(You're) Having My Baby

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"(You're) Having My Baby"
(You're) Having My Baby - Paul Anka.jpg
Single by Paul Anka
ReleasedJune 1974 (US)
GenreSoft rock[1]
LabelUnited Artists Records 454
Songwriter(s)Paul Anka
Producer(s)Rick Hall
Paul Anka singles chronology
"Let Me Get to Know You"
"(You're) Having My Baby"
"One Man Woman/One Woman Man"
Audio sample

"(You're) Having My Baby" is a song written and recorded in 1974 by Canadian singer Paul Anka. Recorded as a duet with female vocalist Odia Coates, the song became Anka's first No. 1 hit on the Billboard Hot 100 in 15 years, since 1959's "Lonely Boy". The song became a Gold record.

Song information[edit]

Anka, whose last chart-topping hit had been 1959's "Lonely Boy", had written the song for his wife and their four daughters while appearing at Lake Tahoe.[2] The song was going to be a solo effort by Anka, but the unknown Coates, whom Anka had met while on tour, was at the studio during the recording session. Upon suggestion by United Artists recording executive Bob Skaff, the song became a duet.[2] Released in late June 1974, "(You're) Having My Baby" climbed the chart and became Anka's third No. 1 song. A follow-up single "One Man Woman/One Woman Man", reached the Top 10 in early 1975.


Despite its commercial success, the song has been criticised for its maudlin sentimentality[3] and perceived sexist undertones,[2] and has appeared in "worst song" lists. It was voted the #1 "Worst Song of All Time" in a poll conducted by CNN.com in 2006.[4]

The song was also criticized for declaring the child was the man's, rather than the couple's. Anka defended his choice in a 1974 interview, saying, "it's not meant to alienate anyone. I could have called it 'having our baby', but the other just sounded better. It's not a male ego trip—my baby."[5] Anka did sometimes sing the line as "you're having our baby" while performing in concert.[6] While reviewing a 2005 concert, Dan MacIntosh of PopMatters noted that while Anka had "covered most of his career highlights", he had "wisely neglected to include 'You're Having My Baby.'"[7]

Others criticized a line stating that while the woman could have "swept it from [her] life" (a euphemism for having an abortion, which had recently been legalized across the United States through the Roe v. Wade Supreme Court ruling), she had not because it was "a wonderful way of showing how much she loves him".[8] In response, Anka said the song was "a love song".[8] He also explained in 1974, "what I'm saying in the song is that there is a choice. The libbers will get on me; I can't help that. I am into the antihuman thing, and I do understand the other side of it. There are those who can't cope, and it's not in the cards for them to have kids. I'm a libber myself, in the sense that ... if you've got to abort, you do. Some people just can't cope."[5]

The National Organization for Women gave Anka the "Keep Her in Her Place" award during "its annual putdown of male chauvinism" in the media on Women's Equality Day.[9] Ms. magazine "awarded" Anka their "Male Chauvinistic Pig of the Year" award.[10]

In 2018, heavy metal singer Glenn Danzig invited Anka onto the main stage at the Wacken Open Air Festival to sing “(You’re) Having My Baby.” Despite not having sung the song live in nearly 40 years, Anka and Danzig soon had the entire crowd of 37,000 heavy metal music fans singing in unison. “What a magical experience that was to sing with Glenn in front of those kids and see all their lighters swaying to the song,” Anka later said. “I had no idea that song resonated with that crowd...hell, I had no idea that song resonated with anyone,” he added. Glenn Danzig was especially proud of the moment. “I been (sic) wanting to get Paul on the stage with me for years. I initially wanted him to sing “Mommy, Can I Go Out and Kill Tonight” with me , but that was a bit too much for him.” Danzig stated that he hopes to get into the studio with Anka in the near future. “I want to do an album of duets and get Paul, James Taylor, Rod Stewart, Moby, and Boy George on tape - how hot would that be?!”

Chart performance[edit]


Around the same time "(You're) Having My Baby" was climbing the Hot 100, a female country vocalist named Sunday Sharpe recorded a cover version called "I'm Having Your Baby." With lyrics altered to the female perspective, "I'm Having Your Baby" peaked at No. 11 on the Billboard Hot Country Singles chart in October 1974.[20]

The Coolies covered "Having My Baby" in 1986 on their first album, dig..? on DB Records. While Anka's version of "Having My Baby" received criticism, Coolies lead singer Clay Harper takes it to another level during a brief spoken interlude at the end of the song in which he reveals that she is not the only woman in town having his baby. Thus, he must leave town.

An excerpt from the song was recorded by the Circle Jerks in the 1983 medley "Golden Shower of Hits (Jerks on 45)".

The song was also covered on November 18, 2009 episode of Glee.


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