending the Bed Is a Raft by Nanci Kincaid
Starring
Music by Alfonso Vilallonga
Cinematography Jean-Claude Larrieu
Edited by Lisa Robison
Distributed by Sony Pictures Classics
Release date
December 17, 2003
Running time
106 minutes
Country
  • Canada
  • Spain
Language English
Box office $9,726,954 (INT)[1]

My Life Without Me is a 2003 Canadian drama film directed by Isabel Coixet and starring Sarah Polley, Mark Ruffalo, Scott Speedman, and Leonor Watling. Based on the book Pretending the Bed Is a Raft by Nanci Kincaid, it tells a story of a 23-year-old woman, with a husband and two daughters, who finds out she is going to die soon. The film was produced by Pedro Almodóvar's production company, El Deseo.

Plot[edit]

Ann (Sarah Polley) is a hard-working 23-year-old mother with two small daughters, an unemployed husband (Scott Speedman), a mother (Deborah Harry) who sees her life as a failure, and a jailed father whom she has not seen for ten years. Her life changes dramatically when, during a medical checkup following a collapse, she is diagnosed with metastatic ovarian cancer and told that she has only two months to live.

Deciding not to tell anyone of her condition and using the cover of anemia, Ann makes a list of things to do before she dies.[2] She decides to change her hair, record birthday messages for the girls for every year until they're 18, and tries to set up her husband with another woman.

Feeling a longing to experience a life that was never available to her, she seeks out a man to experience how it feels to be in a sexual relationship with someone other than her husband. Her experiment ends up taking an emotional toll when she meets with a man named Lee, who ends up madly in love with her and is left heartbroken when Ann breaks it off with him. He meets with her one last time and says that he will do anything to make her happy, taking care of her daughters and even finding her husband a new job. She ends their relationship and never tells him that she is dying.

At the end of the film, Ann records a message to her husband, telling him that she loves him, and another one to Lee, telling him the same. She then leaves all tapes that she has recorded with her doctor, asking him to deliver them after her death.

Cast[edit]

Reception[edit]

Box office[edit]

The film was released on September 26, 2003 and ran for 12 weeks. It grossed $400,948 in the USA and $9,326,006 from markets in other countries, for a worldwide total of $9,726,954.[1]

Critical response[edit]

My Life Without Me received generally positive reviews from film critics. As of December 2011, review aggregator Rotten Tomatoes has scored a 65% rating, with an average rating of 6.3 out of 10, based on 98 reviews.[3]

Accolades[edit]

The film won many international and festival awards, including the Genie Award for Best Actress (Polley), the Goya Award for Best Adapted Screenplay (Coixet), and Best Song ("Humans Like You" by Chop Suey).

Award Date of ceremony Category Recipient(s) Result Ref(s)
European Film Awards 6 December 2003 Best Film Isabel Coixet Nominated [4]
Best Director Nominated
Genie Awards 1 May 2004 Best Actress Sarah Polley Won [5]
Goya Awards 31 January 2004 Best Film Isabel Coixet Nominated [6][7]
Best Director Nominated
Best Adapted Screenplay Won
Best Actress Sarah Polley Nominated
Best Original Song Chop Suey Won

References[edit]

  1. ^ a b My Life Without Me at Box Office Mojo
  2. ^ "My Life Without Me". sonyclassics.com. Archived from the original on 2016-03-16.
  3. ^ "My Life Without Me (2003)". Rotten Tomatoes. Retrieved December 29, 2011.
  4. ^ Dawtrey, Adam (7 November 2003). "Marks for 'Lenin'". Variety. Retrieved 4 May 2018.
  5. ^ The Canadian Press (2 May 2004). "Barbarian Invasions is gem of Genies". The Globe and Mail. Retrieved 21 April 2017.
  6. ^ Green, Jennifer (10 December 2003). "Spain's Goya Award nominations announced". Screen Daily. Retrieved 21 April 2017.
  7. ^ Green, Jennifer (1 February 2004). "Take My Eyes takes Spanish prize". Screen Daily. Retrieved 21 April 2017.

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