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When her two sons were old enough to attend boarding school, Post began to write. She produced newspaper articles on architecture and interior design, as well as stories and serials for such magazines as ''[[Harper's]]'', ''[[Scribner's Magazine|Scribner's]]'', and ''[[The Century Magazine|The Century]]''. She wrote the five novels: ''Flight of a Moth'' (1904),{{citation needed|date=April 2014}} ''Purple and Fine Linen'' (1906),{{citation needed|date=April 2014}} ''Woven in the Tapestry'' (1908),{{citation needed|date=April 2014}} ''The Title Market'' (1909),{{citation needed|date=April 2014}} and ''The Eagle's Feather'' (1910).{{citation needed|date=April 2014}} In 1916, she published ''By Motor to the Golden Gate'' - a recount of a road trip she made from New York to San Francisco with her son Edwin and another companion.<ref>{{cite book|last1=Post|first1=Emily|title=By Motor to the Golden Gate|date=1916|publisher=D. Appleton and Company|location=New York and London}}</ref> |
When her two sons were old enough to attend [[boarding school]], Post began to write. She produced newspaper articles on architecture and interior design, as well as stories and serials for such magazines as ''[[Harper's]]'', ''[[Scribner's Magazine|Scribner's]]'', and ''[[The Century Magazine|The Century]]''. She wrote the five novels: ''Flight of a Moth'' (1904),{{citation needed|date=April 2014}} ''Purple and Fine Linen'' (1906),{{citation needed|date=April 2014}} ''Woven in the Tapestry'' (1908),{{citation needed|date=April 2014}} ''The Title Market'' (1909),{{citation needed|date=April 2014}} and ''The Eagle's Feather'' (1910).{{citation needed|date=April 2014}} In 1916, she published ''By Motor to the Golden Gate'' - a recount of a road trip she made from New York to San Francisco with her son Edwin and another companion.<ref>{{cite book|last1=Post|first1=Emily|title=By Motor to the Golden Gate|date=1916|publisher=D. Appleton and Company|location=New York and London}}</ref> |
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Post wrote in various styles, including humorous travel books, early in her career. Post published her first etiquette book ''[[Etiquette in Society, in Business, in Politics, and at Home]]'' (1922, frequently referenced as ''Etiquette''{{citation needed|date=April 2014}}) when she was 50;<ref name="Smith, Dinitia"/> it became a best-seller, and updated versions continued to be popular for decades.{{citation needed|date=April 2014}} After 1931, Post spoke on radio programs and wrote a column on good taste for the [[Bell Syndicate]]; it appeared daily in some 200 newspapers after 1932.{{citation needed|date=April 2014}} |
Post wrote in various styles, including humorous travel books, early in her career. Post published her first etiquette book ''[[Etiquette in Society, in Business, in Politics, and at Home]]'' (1922, frequently referenced as ''Etiquette''{{citation needed|date=April 2014}}) when she was 50;<ref name="Smith, Dinitia"/> it became a best-seller, and updated versions continued to be popular for decades.{{citation needed|date=April 2014}} After 1931, Post spoke on radio programs and wrote a column on good taste for the [[Bell Syndicate]]; it appeared daily in some 200 newspapers after 1932.{{citation needed|date=April 2014}} |
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Emily Post | |
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Born | Emily Price about October 27, 1872 Baltimore, Maryland, U.S. |
Died | September 25, 1960 New York City | (aged 87)
Occupation | Author, Founder of The Emily Post Institute |
Nationality | American |
Education | Finishing school |
Subject | Etiquette |
Spouse | Edwin Main Post (1892–1905) |
Children | 2 |
Relatives | Elizabeth Post, Peggy Post, Bruce Price |
Emily Post (ca. October 27, 1872 – September 25, 1960) was an American author famous for writing about etiquette.
Early life
Post was born Emily Price in Baltimore, Maryland, possibly in October 1872[1] (the precise date is disputed).[a] Her father was the architect Bruce Price and her mother was Josephine (Lee) Price of Wilkes-Barre, Pennsylvania. After being educated at home in her early years, Price attended Miss Graham's finishing school in New York after her family moved there.[citation needed]
The New York Times' Dinitia Smith reports, in her review of Laura Claridge's 2008 biography of Post,[3] "Emily was tall, pretty and spoiled. [...] She grew up in a world of grand estates, her life governed by carefully delineated rituals like the cotillion with its complex forms and its dances — the Fan, the Ladies Mocked, Mother Goose — called out in dizzying turns by the dance master.[1]
Marriage
Price met her future husband, Edwin Main Post, a prominent banker, at a ball in a Fifth Avenue mansion. Following their wedding in 1892 and a honeymoon tour of Europe, they lived in New York's Washington Square. They also had a country cottage, named "Emily Post Cottage", in Tuxedo Park, which was one of four Bruce Price Cottages she inherited from her father. The couple had two sons, Edwin Main Post, Jr. (1893) and Bruce Price Post (1895).[4]
The couple divorced in 1905, because of her husband's affairs with chorus girls and fledgling actresses, which made him the target of blackmail.[4]
Career
When her two sons were old enough to attend boarding school, Post began to write. She produced newspaper articles on architecture and interior design, as well as stories and serials for such magazines as Harper's, Scribner's, and The Century. She wrote the five novels: Flight of a Moth (1904),[citation needed] Purple and Fine Linen (1906),[citation needed] Woven in the Tapestry (1908),[citation needed] The Title Market (1909),[citation needed] and The Eagle's Feather (1910).[citation needed] In 1916, she published By Motor to the Golden Gate - a recount of a road trip she made from New York to San Francisco with her son Edwin and another companion.[5]
Post wrote in various styles, including humorous travel books, early in her career. Post published her first etiquette book Etiquette in Society, in Business, in Politics, and at Home (1922, frequently referenced as Etiquette[citation needed]) when she was 50;[1] it became a best-seller, and updated versions continued to be popular for decades.[citation needed] After 1931, Post spoke on radio programs and wrote a column on good taste for the Bell Syndicate; it appeared daily in some 200 newspapers after 1932.[citation needed]
In her review of Claridge's 2008 biography of Post,[3] The New York Times' Dinitia Smith explains the keys to Post's popularity:[1]
Such books had always been popular in America: the country’s exotic mix of immigrants and newly rich were eager to fit in with the establishment. Men had to be taught not to blow their noses into their hands or to spit tobacco onto ladies’ backs. Arthur M. Schlesinger, who wrote “Learning How to Behave: A Historical Study of American Etiquette Books” in 1946, said that etiquette books were part of “the leveling-up process of democracy,” an attempt to resolve the conflict between the democratic ideal and the reality of class. But Post’s etiquette books went far beyond those of her predecessors. They read like short-story collections with recurring characters, the Toploftys, the Eminents, the Richan Vulgars, the Gildings and the Kindharts.
In 1946, Post founded The Emily Post Institute, which continues her work.
Death
Post died in 1960 in her New York City apartment, at the age of 87.[citation needed]
Notable descendants
Peggy Post, the wife of Emily's great-grandson, is the current spokeswoman for The Emily Post Institute and writes etiquette advice for Good Housekeeping magazine, succeeding her mother-in-law, Elizabeth Post. Peggy Post is the author of more than 12 books.[6]
Peter Post, Emily's great-grandson, writes the Etiquette at Work column for the Sunday edition of The Boston Globe. He is the author of the best-selling book Essential Manners for Men,[citation needed] and of Essential Manners for Couples[citation needed], and co-authored The Etiquette Advantage in Business, which is in its second edition.[citation needed]
Cindy Post Senning, Ed.D. is Emily Post's great-granddaughter and a director of The Emily Post Institute.[citation needed] She is also the author, with Peggy Post, of two recent illustrated books for children: Emily’s Christmas Gifts (2008)[citation needed] and Emily’s Sharing and Caring Book (2009)[citation needed].
Anna Post is Emily Post’s great-great-granddaughter. She is the author of Do I Have to Wear White? Emily Post Answers America’s Top Wedding Questions (2009),[7] as well as Emily Post’s Wedding Parties: Smart Ideas for Stylish Parties, From Engagement to Reception and Everything in Between.[citation needed] She is the wedding etiquette expert for Brides.com and Inside Weddings magazine. Additionally, she speaks at bridal shows and other venues providing wedding etiquette advice and tips.[citation needed]
Lizzie Post, another of Emily's great-great-granddaughters, is the first member of the fourth generation of Posts. Her book is titled How Do You Work This Life Thing? (2007).[8] Lizzie also writes about twenty-something life and etiquette at her blog Not Gonna Lie….[citation needed]
Anna and Lizzie co-authored Great Get-Togethers: Casual Gatherings & Elegant Parties at Home (2010), which presents techniques for hosting social gatherings for any sizes of groups.[9]
Legacy
Emily Post's name has become synonymous, at least in North America, with proper etiquette and manners. More than half a century after her death, her name is still used in titles of etiquette books.[10] Laura Claridge wrote a book addressing that topic: Emily Post: Daughter of the Gilded Age, Mistress of American Manners (2008), the first full-length biography of the author.[11]
Emil Fuchs' portrait of Post (ca.1906) is on display at the Brooklyn Museum.[citation needed]
Frank Tashlin featured Post's caricature (emerging from her etiquette book and scolding England's King Henry VIII about his lack of manners) in his cartoon Have You Got Any Castles? (1938).
In 1950, Pageant named her the second most powerful woman in America, after Eleanor Roosevelt.[1]
On May 28, 1998, the USPS issued a 32¢ stamp featuring Post as part of the Celebrate the Century stamp sheet series.[citation needed]
See also
- Adolph Freiherr Knigge
- Amy Vanderbilt
- Book of the Civilized Man
- Brad Templeton — who posted Emily Postnews Answers Your Questions on netiquette on Usenet
- International Debutante Ball
- Letitia Baldrige
- Miss Manners
- Miss Porter's School
Notes
- ^ Primary documents conflict with the birthdate she usually gave, October 27, 1872. The burial records of her brother, William Lee Price, who died in infancy, give his dates as 18 April 1873-6 December 1875. But he can't have been born five months and 21 days after his sister. That she was born six months after him is equally unlikely. So something is awry, and it's unresolvable from primary records. However, it seems less likely that a contemporary burial record of a two-year-old got his birth year wrong than that an adult used an erroneous birth date.[2]
References
- ^ a b c d e Smith, Dinitia (October 16, 2008). "BOOKS OF THE TIMES: She Fine-Tuned the Forks of the Richan Vulgars". The New York Times.
- ^ Claridge, Laura (2008). Emily Post: Daughter of the Gilded Age, Mistress of American Manners. Random House. p. 18. ISBN 978-0-375-50921-6.
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(help) - ^ a b Claridge, Laura (2008). Emily Post: Daughter of the Gilded Age, Mistress of American Manners. Random House.
- ^ a b Claridge, Laura (2008). Emily Post. New York: Random House. pp. 3–5, 165–70. ISBN 978-0-375-50921-6.
- ^ Post, Emily (1916). By Motor to the Golden Gate. New York and London: D. Appleton and Company.
- ^ Post, Peggy. "Books by Peggy Post". Amazon.com. Retrieved January 4, 2015.
- ^ Post, Anna (2009). Do I Have to Wear White? Emily Post Answers America's Top Wedding Questions. Collins.
- ^ Post, Lizzie (2007). How Do You Work This Life Thing?. Collins.
- ^ http://www.emilypost.com/current-emily-post-books/433-great-get-togethers
- ^ "Weddings". EmilyPost.com.
- ^ Kolbert, Elizabeth (October 20, 2008). "Place Settings". The New Yorker.
External links
- "The Emily Post Institute". EmilyPost.com.
- Works by Emily Post at Project Gutenberg
- Works by or about Emily Post at the Internet Archive
- Works by Emily Post at LibriVox (public domain audiobooks)
- Post, Emily (1922). Etiquette in Society, in Business, in Politics and at Home.
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- 1872 births
- 1960 deaths
- 20th-century American novelists
- American information and reference writers
- American women short story writers
- American travel writers
- American women novelists
- Etiquette writers
- Writers from Baltimore, Maryland
- People from Staten Island
- Writers from New York
- Women travel writers
- 20th-century women writers