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An adult bar/bat mitzvah is a bar or bat mitzvah of a person older than the customary age. Traditionally, a bar or bat mitzvah occurs at age 13 and 12 for boys and girls respectively. But many adult Jews who have never had a bar or bat mitzvah choose to have one later in life, and many who have had one at the traditional age choose to have a second.[1] An adult bar or bat mitzvah can be held at any age after adulthood is reached and can be performed in a variety of ways.[2]

The adult bar/bat mitzvah, which can be held at any age, differs from the child's bar/bat mitzvah in that it is usually planned by the person themselves instead of their parents. Due to it taking place at an advanced stage of life, many relatives who are often present at a child's bar/bat mitzvah are deceased, and the person is often married and/or has children and sometimes grandchildren. Many men have second bar mitzvahs at the age of 83, representing 70 years since their first.[3]

Reasons

There are many reasons adult Jews choose to have a bar or bat mitzvah.

  • The adult bat mitzvah is especially popular among older women who did not have bat mitzvahs when they were young due to lack of popularity.[4] Women were banned from performing certain rituals until the 1950s that the Reform and Conservative movements now allow.[5]
  • It is often held by those who have converted to Judaism[3]
  • Some who were rebellious when young and rejected having a bar/bat mitzvah then do so later[3]
  • Many who were raised with too little of a Jewish identity and had no bar/bat mitzvah at all or had one with little meaning will have one[3]
  • Those who have had a bar/bat mitzvah when they were young and are seeking renewal[3][6]
  • Many Holocaust survivors were unable to hold their bar mitzvahs during the Holocaust.[7]

History

Rabbi Albert Axelrad of Brandeis University officiated the first adult bar mitzvahs in the early 1970s. He encouraged the practice in all denominations of Judaism.[8]

Between 1995 and 2001, Hadassah held group adult bat mitzvah ceremonies for 180 women.[9]

In 2001, the Union of American Hebrew Congregations created a guide on adult bat and bar mitzvah programs which was adopted by 900 congregations. In 2002, the Conservative Movement adopted this guide as well.[9]

Process

The process of becoming an adult bar/bat mitzvah often involves the study, often a year or longer, of Hebrew, Jewish rituals, and reading the Torah. Many congregations offer classes for the purpose.[10]

Notable adult bar/bat mitzvahs

In popular culture, there have been depictions of adult bar mitzvahs on TV shows:

See also

References

  1. ^ Marcus, I.G. (2013). The Jewish Life Cycle: rites of passage from biblical to modern times. University of Washington Press. p. 121. ISBN 9780295803920. Retrieved 2015-02-13.
  2. ^ "Bar Mitzvah for an Adult? - Bar Mitzvah". chabad.org. Retrieved 2015-02-13.
  3. ^ a b c d e "life/Life_Events/BarBat_Mitzvah/About_BarBat_Mitzvah/Adult_BarBat_Mitzvah". myjewishlearning.com. Retrieved 2015-02-13.
  4. ^ Salkin, J.K. (2005). Putting God on the Guest List: How to Reclaim the Spiritual Meaning of Your Child's Bar Or Bat Mitzvah. Jewish Lights Pub. p. 17. ISBN 9781580232609. Retrieved 2015-02-13.
  5. ^ "As Adults, Sharing A Religious Journey - The Local East Village Blog - NYTimes.com". eastvillage.thelocal.nytimes.com. Retrieved 2015-02-13.
  6. ^ "Spiritual adult Jews opting for bar, bat mitzvahs - Chicago Tribune". articles.chicagotribune.com. Retrieved 2015-02-13.
  7. ^ "Adult B Mitzvah - Fulfill That Missed Moment at Age 13". jewish-wedding-rabbi.com. Retrieved 2015-02-13.
  8. ^ "History of Adult Bar/Bat Mitzvah - My Jewish Learning". myjewishlearning.com. Retrieved 2015-02-13.
  9. ^ a b "Finding My Religion - The Boston Globe". boston.com. Retrieved 2015-02-13.
  10. ^ "Reinventing the Jewish rite of passage: Adult bar/bat mitzvah — JNS.org". jns.org. Retrieved 2015-02-13.
  11. ^ "Paula Abdul Celebrates Bat Mitzvah In Safed, Israel Known For Kabbalah (VIDEO)". huffingtonpost.com. Retrieved 2015-02-13.
  12. ^ "No Western Wall bat mitzvah for Paula Abdul after all | Jewish Telegraphic Agency". web.archive.org. Retrieved 2015-02-13.
  13. ^ "Armand Hammer Dead at 92 on Eve of His Bar Mitzvah | Jewish Telegraphic Agency". jta.org. Retrieved 2015-02-13.
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