|Single by Dr. Hook & The Medicine Show|
|from the album Doctor Hook|
|B-side||"Makin' It Natural"|
|Dr. Hook & The Medicine Show singles chronology|
"Sylvia's Mother" was a 1972 single by Dr. Hook & The Medicine Show and the group's first hit song. It was written by Shel Silverstein, produced by Ron Haffkine and was highly successful in the United States, reaching #5 on the Billboard singles chart, as well as #1 in Ireland and #2 in the United Kingdom. It also spent 3 weeks at #1 on the Australian music charts, making it the 15th ranked single in Australia for 1972. It appeared on the group's first album, Doctor Hook.
"Sylvia's Mother" is autobiographical, with songwriter Shel Silverstein drawing upon his unsuccessful attempt to revive a failed relationship. Silverstein had been in love with a woman named Sylvia Pandolfi, but she would later become engaged to another man. Desperate to continue the relationship, Silverstein called Pandolfi's mother, Louisa, but she instead told him that the love had ended.
The lyrics tell the story in much the same way: A young man, despondent and near tears after learning that his ex-girlfriend (Sylvia Avery, with whom he'd had an earlier bad breakup) is leaving town, tries to telephone her to say one last good-bye, or at least try to get a suitable explanation as to why their relationship failed and maybe try to rekindle things. However, Sylvia's mother (Mrs. Avery) tells him that Sylvia is engaged to be married, and is trying to start a new life in Galveston. She asks the man not to say anything to her because she might start crying and want to stay. She tells the man Sylvia is hurrying to catch a 9 o'clock train. In an aside, she then tells Sylvia to take an umbrella ("cause Sylvie, it's starting to rain"). She then returns to the phone conversation, thanks the (unidentified) man for calling, and asks him to call back again ("And sir, won't you call back again"). The pathos lies in Sylvia's mother being aware of both conversations, but the lovers only "pass in the night". Throughout the phone conversation, an operator cuts in to ask for more money ("40 cents more for the next three minutes") to continue the call.
|Single by Bobby Bare|
|B-side||"Music City U.S.A."|
|Recorded||June 15, 1972
Mercury Custom Recording Studio
3:39 (7" version)
|Label||Mercury Records 73317|
|Bobby Bare singles chronology|
In 1972, about the same time the Dr. Hook version was on the chart, country singer Bobby Bare recorded a cover version. Bare's version became a hit, reaching No. 12 on the Billboard Hot Country Singles chart that October. One of his last hit records during his stay at Mercury Records, "Sylvia's Mother" became the first of many Silverstein-penned songs Bare had success with, and would foreshadow both an entire album dedicated to Silverstein-penned songs (1973's Bobby Bare Sings Lullabys, Legends and Lies) and hit records written by Silverstein, including "Marie Laveau," "The Winner," "Rosalie's Good Eats Café", "The Mermaid", "Warm and Free" and others.
In 1976, the French singer Sacha Distel covered the song : "Le Père de Sylvia" (Sylvia's Father !)
A sequel titled "Mrs. Avery" has been written and performed by British folk rockers The Men They Couldn't Hang. The song begins years later when the main character of "Sylvia's Mother" is divorced, has children of his own, and happens to find an old picture of Sylvia which prompts him to call her mother again.
|Australian Kent Music Report||1|
|Belgian VRT Top 30||9|
|Canadian RPM Top Singles||2|
|Denmark Top 10||3|
|Dutch Top 40||3|
|German Media Control Chart||9|
|Irish Singles Chart||1|
|Italian Singles Chart||3|
|New Zealand Singles Chart||1|
|Norwegian Singles Chart||5|
|South African Singles Chart||1|
|Swedish Singles Chart||9|
|Swiss Singles Chart||3|
|U.K. Singles Chart||2|
|U.S. Billboard Hot 100||5|
|South African Singles Chart||3|
|Australian Kent Music Report||15|
|Italian Singles Chart||22|
|Dutch Top 40||33|
|German Media Control Charts||48|
|U.S. Billboard Hot 100||64|
|Belgian VRT Top 30||90|
- Fread Bronson, The Billboard Book of Number 1 Hits (New York, Billboard, 2003), p. 312
- everyHit.com RetroCharts for 1972
- Go-Set Australian Charts—1972
- Documentary on Dutch television about the song subtitled in Dutch, movie
- Kent, David (1993). Australian Chart Book 1970–1992. Australian Chart Book. ISBN 0-646-11917-6.