Desmond Ravenstone
Desmond Ravenstone (Boston, Massachusetts) is a writer, blogger, activist and educator on sexuality issues, with a particular focus on BDSM and other alternative sexual identities. He is also a Unitarian Universalist lay leader, and frequently addresses the intersection of sexuality and spirituality.
Biography
Ravenstone first became involved in the BDSM community addressing the issue of "ravishment" or rape fantasies. He wrote a number of articles and two books.[1][2] dealing with both the psychology and practical enactment of ravishment role-play,[3] and helped to form the online Ravishment Network (RavNet) as a forum for education and advocacy.
Ravenstone has also led workshops on ravishment, erotic role-playing and other subjects to a number of BDSM groups across the country. He served as education coordinator for the New England Dungeon Society for two years, and authored an advice column for the online zine '‘The Dominant's View'’.[4]
Ravenstone is a member of Arlington Street Church, an historic Unitarian Universalist congregation, where he serves on the worship committee as well as other leadership roles, including representing the congregation as a delegate to the Mass Bay District. He also writes a blog, '‘‘Ravenstone's Reflections'’’, offering his thoughts on sexuality, spirituality, politics and other related topics. This has given him a prominent place to speak on behalf of kinksters, polyamorists and other "alt-sexers" within the UU denomination. Ravenstone has recently started a new organization for UUs involved in BDSM, called Leather & Grace.[5]. In October 2014, he published a lengthy post on his blog, defending the view that kink should be regarded as a sexual orientation.[6]
Ravenstone is politically unaffiliated, and describes himself as a “libertarian progressive”.[7] In 2008, he ran a write-in campaign for President on a sexual freedom platform; his running-mate was Theresa "Darklady" Reed, a fellow writer and sexual-freedom activist from Oregon.
References
- ^ Ravenstone, Desmond. Ravishment: The Dark Side of Erotic Fantasy (2005) ISBN 1-4116-5547-8
- ^ Ravenstone, Desmond. Taken: A Story of Ravishment (2005) ISBN 1-4116-5559-1
- ^ "Holy Whip: Interview with Desmond Ravenstone". Thephoenix.com. Retrieved June 25, 2012.
- ^ "Dear Desmond, Advice for the Kinky (archive)". Thedomsview.com. Retrieved June 25, 2012.
- ^ "Leather & Grace website". Leatherandgrace.wordpress.com. Retrieved June 25, 2012.
- ^ ""Towards a More Inclusive Model of Sexual Orientation"". ravenstonesreflections.blogspot.com. October 23, 2014.
- ^ "Desmond Ravenstone's Facebook page". Facebook.com. December 8, 2010. Retrieved June 25, 2012.