You Don't Own Me
|"You Don't Own Me"|
|Single by Lesley Gore|
|from the album Lesley Gore Sings of Mixed-Up Hearts|
|B-side||"Run Bobby, Run"|
|Released||December 11, 1963|
|Lesley Gore singles chronology|
"You Don't Own Me" is a popular song written by Philadelphia songwriters John Madara and David White and recorded by Lesley Gore in 1963, when Gore was 17 years old. The song was Gore's second most successful recording and her last top-ten single. On November 27, 2016, along with 24 other songs, the Grammy Hall of Fame announced its induction.
The song expresses emancipation, as the singer tells a lover that he does not own her, that he isn't to tell her what to do or what to say, and that he is not to put her on display. The song's lyrics became an inspiration for younger women and are sometimes cited as a factor in the second wave feminist movement.
Gore said, "My take on the song was: I'm 17, what a wonderful thing, to stand up on a stage and shake your finger at people and sing you don't own me." In Gore's obituary, The New York Times referred to "You Don't Own Me" as "indelibly defiant".
The song reached number two on the Billboard Hot 100 in the United States. The song remained at number two for three consecutive weeks on February 1, 1964, unable to overcome the Beatles' hit, "I Want to Hold Your Hand". It became Gore's second most successful hit after "It's My Party". The song was Gore's last top-ten single.
|US Billboard Hot 100||2|
|US Cashbox Top 100||2|
|US Billboard Year-End Hot 100||36|
Later comparative criticism
After the success of "You Don't Own Me", many of Lesley Gore's other songs, including "That's the Way Boys Are", were eventually compared to it and criticized for not coming up to feminist expectations. Of "That's the Way Boys Are", author Richard Aquila noted that the lyrics "voice the era's acceptance of sexual double standards," in contrast with the theme of Gore's previous single, "You Don't Own Me". Aquila regards "That's the Way Boys Are" as one of several examples of Lesley Gore songs that regard women as dependents or passive objects, along with earlier singles "It's My Party" and "Judy's Turn to Cry." Musicologist Walter Everett described "That's the Way Boys Are" as one of the many 1960s sexist songs that "perpetuated a boys will be boys tolerance for male but not female infidelity." Music critic Greil Marcus also remarked on the way "That's the Way Boys Are" backs off from the "proto-feminist manifesto" of "You Don't Own Me" to a message of "he may treat you like garbage, but they're all like that, and we love 'em for it!"
|"You Don't Own Me"|
|Single by Grace featuring G-Eazy|
|from the EP Memo and the album FMA|
|Released||March 7, 2015|
|Grace singles chronology|
|G-Eazy singles chronology|
The song was covered by Australian singer and songwriter Grace and was released as her debut single. It features American rapper G-Eazy. Grace's version was produced by Quincy Jones, who also produced the original recording by Lesley Gore, and Parker Ighile. It was released on March 7, 2015, one month after Lesley Gore's death, and peaked at number one on the ARIA Charts, later being certified 3× Platinum by the ARIA. The song was also a success in New Zealand, peaking at number five for two consecutive weeks, and in the United Kingdom, peaking at number four.
In an interview with House of Fraser, Grace said, "[Quincy Jones] told me how the song came out during the feminist movement and how it was such a strong statement. I loved the song, started researching Lesley Gore and fell in love with her as an artist. [You Don't Own Me] really inspired me."
The song was released worldwide on August 17, 2015. It grew to prominence in the UK when it was used in the 2015 House of Fraser Christmas advert. It was also performed by The X Factor contestant Lauren Murray in 2015 and Matt Terry in 2016. The increased exposure for the song helped it rise to a peak of number four on the UK Singles Chart. The song was featured in the third trailer for the 2016 film Suicide Squad  and appeared on the film's soundtrack album.
A music video directed by Taylor Cohen was released on June 1, 2015.
Charts and certifications
|Austria (Ö3 Austria Top 40)||55|
|Belgium (Ultratip Flanders)||42|
|Canada (Canadian Hot 100)||45|
|Czech Republic (Singles Digitál Top 100)||52|
|Hungary (Single Top 40)||32|
|New Zealand (Recorded Music NZ)||5|
|Slovakia (Rádio Top 100)||50|
|Slovakia (Singles Digitál Top 100)||38|
|Switzerland (Schweizer Hitparade)||60|
|UK Singles (OCC)||4|
|US Billboard Hot 100||57|
|US Mainstream Top 40 (Billboard)||22|
|New Zealand (Recorded Music NZ)||43|
|UK Singles (Official Charts Company)||87|
|Australia (ARIA)||4× Platinum||280,000|
|Canada (Music Canada)||2× Platinum||160,000|
|Denmark (IFPI Danmark)||Gold||45,000|
|New Zealand (RMNZ)||Platinum||15,000*|
|Poland (ZPAV)||2× Platinum||40,000|
|Switzerland (IFPI Switzerland)||Gold||15,000|
|United Kingdom (BPI)||Platinum||600,000|
|United States (RIAA)||Platinum||1,000,000|
* Sales figures based on certification alone.
Other notable covers
- The Ormsby Brothers released the first male version of this song in 1973. The Brothers were from New Zealand, and their version was a peaked at number 5 in Australia in that year.
- Joan Jett released a cover of the song as her first solo single in 1979, prior to the release of her eponymous debut album (later called Bad Reputation) in 1980. The b-side of the single was an early version of her hit "I Love Rock 'n' Roll".
- Klaus Nomi released a cover of the song in 1981 on his first single, and later in the same year on his first full-length album. Sung by Nomi, the song was for its time a rare explicit acknowledgment of gay sexuality.
- André Hazes recorded a Dutch-language version of the song in 1981 for his album Gewoon André; "Zeg Maar Niets Meer" was popular in Europe, and reached number 2 in the Dutch charts in early 1982.
- The song appeared on the motion picture soundtrack to the 1987 film "Dirty Dancing", performed by British band The Blow Monkeys.
- Elaine Paige recorded the song on her 1991 album "Love Can Do That".
- The alternative duo Matt and Kim released a cover of the song as a single in March, 2021. The cover art rearranges the name of the duo to Kim and Matt.
- The song was particularly featured in the 1996 film The First Wives Club which was sung by Diane Keaton, Bette Midler and Goldie Hawn. It also attracted fan following.
- Selena Gomez covered the song during her Revival Tour in 2016
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