User talk:Yuli Anastassakis

May 2023[edit]

Hello, I'm Materialscientist. I noticed that you made a change to an article, Demetre Anastassakis, but you didn't provide a source. I’ve removed it for now, but if you’d like to include a citation to a reliable source and re-add it, please do so! If you think I made a mistake, or if you have any questions, you can leave me a message on my talk page. Thanks. Materialscientist (talk) 22:51, 13 May 2023 (UTC)[reply]

This article is wrong! Demetre Anastassakis is my father. I want to correct it Yuli Anastassakis (talk) 23:03, 13 May 2023 (UTC)[reply]

Please refrain from making unconstructive edits to Wikipedia, as you did with this edit to Demetre Anastassakis. Your edits appear to be vandalism and have been reverted or removed. If you would like to experiment, please use the sandbox. Repeated vandalism can result in the loss of editing privileges. Thank you. Schminnte (talk • contribs) 22:52, 13 May 2023 (UTC)[reply]

Demetre is my father and this article is wrong!! Yuli Anastassakis (talk) 23:01, 13 May 2023 (UTC)[reply]

Please stop your disruptive editing. If you continue to blank out or remove content, templates, or other materials from Wikipedia, as you did with this edit to Demetre Anastassakis, you may be blocked from editing. Yoshi24517 (Chat) (Online) 22:53, 13 May 2023 (UTC)[reply]

You may be blocked from editing without further warning the next time you add unsourced material to Wikipedia, as you did with this edit to Demetre Anastassakis. Yoshi24517 (Chat) (Online) 22:55, 13 May 2023 (UTC)[reply]

Removed my COI warning and other message. Apologies for the harsh tone. Courtesy ping: Euryalus Yoshi24517 (Chat) (Online) 23:53, 13 May 2023 (UTC)[reply]

Wikipedia are spreading false information Yuli Anastassakis (talk) 23:08, 13 May 2023 (UTC)[reply]

Conflicts of interest and the Demetre Anastassakis article[edit]

Hi. If Demetre Anastassakis is your father than please accept my condolences on his passing. Wikipedia rules restrict people from editing articles about topics that are very close to them. This includes family members, friends, workplaces. The rules are outlined at this "conflict of interest" page. The rules make it fairly clear that while you are welcome to contribute to the article's talkpage, you probably should not edit it directly. This is not to diminish your association with the article subject, it is simply because people who have strong associations with an article may not be objective in the way they edit it.

Further, articles are based on reliable secondary sources, which unfortunately do not include personal recollections of the lived experience of individual editors. The article lists Claudia Pires as partner because that is what the available sources say. If you can point to published sources that say differently, please post them on the article talkpage so they can be reviewed. If they're genuinely reliable it is likely the article will be changed.

Hope the above is helpful, and please let me know if I've failed to properly explain the conflict of interest rules or why the article has not been changed so far. -- Euryalus (talk) 23:16, 13 May 2023 (UTC)[reply]

But his ex girlfriend can edit and publish lies and I as his daughter can't? Claudia Pires was never his wife. She was never his life partner. She was a girlfriend. Why can she edit and wikipedia keep this lie? Yuli Anastassakis (talk) 23:19, 13 May 2023 (UTC)[reply]

Hi. It comes down to what the references say. The obituary listed as a reference in the article describe Caudia Pires as "partner" and "companion." The implication is life partner rather than business partner. They don't say "wife" and it would be wrong if the article describes the relationship that way. I can understand how that might seem implied (especially per the first sentence of our article on spouse. Is there an alternative wording that might enable retention of what the sources say (""life partner," "partner" or companion) without implying an actual marriage? If so, would you like to suggest that alternative at Talk:Demetre Anastassakis? -- Euryalus (talk) 23:28, 13 May 2023 (UTC)[reply]

"he worked in partnership

with his life companion, Cláudia Pires" is this an article based on reliable secondary sources, which unfortunately do not include personal recollections of the lived experience of individual editors????? 79.152.196.226 (talk) 23:28, 13 May 2023 (UTC)[reply]

It's referenced to this, which is from an organisation with at least some reputation for fact-checking. Do you have an alternative published source saying otherwise? if so please post it on the article talkpage for discussion. -- Euryalus (talk) 23:32, 13 May 2023 (UTC)[reply]

Last message for now, to let you know I've opened a discussion on this topic at Talk:Demetre Anastassakis. -- Euryalus (talk) 01:05, 14 May 2023 (UTC)[reply]

@Yuli Anastassakis: for what it's worth, I wrote most of the article and I'm most certainly not your father's ex girlfriend. I did meet your father a couple of times, in architecture congresses, and he was a spectacular man who is and will be missed. The "spouse" parameter on the Infobox was indeed incorrect, as it does not reflect what the sources say, and Euryalus has kindly corrected it. Otherwise, the contents of the article merely reflect what sources have published. Please feel free to point to any other sources with information that complement or contradict current contents (and mind you that there's no original research on Wikipedia). And please believe me when I say I have absolutely no interest in this article beyond letting people know about the exceptional architect and policy maker that your father was. I wish you and your family all the best. Rkieferbaum (talk) 02:32, 15 May 2023 (UTC)[reply]

vc eh amigo dela, ne? Provavelmente. Porque um artigo que deveria ser neutro nao escreveria "life companion". Uma mulher que morava em outro estado nao pode ser "life companion" ou esposa. Triste saber que o wikipedia esta sendo construido com pessoas que alteram a verdade. 2001:818:DC46:1F00:2123:84C6:F070:17A7 (talk) 11:54, 20 May 2023 (UTC)[reply]

Não, não sou. Como já lhe foi dito múltiplas vezes, a Wikipédia meramente agrega e resume conteudo disponível em pontes confiáveis, independentes e de boa reputação. Neste caso, a informação vem de publicação do CAU/RJ. Se quiser contestá-la, é a eles que deve procurar, ok? Rkieferbaum (talk) 11:35, 22 August 2023 (UTC)[reply]