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This article says that Bruce married director/actress Amy London in 2003. In February 2007, he and London had their first child together, Jacob Hayden Adler.
His article says Ben-Hur lives in Teaneck, New Jersey, with his wife, singer Amy London, and their two daughters, Sofia and Anna.
So if Amy was with Ben-Hur in the 1980s and is still with Ben-Hur today, she can't have married Bruce in 2003