Almost all source material for this article (not the article itself) was written by Neil Lyndon who is the subject of this article.July 2015)(
Neil Alexander Barnacle
12 September 1946
|Alma mater||Queens' College, Cambridge|
|Occupation||Writer and journalist|
|Years active||1968 to present|
|Known for||Critique of feminism|
|No More Sex War: The Failures of Feminism|
|Spouse(s)||Monica Foot m.1971 div.1976 Deirdre m.1977 div.1992 |
|Children||2 daughters, 1 son, 1 step-son|
Neil Alexander Lyndon (born Neil Alexander Barnacle, September 12, 1946) is a British journalist and writer. He has written for The Sunday Times, The Times, The Independent, the Evening Standard and the Daily Mail.
Lyndon is known for his book No More Sex War: The Failures of Feminism (Sinclair-Stevenson 1992), which he claims was "the world's first egalitarian, progressive, non-sexist critique of feminism in its own terms".
Born in 1946, Lyndon grew up in the Sussex Weald, a rural area and  between 1958 and 1962 he attended Collyer's school, Horsham In 1962 his father was bankrupted and sentenced to three years imprisonment for fraud and embezzlement, leaving the family short of money. Lyndon's mother then changed the family name to her maiden name and he moved to Gillingham School where he faced having to leave to get a job following completion of his O-levels due to the family's financial situation. Instead, his tutor Frank Hodgson paid the family money so Lyndon could complete his A-levels. Lyndon became head-boy and later set up the Frank Hodgson Trust for the school, providing similar financial support for sixth-form students. One of the ten houses at the school is also named after Lyndon.
According to a newspaper article written by Lyndon, he became, in 1965, the first student from a comprehensive school to be awarded an unconditional place at Cambridge University where he attended Queens' College. At university he took a job in a scrap yard and later in light engineering. Having flirted with communism as a teenager and having been a committed member of Campaign for Nuclear Disarmament, he rapidly became involved with radical left-wing politics at Cambridge. He took part in many demonstrations and sit-ins and after his graduation he co-founded of The Shilling Paper, a radical weekly. In 1969, he joined the editorial board of the underground paper The Black Dwarf. Years later, in 2007 he wrote in The Sunday Times of his shame at how he had "once toasted mass murderers, torturers and totalitarian despots", particularly as he had distant relatives in Czechoslovakia.
Lyndon was a journalist in the 1980s, writing for the "Atticus" column in The Sunday Times, as well as for The Times, The Independent, the Evening Standard and others. He wrote columns, profiles and feature articles covering a wide variety of issues such as politics, sport, music and books Lyndon also make television appearances, including as a guest on a famous episode of Channel Four show After Dark.
On gender issues
Lyndon first focused on gender issues in a 1990 essay for The Sunday Times Magazine entitled "Badmouthing". The 5,000-word piece argued that, in advertising, entertainment, the news media, family law, education and health research, "an atmosphere of intolerance surrounded men", blaming this intolerance on "the universal dominance of feminism". Lyndon concluded the piece stating:
"If relations between men, women and children are to improve, attitudes to men and manhood must change. It wouldn’t be a bad start if men caused to be the butt of casual prejudice expressed in half-witted habits of speech. But the most important job our legislators face must be to remove some of the systemic disadvantages of life for men to improve their position within the family and within society at large. There is one sense in which men, as a group and a whole, can be described as a class in Britain: in a host of vital ways they second class citizens."
It later emerged that female writers at The Times had allegedly made an unsuccessful attempt to have Lyndon's article censored, so the women instead wrote a derogatory article about Lyndon in the Sunday Times Magazine's "Style" section.
No More Sex War
The following year he wrote his book, No More Sex War: The Failures of Feminism, published in 1992, in which he expanded on these arguments.
Rather than addressing the issues and arguments raised by Lyndon, many critics instead chose to make verbal personal attacks. They suggested he was sexually inadequate, questioned the size of his penis, his masculinity, his ability to attract women and even the smell of his breath. Almost two decades later feminist writer Julie Burchill continued the verbal personal attack, suggesting he was a "sad-sack" and "the opposite of a man". According to Lyndon, in one review of books of the year, Helena Kennedy refused to even discuss the publication, simply instructing people not to buy it.
The book sold few copies and Lyndon's work in journalism dried up. In August 1992 he was declared bankrupt. Before the publication of No More Sex War, Lyndon's marriage had broken up and his wife had taken their child to Scotland where, according to Lyndon, she obtained an order of custody without Lyndon knowing the case was being heard. Also according to Lyndon, in the subsequent divorce, his media notoriety was used against him in court, and he lost all access to his son. He rebuilt his career in journalism during the 1990s, and was later reunited with his son, who lived with him in Scotland before going to university. Lyndon also claimed he was assaulted at Heathrow Airport because of his book. He claimed in 2000 that at Cambridge university, his alma mater, a president of Cambridge Union encouraged members to burn his writings, and that a university don told her students that she would like to see him shot.
Eight years after the controversy, Lyndon revisited some of the issues in his book and discussed his story. He highlighted the issues in relation to "the treatment of dissidents in what is supposed to be an open society". Whilst not comparing his plight to the coetaneous case of Salman Rushdie, he suggested it was "paradoxical that many of the people who defended Rushdie's right to write whatever he wanted should be so censorious and destructive about wanting to limit my freedom to do the same".
Lyndon married his first wife Monica Foot in 1971 and they divorced five years later. He married his second wife Deirdre in 1977 with whom he had a son and gained a step-son. Following his separation from Deirdre she abducted his son and took him to Scotland and he was denied access to his child for two and a half years. Eventually, at age 15, Lyndon's son ran away from his alcoholic mother to live with his father
- No More Sex War: The failures of feminism, by Neil Lyndon, 1992, Sinclair-Stevenson Ltd ISBN 978-1-85619-191-3
- A Boyhood in the Weald, by Neil Lyndon, 1998, Pomegranate Press ISBN 978-0-9519876-8-1
- Sexual Impolitics: Heresies on sex, gender and feminism, 2014
- Men of Respect (formerly Hail to the Chief), a musical about America between the inaugurations of John Kennedy and Richard Nixon, co-written by Lyndon.
- Lyndon, Neil (10 May 2016). "From Trump to Ranieri: is this the era of the older man?". Telegraph.co.uk. Retrieved 19 October 2017.
- "Old Collyerians Newsletter" (PDF). Oldcollyerians.org.uk. 1999. Retrieved 19 October 2017.
- Neil Lyndon 22 years on, I'm republishing my controversial book on the failings of feminism.. Daily Telegraph, 10 November 2014.
- Neil Lyndon Spending to save with Audi. Daily Telegraph, 10 November 2011.
- Neil Lyndon (1998) A Boyhood in the Weald
- "Origins of the School". Gillingham-dorset.co.uk. Retrieved 19 October 2017.
- Lyndon, Neil (3 June 2014). "Boys need help to break the cycle of crime". Telegraph.co.uk. Retrieved 19 October 2017.
- "Queens' College: 1968-1969" (PDF). Queens.cam.ac.uk. Retrieved 19 October 2017.
- Neil Lyndon That Summer: The hitch-hiker's guide to the fallacy: Seduced by his friends' tales of laughing peasants and lively girls, Neil Lyndon hit the road for the summer of love. The road it back. The Independent, 20 August 1994.
- Fountain, Nigel (1 January 1988). "Underground: The London Alternative Press, 1966-74". Routledge – via Google Books.
- Neil Lyndon, "The return of the heretic", The Sunday Times, 3 December 2000
- Neil Lyndon, "I was stupid too – but at least I admit it, comrade", The Times, 28 October 2007
- Neil Lyndon The return of the heretic. originally published in The Times, 3 December 2000. archived at Fathers Are Capable Too.
- Murray, Scott (16 June 2009). "Joy of Six: Broadcasting under the influence - Scott Murray". Theguardian.com. Retrieved 19 October 2017.
- London Charivari, (Punch), Volume 300, 1991
- Lyndon, Neil (13 September 1992). "No More Sex War: The Failures of Feminism". Sinclair-Stevenson – via Google Books.
- Christina Hardyment, "Book Review: A wounded Apollo lashes back: No more Sex War – Neil Lyndon", The Independent, 3 October 1992
- White, Jim (15 December 2000). "Neil Lyndon takes on the feminists". Theguardian.com. Retrieved 19 October 2017.
- Bindel, Julie (12 May 2009). "Julie Bindel talks to fellow feminist Julie Burchill about marriage, militancy and men's lib". Theguardian.com. Retrieved 19 October 2017.
- Jim White, "Back in the fray", The Guardian, 15 December 2000
- "Mens' champion admits he has lost the sex war". Highbeam.com. 11 July 1999. Archived from the original on 8 September 2017. Retrieved 19 October 2017.
- "The return of the heretic". Fact.on.ca. Retrieved 19 October 2017.
- "Who's Who in the Sex War: A guide to the seminal - or rather ovular -". Independent.co.uk. 27 September 1992. Retrieved 19 October 2017.
- Lyndon, Neil (17 December 2014). "I know how 'Kafkaesque' the Family Court can be". Telegraph.co.uk. Retrieved 19 October 2017.
- Lyndon, Neil (12 July 2010). "VW California campervan put to the test". Telegraph.co.uk. Retrieved 19 October 2017.
- "Am I completely mad?". Web.archive.org. Archived from the original on 24 September 2009. Retrieved 19 October 2017.
- "Neil Lyndon's contributor profile at The First Post". Archived from the original on 1 January 2011. Retrieved 18 October 2010.CS1 maint: BOT: original-url status unknown (link)