Talk:Grief porn

Sources

Here are some sources for the term's usage. I see a tidal wave of work coming my way here in RL, so I will post them here. Please feel free to use them as appropriate:

• [1] - used to describe an author's usage of 9/11 as a vehicle for a novel.
• [2] - used to describe the phenomena surrounding bush fires in Australia.
• [3] - and another one
• [4] - a film is described as "soft-core grief porn"
• [5] - yet another definition
• [6] - describing TV as porn, including grief porn
• [7] - use of the term to describe the coverage of Jade Goody' terminal illness
• [8] - and another about coverage of Goody
• [9] - from Google Books, wherein the author describes the wrongness of idealizing all of the victims of the 9/11 attacks.
• [10] - and a review of that book, specifically calling the usage of the term as "apt"
• [11] - usage of the term in regards to the Crandall Canyon Mine accident
• [12] - from a transcript of an interview with TV critic Robert Bianco
• [13] - a film review of Things We Lost in the Fire
• [14] - used in another book review to describe the content of said book

No offense but urban dictionary has never been considered a reliable source

yep —Preceding unsigned comment added by 98.234.62.131 (talk) 04:37, 8 June 2009 (UTC)

Could I trouble you to point out something that verifies Wikipedia's position on that? Either way, note that the source is being used to expand the definition, not support it utterly. - Arcayne (^{cast a spell}) 04:57, 8 June 2009 (UTC)

An anon - likely a regular user simply logged out - offered this link in regards to Urban Dictionary as a reason to remove it. Note that UD sn't being used as the linchpin for the article, so it has nothing to do with establishing notability. Also note that while cited the UD contribution just adds depth to notable content cited reliably. Is someone contesting the reliability of the source, or that the definition is inaccurate? If the former, its reinforced by the definitions both before and after it. If the latter, the same is true. - Arcayne (^{cast a spell}) 15:28, 21 June 2009 (UTC)

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Arcayne's entry:

Urban Dictionary defines grief porn as "a form of masturbatory frenzy engaged in by the media and politicians when there is some form of disaster. It exploits the basic voyeuristic nature of humans who get their rocks off by feeling good by looking at the suffering of others".

Your entry, as quoted above, is a verbatim citation of fact. It implies the source is a Reliable Source. Nothing about it, or the fun-factory where people create artificial entries and then vote to include them into the language has any purpose here whatsoever. It's nonsense. 99.142.2.89 (talk) 15:39, 21 June 2009 (UTC)

Dude, I am using your very link, which allows it. Please, stop reverting and discuss because, frankly, reverting without talk page conclusion isn't going to do anything but create a lot more heat and drama than is necessary.

Again, the citation places provenance for the quote from UD. It doesn't offer it as primary evidence of the definition, which is offered both before and indeed after the UD bit. If anything, it only elaborates on the more reliably cited material. Again I will ask, are you suggesting that the UD entry is inaccurate? Because, quite bluntly, it is not, as it dovetails perfectly with what the RS sources already say. - Arcayne (^{cast a spell}) 16:01, 21 June 2009 (UTC)

Here are the entries self-defining "Urban Dictionary" taken from the same "Urban Dictionary" humour website that you cited. Inclusion of the content from this forum has no possible place here:

1. urban dictionary 13608 up, 1169 down love it hate it

A place formerly used to find out about slang, and now a place that teens with no life use as a burn book to whine about celebrities, their friends, etc., let out their sexual frustrations, show off their racist/sexist/homophobic/anti-(insert religion here) opinions, troll, and babble about things they know nothing about.

Urbandictionary.com isn't a burn book or a webjournal site.

2. urban dictionary 4763 up, 589 down love it hate it

An online slang dictionary in which approximately 80% of all words and definitions are sexually related.

"Hey, what in the hell is an Alaskan Firedragon?"

"Dunno, try looking it up at UrbanDictionary.com"

3. Urban Dictionary 2985 up, 922 down love it hate it

Only the coolest semi-fake dictionary ever made... updated by random ppl who usually have a sick mind and quick wit.

Urban Dictionary is a great website if you're bored out of your mind. Or if you just want to see some hilarious material made by ::random ppl who usually have a sick mind and quick wit.

4. urban dictionary 1690 up, 547 down love it hate it

The result of millions of teenagers who have too much free time, and have been pre-disposed to the influences of a media run by arrogant megalomaniacs who put more thought into selling impracticle products than making relevent influential television. Thus resulting in the spread of ignorance through the internet comunity via rascism, conformity, mis-information, and the pinnacle of a society ironically corrupted by those who claim to be trying to save the last milligrams of purity and innoscense left in this nuclear prozac nation...

if you found that definition difficult to understand, try using a real dictionary to look up those real words, that people in the real world really use...

21. Urban Dictionary 45 up, 8 down love it hate it

The largest collection of misleading information I have ever seen on the internet.

"You must have read that in the Urban Dictionary"

First of all, UD is not a "humour" website; there have been two books published about the website. Secondly, could you please attempt to make a more succinct point? I hate wading through a wall of text noting seeming examples. I will ask you for the third time: is the definition inaccurate? As it is citable to the book as well as the website, reliability and citability aren't concerns here.- Arcayne (^{cast a spell}) 03:17, 22 June 2009 (UTC)

It's partly a humor site. Plenty of their content has been added with humorous intent, for certain. I even find some of it funny. Many books have also been written about humor. That's beside the point though, in a way

The question is whether we're going to consider UD a reliable source regarding the English language, and this phrase in particular. That question isn't going to be decided by two or three people on this page. You're clearly not convincing each other, so the next step is to get more people. Try a content RFC, and try to place this question in the greater context of how we decide on reliable sources for Wikipedia. Has anyone tried Wikipedia:Reliable sources/Noticeboard? This kind of question is precisely why that page exists. -GTBacchus^(talk) 03:42, 22 June 2009 (UTC)

According to this discussion last fall, the Urban Dictionary should not be used as a reliable source. 4.88.57.150 (talk) 03:48, 22 June 2009 (UTC)

The pith of that discussion is largely contained in the quote:

“ No, it's not usually a reliable source. You can sometimes WP:IAR on pop-culture articles but I would use it only as an example of usage of a slang term, and it doesn't establish notablity. You can however use it as an external link if the UD page you're linking to is stable and uncontroversial. Squidfryerchef (talk) 15:47, 8 December 2008 (UTC) ”

How does that apply to this situation, then? -GTBacchus^(talk) 04:21, 22 June 2009 (UTC)

A couple of things: first of all, grief porn is apparently in the UD published book, which fixes the reliability issue - we just have to cite to the book and not the website. Secondly, neitehr the wiki article on UD or the UD site itself calls it a humor site. Our perception isn't citable.

What's left? - Arcayne (^{cast a spell}) 04:29, 22 June 2009 (UTC)

Well, what's left is seeing what others think. I believe you've laid out your argument clearly, and I agree at first blush that the book beats the website regarding reliability. However, since there are people who have opposed the edit, let's get a reaction. The discussion's over when we've seen people agree to some stuff.

As for the humor thing, it's a red herring. It doesn't matter if UD is a humor site or not. What matters is whether it - in its book incarnation - passes muster as a reliable source. Let's see what people think. -GTBacchus^(talk) 04:34, 22 June 2009 (UTC)

I've asked for comments at the reliable source noticeboard as you've requested.99.142.2.89 (talk) 14:23, 22 June 2009 (UTC)

Could you please post a direct link to that discussion, please? I am sure i can find it, but newer folk than you or I might want to visit the off-page discussion. - Arcayne (^{cast a spell}) 15:51, 22 June 2009 (UTC)

"The expression is common with a long history"

This was added by the anon99., replacing cited information that notes the actual initial coining of the term by Yates. He used the term after Princess Diana's death in 1997, and yet every example of the term's usage come from Google Book references at least 4-5 years after that fact. I would invite the anon to self-revert these changes, or I can do it for him. Either way, it will be done. i will wait for the anon to defend his/her edits here in a timely manner before doing so myself.
There are other matters to discuss, but let's deal with them individually. - Arcayne (^{cast a spell}) 04:38, 22 June 2009 (UTC)