My Man (Tamar Braxton song)
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"My Man" is a song recorded by American singer Tamar Braxton that appears on her fifth studio album Bluebird of Happiness (2017). It was released as the lead single from the album on April 27, 2017, through eOne Entertainment and Braxton's own independent record label Tamartian Land Records. It was produced by Bob Robinson Jr. and written by Braxton and Cory Rooney. The song is a ballad and torch song; the lyrics are about infidelity and its negative impact on a relationship. Braxton wrote the song about her parents' marriage and their relationship following their divorce, and used her mother's perspective as inspiration.
Critics responded positively to "My Man", praising Braxton's vocals and the lyrics. The single peaked at number three on the Adult R&B Songs Billboard chart, at number nineteen on the Hot R&B/Hip-Hop Airplay Billboard chart, and at number twenty-one on the Hot R&B Songs Billboard chart. The song was prominently featured on an episode of the reality television series Braxton Family Values.
To promote "My Man", Braxton performed it during the BET Awards 2017; she received primarily positive feedback from media outlets for her vocals and dramatic stage presence. Some commentators, however, believed Braxton was lip syncing. An accompanying video, released on June 25, 2017, features Braxton confronting her lover and his mistress in a hotel room.
Background and release
"My Man" was released as the lead single from Tamar Braxton's fifth studio album Bluebird of Happiness (2017). It was the first song from Braxton's independent record label, Tamartian Land Records, which was created with the support of eOne Entertainment. She described the single and overall album as "the first time you see an X-ray vision of Tamar and everything I've been through." Braxton said she wanted to have more control over her career and develop a deeper connection with her fans.[1] Describing the switch to her own record label, she said she was happy about not having to "sell people on things that I want to do."[2] "My Man" was produced by Bob Robinson Jr. and written by Braxton and Cory Rooney.[3] Robinson had previously worked with Braxton on her 2000 self-titled debut album, co-writing and producing five songs.[4]
"My Man" was released on April 27, 2017; Braxton announced it through her official Instagram account.[5][6] On her post, she encouraged her fans to use the hashtag "#MyMan" to share their stories about similar experiences.[6] A radio edit of the song was released on the same day.[7] Braxton featured the track during an episode of the reality television series Braxton Family Values, which aired the same day.[1] Prior to the song's release, she had played it for her father; she told him that she had forgiven him for his past affair. Entertainment Tonight's Latifah Muhammad said Braxton's discussion about her parents' divorce and her relationship with them were examples of the Braxton family having "shar[ed] some tough moments on camera for their reality show."[8] The song was sent to urban radio stations on July 18, 2017.[9]
Lyrical interpretation
Braxton said the song was inspired by her parents' marriage and their relationship following their divorce. For the single, she wanted to "channel [her] mother and say the things she probably should have said then."[1] She added that she wanted to speak from her mother's perspective "as a woman and not just as my mom."[2] She connected the song's lyrics with her own failed relationships.[1] According to Braxton, the song was developed and recorded quickly; she said it "just rolled out of me".[1] While promoting the single, Braxton identified it as her most personal work due to its content and described it as a "personal anthem where people can relate if you've been cheated on before," and that she wanted to be a voice for those who have been hurt.[10]
The singer discusses the "heartache of deception" through the lyrics: "I am so confused / I stood right by your side / Through everything that you went through / Why is she around, why are you so cruel," and "Boy, you let me down". The chorus includes the lines: "I don't want to hear no bullshit stories about my man, I just can't believe that you're with her / I just can't believe she stole my man."[5] Braxton discusses the affair further by singing: "She called me 'bout her man, Well, I didn't understand, she was talkin' 'bout my man (heifer)."[11]
Billboard's Sadie Bell described "My Man" as an "emotional ballad",[12] and said the lyrics are about infidelity and its negative impact on a marriage.[8] Libby Hill of the Los Angeles Times called the song a "fiery torch song about a man who done her wrong".[11] According to Mikael Wood of the same publication, the single's central message was to "never trust a lonely woman with the one you love".[13] It was described as "sorrowful" by Ebony's Bianca Garwood.[14] A writer from The Grio interpreted Braxton's delivery of the lyrics as her way of "unleash[ing] her rage on the friend and her 'man'".[15]
Reception
"My Man" received positive reviews from music critics. A reviewer from Rap-Up praised Braxton's vocals and described "My Man" as "heart-wrenching",[5] and The Boombox's Trent Fitzgerald called it "heartbreaking".[16] Libby Hill pointed to Braxton's use of the word "heifer" as an aside as one of the single's highlights.[11] A writer from We TV said the song's content was relatable, calling it "the next best break-up remedy since ice cream".[17]
"My Man" debuted at number twenty-nine on the Adult R&B Songs Billboard chart for the week of May 13, 2017, and peaked at number three in August. It remained on the chart for twenty-two weeks. The track debuted at number forty-eight on the Hot R&B/Hip-Hop Airplay Billboard chart for the week of June 17, 2017, before peaking at number nineteen in August.[18] It also reached number twenty-one on the Hot R&B Songs Billboard chart for the week of August 26, 2017.[19]
Music video and promotion
The music video for "My Man" was released on June 25, 2017. Filmed in black and white, it depicts Braxton confronting her lover and his mistress over his infidelity.[15][20] In the video, Braxton goes to her lover's hotel room and sees him in bed with another woman.[15] She pushes the mistress to the bathroom floor before confronting him. After taking back her coat, Braxton leaves the hotel. A writer from Rap-Up said: "The story is set to continue in her next visual."[20]
Braxton sang "My Man" during the BET Awards 2017 on June 25, 2017; she wore a gown and was accompanied by a group of back-up dancers.[12] The performance was identified by several media outlets as one of the best from the awards show.[11][21][22] Sadie Bell wrote that Braxton delivered a "bold, passionate performance" and she praised the choice to keep the focus on the vocals.[12] Billboard's Dan Rys said Braxton gave one of the night's "powerhouse performances", praising her mic drop as a "fitting exclamation point".[23] Rolling Stone's Elias Leight, Brittany Spanos, Mosi Reeves, and Maura Johnston described Braxton as a "glorious drama queen", highlighting her "series of well-honed, highly dramatic gestures".[24] Michael Arceneaux of The Root was more critical of Braxton; he thought she was lip syncing and overly dramatic.[25] During Braxton's and DeRay Davis' appearance on the game show Hip Hop Squares, Davis joked that Braxton was lip syncing during the performance.[26][27]
Track listings
| No. | Title | Length |
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| 1. | "My Man" | 4:11 |
| No. | Title | Length |
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| 1. | "My Man" (Radio edit) | 3:47 |
Personnel
Credits adapted from the liner notes of "My Man".[3]
- Songwriting – Tamar Braxton, Tiyon "TC" Christian, Cory Rooney, and Bob Robinson Jr.
- Production – Bob Robinson Jr.
Charts
| Chart (2017) | Peak position |
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| US Adult R&B Songs (Billboard)[18] | 3 |
| US Hot R&B Songs (Billboard)[19] | 21 |
| US Hot R&B/Hip-Hop Airplay (Billboard)[18] | 19 |
Release history
| Region | Date | Format | Label | Ref |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Worldwide | April 27, 2017 | Digital download | Tamartian Land Records | [6][7] |
| United States | July 18, 2017 | Urban radio | [9] |
References
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