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Secret Santa is a Western Christmas tradition in which members of a group or community are randomly assigned a person to whom they give a gift. The identity of the gift giver is a secret not to be revealed until after the gift is opened.
Deriving from the Christian tradition, the ritual is known as Secret Santa in the United States and the United Kingdom; as Kris Kringel or Kris Kindle (Christkindl) in Ireland; as Wichteln, Secret Santa, Kris Kringle, Chris Kindle (Christkindl) or Engerl-Bengerl in parts of Austria; as Secret Santa or Kris Kringle in Canada and Australia; as Secret Santa, Kris Kringle, or Manita-Manito in the Philippines; as Angelito in the Dominican Republic; and as "Wichteln" or "Julklapp" in Germany. "Wichteln" is what a "Wichtel", a wight, does, a good deed. In Poland, the tradition is celebrated on the day of 6 December (Mikołajki), in Ukraine — on December, 19th (Mykolay). All of these names derive from traditional Christmas gift-bringers: the American custom is named after Santa Claus, or St Nicholas (Poland and Ukraine), while Chris Kindle and Kris Kringle are both corruptions of the original name of the Austrian gift-bringer Christkindl, which means the "Christ Child". Exceptions are the UK (where the traditional gift-bringer is Father Christmas) and the Philippines (which has the Three Kings). Spain, Portugal and most places in Latin America use amigo secreto (secret friend) or amigo invisible/invisível (invisible friend). In Israel, this game is called גמד וענק (A Dwarf and a Giant) and is mostly played during Purim.
Thieving Secret Santa/Stealing Secret Santa/White Elephant/Yankee Swap
In this version, participants (players) bring one gift each which is potentially suitable or interesting to any of the other participants. The gifts should be wrapped in such a way as to disguise their nature. Ideally, the provider of each gift should not be disclosed when setting up the game. Players take turns, and can either open a new gift, or steal a previously opened gift. This game is more commonly known as the white elephant gift exchange, or Yankee Swap.[unreliable source?]
Each participant brings a gift for their assigned person, with a letter. This letter may or may not have hints on who the giver might be, depending on the rules participants have established. Each receiver must guess who made the gift.
Secret Casino Santa
In this version, each person buys a gift for specific amount, not for anyone specifically. Each person also puts in a specific amount of money into a pot. Who goes first in gift selection can be determined by random selection. The options are:
- Option A: Choose a gift
- Option B: Do not choose a gift, and go for Money.
- Option C: Put your name in to win all the unwanted gifts by those who went for Option B.
At the end, the gifts that were chosen are opened and the winner of the money and leftover gifts are drawn.
In this version, participants engage in a "conspiracy" where all participants work together to select a gift for a single participant without that participant's direct involvement or knowledge. Many such individual "conspiracies" run concurrently, one for each participant. Email threads or web apps are commonly used to manage each "conspiracy" until a consensus is made, wherein the gift is purchased by a decided upon participant and given at a later date. A common theme of Conspiracy Santa is collectively learning about participants, making it popular for workplaces and schools.
Secret Santa Online
The tradition of Secret Santa is becoming increasingly popular in online communities.
On the one hand there are several Secret Santa Generators that tell every participant in a group for whom to buy a gift. This is especially useful for groups who can't meet in person to draw the names from a hat or bowl before the Secret Santa event. Popular Secret Santa Generators are:
- DrawNames: a simple email based Secret Santa Generator (supports multiple languages)
- elfster: a combination of a Secret Santa Generator and an online shop to buy the Secret Santa gift (products on the US shop of Amazon.com). This also lets people RSVP to the invitations that are sent out to their name
- Pikkado: a free and very complete tool to successfully organize a Secret Santa gift exchange. (supports multiple languages: EN, ES, FR, PT)
- Wichtelmania: a Secret Santa Generator without email registration (based on secret links that can be sent to the participants using WhatsApp, Facebook, Twitter, ... or email)
- Easy Santa: a Secret Santa Generator available on Android and IOS where users register through the mobile phone and the draws are made and consulted also through the mobile phone. It supports 25 languages and works in most countries.
- My Secret Santa: a full mobile Secret Santa Generator (no installation) to manage from 3 to thousands of participants and providing functionalities like: 1 to 5 draws per participant, custom design, anonymous messages exchanges between participants, vocal message to santa / whishlist sharing, gift ideas.
- PartyLabz: a Secret Santa Generator within online RSVP website. You can create an event and add a Secret Santa tab there. To be able to play, participants need to RSVP to the event. Then the host initiates Secret Santa game (the service randomly draws names and sends emails). The participants can anonymously send message or notify the host about sending or receiving a gift.
- Secret-Santa.team: a Secret Santa application to start a Secret Santa with your team. Connect your application (Slack and Discord supported at the moment), select the participants and validates. The service will randomly draw users and send them a private message in their application to inform them of their peer name. Totally free, without ads, and no privacy data storage nor usage.
On the other hand there are communities like redditgifts where you don't know the person for whom you buy a gift or from whom you receive a gift.
- SSAS: a secret santa allocation system where you can join games by logging in with your social account. The owner of the game can simply click "allocate" to allocate the secret santa.
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