||The examples and perspective in this article deal primarily with the United States and do not represent a worldwide view of the subject. (December 2008)|
A noncustodial parent is a parent who does not have physical and/or legal custody of his/her child by court order. << you can be considered a non-custodial parent even while having shared physical and/or legal custody.
A "child-custody determination" means a judgment, decree, or other order of a court providing for the legal custody, physical custody, or visitation with respect to a child. The term includes a permanent, temporary, initial, and modification order. The term does not include an order relating to child support or other monetary obligation of an individual. Where the child will only live with one of the parents, sole physical custody is ordered, and the parent with which the child lives is the custodial parent, the other parent is the non-custodial parent.
Note, however, where the child will live with both parents, joint physical custody is ordered, and both parents are custodial parents. In the case of joint physical custody a 50/50 equal shared parenting schedule is typically not required, therefore the joint custodial parent may have the minority of time with the child but not be said to be a non-custodial parent. For example, states such as Alabama, California, and Texas do not necessarily require joint custody orders to result in substantially equal parenting time, whereas states such as Arizona, Georgia, and Louisiana do require joint custody orders to result in substantially equal parenting time where feasible.
Child custody and visitation
There are two kinds of child custody: legal custody and physical custody. Physical custody, designates where the child will live, whereas legal custody gives the custodial person(s) the right to make decisions for the child's welfare. Often one parent will retain physical custody, while sharing joint legal custody with the other parent. The noncustodial parent is typically required to pay child support, and visitation is arranged.
The noncustodial parent might live in the same city as their child or reside in another city, state or country. Most airlines offer “unaccompanied minor” services for children traveling without a parent, guardian, or another trusted adult. The age requirements generally used by the airlines are between the ages of five and eleven years old (and sometimes up to 15 - it is always advisable to contact the airline to make sure that they accept unaccompanied minors as passengers). Fees charged for unaccompanied minor services are usually assessed per direction and have been doubled with the downturn of the US economy.
Family Educational Rights and Privacy Act (FERPA)
Family law differs from state to state, and noncustodial parents are a diverse population, with many factors affecting custody arrangements, from which parent is awarded custody to negotiating visitation schedules. A noncustodial may have difficulty in accessing medical records, educational status and other information regarding their child, but there is some federal legislation which supports the rights of a noncustodial parent who retains legal custody of their child.
Student education records are official and confidential documents protected by one of the nation's strongest privacy protection laws, the Family Educational Rights and Privacy Act (FERPA). FERPA, also known as the Buckley Amendment, defines education records as all records that schools or education agencies maintain about students. FERPA gives parents the right to review and confirm the accuracy of education records and applies to public schools and state or local education agencies that receive Federal education funds, both paper and computerized records. In addition to the Federal laws that restrict disclosure of information from student records, most states also have privacy protection laws that reinforce FERPA. State laws can supplement FERPA, but compliance with FERPA is necessary if schools are to continue to be eligible to receive Federal education funds.
FERPA gives both parents, custodial and noncustodial, equal access to student information unless the school has evidence of a court order or state law revoking these rights. When students reach the age of 18, or when they become students at postsecondary education institutions, they become "eligible students" and rights under FERPA transfer to them. However, parents retain access to student records of children who are their dependents for tax purposes.
In the case of divorce or separation, a school district must provide access to both natural parents, custodial and non-custodial, unless there is a legally binding document that specifically removes that parent's FERPA rights. Custody or other residential arrangements for a child do not, by themselves, affect the FERPA rights of the child's parents. One can best understand the FERPA position on parents' rights by separating the concept of custody from the concept of rights that FERPA gives parents. Custody, as a legal concept, establishes where a child will live, and often, the duties of the person(s) with whom the child lives. The FERPA, on the other hand, simply establishes the parents' right of access to and control of education record related to the child.
Generally, a school is not required to provide parents copies of records. However, if the distance is great enough to make it impractical for the parent to visit the school to review the record, the school must make copies of the record and send them to the parent when that parent requests access to the record. Additional frequently asked questions about the rights of non-custodial parents can be found here.
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- Pagano, Annette. Journeys of Women Without Custody From Ambivalence to a Renewed Sense of Self
- Hart, Sarah A Mother Apart: How to let go of guilt & find happiness living apart from your child.
- Weyant, Nicole. Striving for Peace: Managing Conflict in Non-Custodial Homes
- FERPA: Rights of Non-Custodial Parents in the Family Educational Rights and Privacy Act of 1974
- Your Rights as a NonCustodial Parent
- US Dept of Health & Human Services: Promoting Responsible Fatherhood
- Iowa custody code
- IRS Frequently Asked Questions
- Facts Court Watch
- College: Divorce and Financial Aid
- National Association of Non-Custodial Moms, Inc.
- Alliance for Non-Custodial Parents Rights
- Separated Parenting Access and Resource Center
- Parents get in the way
- Coping as a NonCustodial Parent
- Glenn Sacks blog
- Being an Involved Non-custodial Parent
- Involved Non-custodial Parents: Tips for Strengthening Your Bond Even While You Are Apart From One Another
- Moms Over Miles