Mary Tenney Gray
|Mary Tenney Gray|
June 19, 1833
Liberty Township, Susquehanna County, Pennsylvania
October 11, 1904|
Kansas City, Kansas
|Resting place||Oak Grove cemetery, Kansas City, Kansas|
|Occupation||editorial writer, clubwoman, philanthropist, and suffragette|
|Alma mater||Ingalls Seminary|
|Notable works||"Women and Kansas City's Development"|
Mary Tenney Gray (June 19, 1833 – October 11, 1904; known as the "Mother of the Women's Club Movement in Kansas") was a 19th-century American editorial writer, club-woman, philanthropist, and suffragette from Pennsylvania. She lived in Kansas City, Kansas for more than 20 years and during that time, was identified with almost every woman's movement. She served on the editorial staff of several publications including the New York Teacher, the Leavenworth Home Record, and the Kansas Farmer. Gray's paper on "Women and Kansas City's Development" was awarded the first prize in the competition held by the Women's Auxiliary to the Manufacturers' Association of Kansas City, Missouri.
Early life and education
Mary Tenney was born in Brookdale, Liberty Township, Susquehanna County, Pennsylvania, June 19, 1833, and later became a citizen of Kansas. Her fitness as a leader in the struggles of the new State were the result of the training she underwent in her father's theological library, supplemented by a course of study in the Ingalls Seminary, Binghamton, New York, and continued in a Pennsylvania seminary.
Upon graduation, she was for several years preceptress in Binghamton Academy. After she married Judge Barzillai Gray in 1859, she moved to Wyandotte, Kansas Territory, a town he founded, and afterwards to Leavenworth, where she took part in various activities associated with charities and church extension, as well as improvements within at the state and county expositions. She lived in Kansas City, Kansas, for more than 20 years and during that time, she was identified with almost every woman's movement.
Philanthropist and organizer
Gray was one of Kansas's prominent leaders during the Centennial Exposition of Philadelphia in 1876. As one of the original founders and first president of the Social Science Club of Kansas and Western Missouri, she gave impetus to intellectual culture in those localities, and she saw the organization grow from a small number to a membership of 500 women of the two States. She is also remembered for scientific and artistic work. In 1859, she attended the Wyandotte constitutional convention with Clarina I. H. Nichols and "Mother Armstrong", attempting to have the vote for women included in the state constitution.
As a leader in the women's clubs for art, education, literary and philanthropic purposes, Gray wielded an influence for culture that was felt not only in her home city but throughout the entire state. In the year 1881, a potential effort was made toward a union of the clubs of the state. Up to this time, the club life of the women of the state had been local and confined to a few cities. At a meeting of prominent women, many of whom were members of Kansas and Missouri clubs, held at Leavenworth, Thursday, May 19, 1881, the State Social Science Club of Kansas and Missouri was organized. This first association of women's clubs in the west, with Gray as its first president, was organized by representative women from Atchison, Lansing, Leavenworth, Olathe, Topeka and Wyandotte in Kansas; Kansas City and St. Joseph in Missouri, and Chicago, Illinois. The preamble to its constitution and by-laws read thus: "The object of this society shall be to promote a better acquaintance among thoughtful women of this section who are most desirous and best able to raise the standard of women's education and attainments, to enlarge their opportunities, and by frequent meeting bring the highest knowledge of each for the benefit of all." The meetings of this association were held in various cities in Kansas, also in Kansas City, Missouri, two meetings being held each year. The programs at these conventions were comprehensive, embracing the departments of art, archeology, domestic economy, education, history, civil government, literature, natural and sanitary science, philanthropy, and reform. Thereafter, Gray was remembered as the "mother of the woman's culture club movement in Kansas".
On the editorial staff of the New York Teacher for two years, Gray's influence was felt among the teachers of the state. She was a contributor or correspondent to the leading magazines and papers of Kansas and to the eastern press. The orphan asylum in Leavenworth was indebted to her written appeals for recognition and assistance. The Home Record, of the same city, was an outgrowth and exponent of her deep and abiding interest in the welfare and elevation of women. The compilation of the Kansas Home Cook Book, for the benefit of the Home for the Friendless, was a source of financial strength to the institution, with more than 10,000 copies sold. As editor of the home department of the Kansas Farmer for some years, she showed both sympathy and interest in a group of people who were largely unable to engage in intellectual pursuits.
Gray was a vigorous writer and a clear reasoner. She read papers before many state gatherings, as well as clubs of the two Kansas Citys. In the spring of 1901, Gray's paper on "Women and Kansas City's Development" was awarded the first prize in the competition held by the Women's Auxiliary to the Manufacturers' Association of Kansas City, Missouri.
In 1859, she married Judge Barzillai Gray (died December 25, 1918). He came to Kansas City from New York before the outbreak of the American Civil War. He settled in old Wyandotte, but later moved to Leavenworth, where he was elected judge of the criminal court. In 1876, he was appointed private secretary to Governor George T. Anthony, of Kansas. At the close of Governor Anthony's office, Judge Gray moved once more to Wyandotte, where he held many offices among them that of probate judge. He was, however, best known for his real estate and development plans. He was instrumental in planning several additions and laying out roads and took great interest in the future of that portion of the city known as "Riverview", where an effort was made to establish a market and grain exchange. As territorial attorney for Wyandotte district, Judge Gray was the first man in Kansas to prosecute liquor cases.
A son, Lawrence T. Gray, lived at Colorado Springs, Colorado. Mrs. Theo Harriman of Los Angeles, wife of Job Harriman, the candidate for vice president at the 1904 election on the Socialist Party of America ticket, and Mrs. Jessie M. Caswell, were daughters.
Gray died on October 11, 1904, at her home on the Missouri River bluffs north of Kansas City, Kansas. On May 9, 1909, the Kansas Federation of Women's Clubs dedicated a monument in Oak Grove cemetery, Kansas City, to the memory of Gray, as one of the founders of that organization. The monument is of Vermont granite and overlooks the Missouri valley, which Gray once declared was "the most beautiful and romantic view in America."
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- Bakken & Farrington 2003, p. 164.
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- Frost-Knappman & Cullen-DuPont 2014, p. 123.
- The Alumni Association of the University of Michigan 1919, p. 539.
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- This article incorporates text from a publication now in the public domain: The Alumni Association of the University of Michigan (1919). The Michigan Alumnus. XXV (Public domain ed.). University of Michigan Publishers. WISC:89101008118.
- This article incorporates text from a publication now in the public domain: Morgan, Perl Wilbur (1911). History of Wyandotte County, Kansas: and its people (Public domain ed.). The Lewis publishing company.
- This article incorporates text from a publication now in the public domain: Willard, Frances Elizabeth; Livermore, Mary Ashton Rice (1897). American Women: Fifteen Hundred Biographies with Over 1,400 Portraits : a Comprehensive Encyclopedia of the Lives and Achievements of American Women During the Nineteenth Century (Public domain ed.). Mast, Crowell & Kirkpatrick.
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