The love that dare not speak its name

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The love that dare not speak its name is a phrase from the poem "Two Loves" by Lord Alfred Douglas, published in 1894. It was mentioned at Oscar Wilde's gross indecency trial and is usually interpreted as a euphemism for homosexuality (although Wilde denied that it was).[1]

In Wilde's definition, "the love that dare not speak its name" was:

....such a great affection of an elder for a younger man.... There is nothing unnatural about it. It is intellectual, and it repeatedly exists between an elder and a younger man, when the elder man has intellect, and the younger man has all the joy, hope and glamour of life before him.[2][3]

Some authors have suggested that this quotation referred to pederasty rather than to male homosexuality in general.[4]

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  1. ^ "The love that dare not speak its name". Retrieved 1 February 2015. 
  2. ^ "Testimony of Oscar Wilde". Retrieved 1 February 2015. 
  3. ^ See also Ellmann (1988:435)
  4. ^ The Importance of Being Earnest. 1946. p. 8. Under cross examination Wilde presented an eloquent defense of pederasty