|Single by Dr. Hook & the Medicine Show|
|from the album Dr. Hook|
|B-side||"Makin' It Natural"|
|Dr. Hook & the Medicine Show singles chronology|
"Sylvia's Mother" is a 1972 single by Dr. Hook & the Medicine Show and the group's first hit song. It was written by Shel Silverstein, produced by Ron Haffkine and was highly successful in the United States, reaching #5 on the Billboard singles chart (tied with "Sexy Eyes" from the album Sometimes You Win for the band's best performing song), as well as #1 in Ireland and #2 in the United Kingdom. It spent 3 weeks at #1 on the Australian music charts, making it the 15th ranked single in Australia for 1972; and also reached #1 in South Africa, where it was the 3rd ranked song for the year. It appeared on the group's first album, Dr. Hook.
"Sylvia's Mother" is autobiographical, with songwriter Shel Silverstein drawing upon his unsuccessful attempt to revive a failed relationship. Silverstein had been in love with a woman named Silvia Pandolfi, but she would later become engaged to another man and end up as a museum curator at the Museo de Arte Carrillo Gil, Mexico City. Desperate to continue the relationship, Silverstein called Pandolfi's mother, Louisa, but she instead told him that the love had ended.
The lyrics tell the story in much the same way: A young man, despondent and near tears after learning that Sylvia, with whom he'd had an earlier bad breakup, is leaving town, tries to telephone her to say one last good-bye, or at least try to get a suitable explanation as to why their relationship failed and maybe try to rekindle things. However, Sylvia's mother (Mrs. Avery) tells him that Sylvia is engaged to be married, and is trying to start a new life in Galveston. She asks the man not to say anything to her because she might start crying and want to stay. She tells the man Sylvia is hurrying to catch a 9 o'clock train. She then returns to the phone conversation, thanks the (unnamed) narrator for calling. The pathos lies in the singer's awareness that Sylvia is right there with her mother, Sylvia being unaware that he's the man on the phone. Throughout the phone conversation, an operator cuts in to ask for more money ("40 cents more for the next three minutes") to continue the call.
Bobby Bare cover
|Single by Bobby Bare|
|B-side||"Music City U.S.A."|
June 15, 1972|
Mercury Custom Recording Studio
3:39 (7" version)
|Label||Mercury Records 73317|
|Bobby Bare singles chronology|
In 1972, about the same time the Dr. Hook version was on the chart, country singer Bobby Bare recorded a cover version. Bare's version became a hit, reaching No. 12 on the Billboard Hot Country Singles chart that October. One of his last hit records during his stay at Mercury Records, "Sylvia's Mother" became the first of many Silverstein-penned songs Bare had success with, and would foreshadow both an entire album dedicated to Silverstein-penned songs (1973's Bobby Bare Sings Lullabys, Legends and Lies) and hit records written by Silverstein, including "Marie Laveau," "The Winner," "Rosalie's Good Eats Café", "The Mermaid", "Warm and Free" and others.
Other cover versions
- In 1976, the French singer Sacha Distel covered the song : "Le Père de Sylvia" (Sylvia's Father !). This shift from Mother to Father makes the song more euphonic in French. Indeed, "La Mère de Sylvia" could have lead to possible misinterpretations.
- A sequel titled "Mrs. Avery" has been written and performed by British folk rockers The Men They Couldn't Hang. Written from the point of view of the lovesick character's father, shortly after the telephone conversation and once Sylvia has left town, it documents a further telephone conversation with Sylvia's mother discussing the aftermath and additional romantic captivation 
- "Sylvia's Mother" was also covered by Bon Jovi on This Left Feels Right Live.
A Dutch version of the song, named 'Sylvia's Moeder", is played by Dutch group Drukwerk.
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- Cash Box Top 100 Singles, June 17, 1972
- Cash Box Year-End Charts: Top 100 Pop Singles, December 30, 1972
- confirmed by Paul Simmonds, the lyricist