The Ethical Slut

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The Ethical Slut
Cover of the first edition
  • Dossie Easton
  • Catherine A. Liszt
Cover artistBrendan Husk
CountryUnited States
PublisherGreenery Press
Publication date
Media typePrint
306.73 22
LC ClassHQ980.5.U5 E27 1997

The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities is an English language non-fiction book by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy (given as pseudonym Catherine A. Liszt for the book's first edition in 1997).[1]


The authors define the term slut as "a person of any gender who has the courage to lead life according to the radical proposition that sex is nice and pleasure is good for you." The term is reclaimed from its usual use as a pejorative and as a simple label for a promiscuous person. Instead, it is used to signify a person who is accepting of their enjoyment of sex and the pleasure of physical intimacy with others, and chooses to engage and accept these in an ethical and open way—rather than as cheating.

The Ethical Slut discusses how to live an active life with multiple concurrent sexual relationships in a fair and honest way. Discussion topics include how to deal with the practical difficulties and opportunities in finding and keeping partners, maintaining relationships with others, and strategies for personal growth.

It contains chapters discussing how consensual non-monogamy is handled in different subcultures such as the gay and lesbian communities, information on handling scheduling, jealousy, communication, conflict in relationships, and etiquette for group sexual encounters.


A 2007 article in the East Bay Express reported that Moses Ma would be producing a movie adaptation,[2] but as of 2014, the project had not come to fruition.

In 2013, Ben Fritz (producer/director) raised funding privately and via Kickstarter to create an episodic web series inspired by the book with input from Easton and Hardy.[3] By 2016, four seasons of The Ethical Slut were released on YouTube[4] despite struggles for funding after the first season.[5][6] There are 50 episodes, which range between 4 and 9 minutes. The series follows two female friends as they decide to explore open relationships with the help of The Ethical Slut.

A play adaptation of the book by John Sable called Multiple O, described as an "erotic comedy",[7] opened on May 2, 2008, at the Broom Street Theater in Madison, Wisconsin.[8]


Second edition (2009)[edit]

In May 2007, co-author Dossie Easton reported that she and Liszt were working on a second edition, including more communication exercises and information about online polyamory communities.[9] It was published in March 2009 and is called The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures.

Third edition (2017)[edit]

A third edition was released in August 2017 entitled The Ethical Slut, Third Edition: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships, and Other Freedoms in Sex and Love.[10] It was revised to include interviews with polyamorous millennials, who had grown up without the prejudices their elders encountered regarding gender, orientation, sexuality, and relationships. It also contains tributes to poly pioneers and sidebars on topics such as asexuality and sex workers. The authors also include new content addressing nontraditional relationships beyond the polyamorous paradigm of "more than two": couples who don't live together, couples who don't have sex with each other, nonparallel arrangements, couples with widely divergent sex styles, power disparities, and cross-orientation relationships, while utilizing non-binary gender language and new terms that have come into common usage since the last edition.[11]


The Ethical Slut has been translated into several different languages, including French, Spanish, Italian, German, and Russian.

  • Russian: Этика бл**ства, published in 2006[12]
  • French: La Salope éthique: Guide pratique pour des relations libres sereines, published by Tabou Éditions in April 2013[13]
  • Spanish: Ética promiscua, published by Editorial Melusina in 2013[14]
  • Italian: La zoccola etica. Guida al poliamore, alle relazioni aperte e altre avventure, published by Odoya in January 2014[15]
  • German: Schlampen mit Moral. Eine praktische Anleitung für Polyamorie, offene Beziehungen und andere Abenteuer, published by mvg Verlag in May 2014[16]

See also[edit]


  1. ^ Oparaugo, Godspower (March 22, 2022). "Amazing Facts About Polyamorous Relationship". Pen Shuttle. Retrieved March 23, 2022.
  2. ^ Rufus, Anneli (31 January 2007). "Sluts and Pork Buns". East Bay Express. Archived from the original on 17 October 2007. Retrieved 26 October 2016.
  3. ^ Fritz, Ben (9 May 2013). "Ethical Slut". Retrieved 26 October 2016.
  4. ^ Fritz, Ben (5 February 2014). "The Ethical Slut YouTube". YouTube. Retrieved 26 October 2016.
  5. ^ Fritz, Ben (8 May 2014). "The Ethical Slut, Season 2&3". Retrieved 26 October 2016.
  6. ^ Fritz, Ben (27 August 2014). "The Ethical Slut GoFund Me". GoFundMe. Retrieved 26 October 2016.
  7. ^ "Multiple O By John Sable". MadStage. Retrieved 29 September 2021.
  8. ^ Minx, Cunning (4 May 2008). "Multiple O: a play based on The Ethical Slut". Polyamory Weekly. Retrieved 26 October 2016.
  9. ^ Easton, Dossie. Interview. "Episode 110". Polyamory Weekly. By Cunning Minx. May 24, 2007. Quoted in "Upcoming Poly Books and Movie". Polyamory in the News. May 25, 2007.
  10. ^ "The Ethical Slut, Third Edition: Penguin Random House".
  11. ^ Noble, Barnes &. "The Ethical Slut, Third Edition: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships, and Other Freedoms in Sex and Love". Barnes & Noble. Retrieved 2017-11-06.
  12. ^ "Досси Истон, Кэтрин А. Лист. Этика бл**ства".
  13. ^ Easton, Dossie; Hardy, Janet (2013). La Salope Éthique. ISBN 9782915635768. Retrieved 26 October 2016. {{cite book}}: |website= ignored (help)
  14. ^ Easton, Dossie; Hardy, Janet W. (June 2013). Ética promiscua. ISBN 978-84-96614-89-5. Retrieved 26 October 2016. {{cite book}}: |website= ignored (help)
  15. ^ Easton, Dossie; Janet, Hardy (2014). La Zoccola Etica. ISBN 978-88-6288-205-7. Retrieved 26 October 2016. {{cite book}}: |website= ignored (help)
  16. ^ Easton, Dossie; Hardy, Janet. "Schlampen mit Moral". (in German). WVG Verlag. Archived from the original on 26 January 2019. Retrieved 26 October 2016.

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