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Roosevelt, aged 22, married Alice Lee, aged 19, on October 27, 1880 (his 22nd birthday), at the [[Unitarian]] Church in [[Brookline, Massachusetts]]. Among the guests at their wedding, and at the reception in the home of the bride's parents, was [[Edith Carow]], later to become Roosevelt's second wife. The couple honeymooned two weeks at the Roosevelt home in [[Oyster Bay, New York]]. |
Roosevelt, aged 22, married Alice Lee, aged 19, on October 27, 1880 (his 22nd birthday), at the [[Unitarian]] Church in [[Brookline, Massachusetts]]. Among the guests at their wedding, and at the reception in the home of the bride's parents, was [[Edith Carow]], later to become Roosevelt's second wife. The couple honeymooned two weeks at the Roosevelt home in [[Oyster Bay, New York]]. |
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Tragically, Mrs. Roosevelt died in New York on February 14, 1884, on the fourth anniversary of their engagement, from [[Bright's disease]], and childbirth complications. She was 22 years old. (On the same day and in the same house, Roosevelt's mother, Martha "Mittie" Bulloch-Roosevelt also died, of typhoid fever). T.R. was so distraught by Alice's death that except for a diary entry ("The light has gone out of my life"). In a short privately published tribute to Alice, Roosevelt wrote: |
Tragically, Mrs. Roosevelt died in New York on February 14, 1884, on the fourth anniversary of their engagement, from [[Bright's disease]], and childbirth complications. She was 22 years old. (On the same day and in the same house, Roosevelt's mother, Martha "Mittie" Bulloch-Roosevelt also died, of typhoid fever). T.R. was so distraught by Alice's death that except for a diary entry ("The light has gone out of my life") he hardly ever spoke of her again. In a short privately published tribute to Alice, Roosevelt wrote: |
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{{quote|She was beautiful in face and form, and lovelier still in spirit; As a flower she grew, and as a fair young flower she died. Her life had been always in the sunshine; there had never come to her a single sorrow; and none ever knew her who did not love and revere her for the bright, sunny temper and her saintly unselfishness. Fair, pure, and joyous as a maiden; loving , tender, and happy. As a young wife; when she had just become a mother, when her life seemed to be just begun, and when the years seemed so bright before her—then, by a strange and terrible fate, death came to her. And when my heart’s dearest died, the light went from my life forever.<ref> Miller, Nathan, (1992) ''Theodore Roosevelt - A Life'', pg 158, ISBN 9780688132200, ISBN: 0688132200, New York, Quill/William Morrow </ref>}} |
{{quote|She was beautiful in face and form, and lovelier still in spirit; As a flower she grew, and as a fair young flower she died. Her life had been always in the sunshine; there had never come to her a single sorrow; and none ever knew her who did not love and revere her for the bright, sunny temper and her saintly unselfishness. Fair, pure, and joyous as a maiden; loving , tender, and happy. As a young wife; when she had just become a mother, when her life seemed to be just begun, and when the years seemed so bright before her—then, by a strange and terrible fate, death came to her. And when my heart’s dearest died, the light went from my life forever.<ref> Miller, Nathan, (1992) ''Theodore Roosevelt - A Life'', pg 158, ISBN 9780688132200, ISBN: 0688132200, New York, Quill/William Morrow </ref>}} |
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Alice Hathaway Lee-Roosevelt (July 29, 1861 in Chestnut Hill, Massachusetts – February 14, 1884 in Manhattan, New York) was the first wife of Theodore Roosevelt. They had one child, Alice Lee Roosevelt.
Born in Chestnut Hill, Massachusetts, the daughter of George Cabot Lee, a prominent banker, and Caroline Haskell-Lee, Alice was tall (5'7"), charming, pretty, and intelligent.
She met Theodore "T.R." Roosevelt on October 18, 1878 at the home of her next-door neighbors, the Saltonstalls; T.R. was a classmate of young Richard Saltonstall at Harvard University. Of their first encounter, he would write, "As long as I live, I shall never forget how sweetly she looked, and how prettily she greeted me."
For young T.R. it was "love at first sight." By Thanksgiving (only a few weeks after meeting her), he had decided Alice was to be his wife; the following June he proposed. She put T.R. off however, taking another six months before saying "yes".
On February 13, 1880, an ecstatic Roosevelt recorded in his diary his great joy that the woman of his dreams, whom he had actively courted for more than a year, had finally accepted his proposal of marriage. Knowing that his love was reciprocated and that he could now "hold her in my arms and kiss her and caress her and love her as much as I choose" gave the enraptured young Roosevelt enormous satisfaction. They announced their engagement on February 14, 1880.
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Roosevelt, aged 22, married Alice Lee, aged 19, on October 27, 1880 (his 22nd birthday), at the Unitarian Church in Brookline, Massachusetts. Among the guests at their wedding, and at the reception in the home of the bride's parents, was Edith Carow, later to become Roosevelt's second wife. The couple honeymooned two weeks at the Roosevelt home in Oyster Bay, New York.
Tragically, Mrs. Roosevelt died in New York on February 14, 1884, on the fourth anniversary of their engagement, from Bright's disease, and childbirth complications. She was 22 years old. (On the same day and in the same house, Roosevelt's mother, Martha "Mittie" Bulloch-Roosevelt also died, of typhoid fever). T.R. was so distraught by Alice's death that except for a diary entry ("The light has gone out of my life") he hardly ever spoke of her again. In a short privately published tribute to Alice, Roosevelt wrote:
She was beautiful in face and form, and lovelier still in spirit; As a flower she grew, and as a fair young flower she died. Her life had been always in the sunshine; there had never come to her a single sorrow; and none ever knew her who did not love and revere her for the bright, sunny temper and her saintly unselfishness. Fair, pure, and joyous as a maiden; loving , tender, and happy. As a young wife; when she had just become a mother, when her life seemed to be just begun, and when the years seemed so bright before her—then, by a strange and terrible fate, death came to her. And when my heart’s dearest died, the light went from my life forever.[1]
While he made some oblique references to Alice in the months after her passing, Roosevelt never spoke of her publicly again. He refused to have her name mentioned in his presence. When asked about her mother by Alice's daughter and namesake, she was referred to Roosevelt's sister, Ana/Bye/Bamie for information and learned details of her mother only from her aunt. So final was this decision to try to put Alice's loss out of his life, that she is not even mentioned by name in his autobiography.
The Roosevelts had one daughter:
- Alice Roosevelt Longworth (1884-1980). According to a number of historians, Roosevelt's need to leave behind or suppress his experiences with his first wife were a source of deep resentment by his daughter. She was unable to get him to talk about her mother in any meaningful way. Her rebellious life finds some explanation in this sad aspect of her relationship with her father.
In the immediate aftermath of his wife's death, Theodore turned the care of their newly-born infant daughter to his elder sister Anna, also known as Bamie, and embarked on a journey of personal discovery to his ranch in the Badlands of North Dakota. From this interlude Roosevelt would emerge a renewed man and would go on to the Presidency of the United States in 1901.
Alice Hathaway Roosevelt was buried in Green-Wood Cemetery in Brooklyn, New York, next to her mother-in-law.
References
- ^ Miller, Nathan, (1992) Theodore Roosevelt - A Life, pg 158, ISBN 9780688132200, ISBN: 0688132200, New York, Quill/William Morrow