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Carol McCain
Carol McCain 1986 cropped retouched 2b.jpg
McCain in 1986
Born Carol Shepp
(1938-02-19) February 19, 1938 (age 80)
Pennsylvania, U.S.[1]
Occupation Manager, event planner
Known for Ex-wife of John McCain
Director of White House Visitors Office
Political party Republican
Spouse(s)
Alasdair E. Swanson
(m. 1958; div. 1964)

John McCain
(m. 1965; div. 1980)
Children 3

Carol Shepp McCain (born February 19, 1938)[1][2][3] is a former political aide and event planner who was director of the White House Visitors Office during the Reagan administration. She was the first wife of United States Senator John McCain.

Early life and first marriage[edit]

Carol Shepp was born in Pennsylvania to Joseph, an insurance agent, and Mary Shepp.[4][1] Shepp grew up in Lansdowne, Pennsylvania, outside Philadelphia.[5] She graduated from Lansdowne-Aldan High School in 1955, winning a scholarship award.[6]

Shepp attended Centenary Junior College for Women in Hackettstown, New Jersey, beginning in 1956.[6][5][7] There she majored in English.[4]

Five feet eight inches (1.73 m) tall,[8] Shepp was a swimsuit and runway model for Jantzen swimwear in Philadelphia.[9][7] She also worked as a secretary.[4]

Shepp first met John McCain while he was attending the United States Naval Academy in Annapolis from 1954 to 1958.[10] But, in 1958, she married one of his midshipman classmates,[10][11] Alasdair E. Swanson, who had been a football and basketball star there.[12][13] She and Swanson, who became a Navy pilot, had two children, Douglas (born 1959) and Andrew (born 1962),[14][15] and lived in Pensacola, Florida.[13] The Swansons divorced in June 1964, after she sued him for infidelity.[13]

Marriage to John McCain[edit]

Marriage and family[edit]

Shepp met John McCain again when he was stationed at the Naval Air Basic Training Command at Pensacola in 1964, and after her divorce from Swanson, the two began dating.[9][10][7] Her future husband frequently took training flights from Florida up to Philadelphia to see her on weekends.[4]

On July 3, 1965, Shepp and McCain married in Philadelphia.[16] The ceremony was held at the home of the family that owned the well-known Old Original Bookbinder's seafood restaurant in Philadelphia; one of the Bookbinder family members was a close friend of Shepp from college.[4]

Following the wedding, McCain's new husband adopted her two children.[15] Together, they had a daughter, Sidney, born in September 1966.[17]

Apart during Vietnam War[edit]

When her husband John McCain was shot down over North Vietnam on October 26, 1967, a new chapter in the couple's life began with his capture by the North Vietnamese. He would remain a prisoner of war for five and a half years.[18] During her husband's captivity, McCain raised their children in Orange Park, Florida, with the assistance of friends and neighbors in the Navy-oriented community.[19] She sent frequent letters and packages to him,[19] few of which the North Vietnamese let through.[20] She became active in the POW/MIA movement,[13] while those around her wore POW bracelets with her husband's name and capture date engraved on them.[19]

While visiting family and friends in the Philadelphia area on Christmas Eve 1969, McCain skidded and crashed into a telephone pole as she was navigating an icy, snowy, isolated portion of Pennsylvania Route 320 near Gulph Mills, Pennsylvania, driving alone.[4] She was thrown from her car into the snow, going into shock;[8] she thought she would never be seen and would die there.[4] Hours later she was found and taken to Bryn Mawr Hospital.[8] She suffered two smashed legs, a broken pelvis, broken arm, and a ruptured spleen.[4] She spent six months in the hospital and underwent 23 operations over the following two years in order to rebuild her legs with rods and pins, and had extensive physical therapy.[7][21] During this time her daughter stayed with her parents in Landsdowne while her sons stayed with friends in Florida.[4]

McCain did not tell her husband about the accident in her letters, believing he already had enough to worry about.[8] The U.S. State Department contacted her surgeon the next day with a warning; as the doctor later said:

Businessman and POW advocate Ross Perot paid for McCain's medical care.[22] She remained grateful to Perot, later remarking: "The military families are in Ross's heart and in his soul...There are millions of us who are extremely grateful to Ross Perot".[23] Years after her husband found out about Perot's help, he said "we loved him for it".[24] McCain was interviewed on CBS Evening News in 1970 and said Christmas had no meaning for her without her husband but that she carried on with it for their children.[19]

Reuniting and divorce[edit]

McCain and her husband were reunited upon his release from captivity on March 14, 1973.[25] She was now four inches (ten centimeters) shorter, in a wheelchair or on crutches, and substantially heavier than when he had last seen her.[7][22][26] He was also visibly hampered by his injuries and the mistreatment he had endured from the North Vietnamese.[27]

Following her husband's return from Vietnam, the McCains became frequent guests of honor at dinners hosted by Governor of California Ronald Reagan and his wife Nancy Reagan,[28] and the two couples became friendly.[2] McCain was the Clay County director for Reagan's 1976 presidential campaign as he sought the Republican Party nomination.[29] Her husband's assignments as executive officer, then commanding officer, of A-7 attack squadron VA-174 at NAS Cecil Field[30] saw the couple leading an active social life.[31] Such engagements included entertaining other naval personnel at their Orange Park home and Ponte Vedra beach house.[31] McCain's marriage, however, began to falter due to her husband's partying away from home and extramarital affairs.[32]

Her husband's next assignment was to the Senate Liaison Office within the Navy's Office of Legislative Affairs.[33] The McCains separated briefly, then reunited.[22] His job was aided by the social life the couple conducted, entertaining Navy, government, and other persons three to four nights a week at their Alexandria, Virginia, home.[34] During this time she worked for Congressman John H. Rousselot.[35] By 1979, the McCains were still living together.[22]

In April 1979, John McCain began a relationship with Cindy Lou Hensley, an Arizona special education teacher and Hensley & Co. heiress.[22] McCain's husband pushed to end their marriage, and friends described her as being in shock.[22] The McCains stopped cohabitating in January 1980; he filed for divorce in February 1980,[13] which she accepted.[22] When asked by a friend what had gone wrong, she said, "It's just one of those things."[22] The uncontested divorce became official in Fort Walton Beach on April 2, 1980.[36]

Her ex-husband would later state that he felt the demise of his marriage was due to his "selfishness and immaturity more than it was to Vietnam, and I cannot escape blame by pointing a finger at the war. The blame was entirely mine." [32] Regarding her divorce, McCain said, "The breakup of our marriage was not caused by my accident or Vietnam or any of those things. I don't know that it might not have happened if John had never been gone. I attribute it more to John turning 40 and wanting to be 25 again than I do to anything else."[32] John McCain's biographer Robert Timberg wrote, however, "Vietnam did play a part, perhaps not the major part, but more than a walk-on."[37] Ross Perot gave his own assessment of the McCain divorce: "After he came home, he walked with a limp, she [Carol McCain] walked with a limp. So he threw her over for a poster girl with big money from Arizona [Cindy McCain] and the rest is history."[24] McCain’s three children were initially upset with their father about the divorce, but later reconciled with him.[22]

Amicable relations[edit]

The divorce settlement afforded McCain full custody of her three children as well as alimony, child support, college tuition for their children, houses in Virginia and Florida, and lifelong financial support for her continuing medical treatment.[7] She was sued by her former mother-in-law, Roberta McCain, in 1980 for return of personal property, with the suit settled out of court in 1981.[38]

Despite the divorce, McCain remained on good terms with her ex-husband,[32] supporting him in his subsequent political campaigns. She refused to discuss her marriage with an election opponent of her ex-husband's in 1982 who was seeking negative information about him, telling the opponent that "a gentleman never would have called."[39] During his 2008 presidential campaign, McCain said of her former husband: "He's a good guy. We are still good friends. He is the best man for president."[40]

Subsequent career[edit]

Reagan campaign and administration[edit]

McCain moved to La Mesa, California, where she lived for several months with the family of top Reagan associate Edwin Meese.[13] She became a personal assistant to Nancy Reagan in the fall of 1979, working with her as a press assistant on Ronald Reagan's 1980 presidential campaign,[7] and then worked on the 1980 Republican National Convention.[2] She was director of the 1981 Reagan inaugural ball,[35] and as the Reagan administration began, she handled scheduling for the First Lady and the Reagan children.[35]

In 1981 she became Director of the White House Visitors Office.[2] There she planned tours and dealt with the pleas of different groups for the limited slots available.[2] She also dealt with demands from Washington officials, including a dispute about tour slots between Nancy Reagan and New York Congressman Thomas Downey.[41] Regarding the pressures of her job, she said cheerfully, "I'm always in tears, but I love the job. I'm really having a ball."[2] During the early 1980s recession, she declared that the White House tours were fully booked even when other Washington attractions saw declining attendance; her office processed well over one million visits a year.[42] She was a well-liked presence on the Washington social scene.[43]

Between 1981 and 1986, she greatly expanded the annual White House Easter Egg Roll, adding participatory activities and doubling the size of the crowds attending.[35] The Washington Post likened her "extravaganza-loving" event style to that of Cecil B. DeMille.[35] She was also involved in planning South Lawn State Arrival Ceremonies,[2] as well as a national Christmas celebration.[44]

Private sector[edit]

She left the White House Visitors Office position in January 1987 to join Philadelphia-based We the People 200, Inc., which was the organization planning the celebration for the 200th anniversary of the United States Constitution that year.[35][45] She was named programming director, part of We the People 200's senior management team.[45] The bicentennial project was already troubled by lack of corporate financial sponsorship and persistent internal conflicts; the high salaries of McCain and other senior staff came under some criticism, but were defended by the organization's president as justified based upon age and experience.[46]

By 1990, she was a spokesperson for Washington, Inc., a large event planning company.[47] During 1991, she was a spokesperson for the Desert Storm Homecoming Foundation, which held a $12 million victory celebration and memorial in Washington in June 1991 following the conclusion of the Gulf War and Operation Desert Storm.[48][49] She later worked in press relations for the National Soft Drink Association in Washington.[13][39]

In 2003, McCain retired and moved to a bungalow in Virginia Beach.[13] While she has had romantic relationships since her divorce, McCain has not remarried. A friend of the family, who was interviewed by the Washington Post in 2008, recounted McCain's reasoning why she never remarried: "She had a lot of boyfriends. She was going out with one fellow who was so terrific. And I said: 'He's so in love with you. You'll have a terrific life together.' She said, 'No, I don't think so.' She's never fallen in love with anyone else. [John McCain] was a hard act to follow."[7][4]

Notes[edit]

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  3. ^ "Carol McCain (Carol Sheep) Biography". 
  4. ^ a b c d e f g h i j k Rosenberg, Amy S. (September 15, 2008). "McCain's Phila. Story". The Philadelphia Inquirer. pp. A01, A04. Retrieved October 1, 2017. 
  5. ^ a b "Frosh Party Planned by Alumnae". Delaware County Daily Times. September 4, 1956. p. 4. Retrieved October 1, 2017 – via Newspapers.com. 
  6. ^ a b "Scholarships, Awards Given at Landsdowne". Delaware County Daily Times. June 13, 1955. p. 9. Retrieved October 1, 2017 – via Newspapers.com. 
  7. ^ a b c d e f g h Farhi, Paul (October 6, 2008). "The Separate Peace of John And Carol". The Washington Post. Retrieved October 6, 2008. 
  8. ^ a b c d Timberg, An American Odyssey, pp. 100–101.
  9. ^ a b Timberg, Robert (1999). John McCain: An American Odyssey. Touchstone Books. ISBN 0-684-86794-X.  pp. 68–69.
  10. ^ a b c Alexander, Paul (2002). Man of the People: The Life of John McCain. John Wiley & Sons. p. 32. ISBN 0-471-22829-X. 
  11. ^ Feinberg, Barbara Silberdick (2000). John McCain: Serving His Country. Millbrook Press. ISBN 0-7613-1974-3.  pp. 16, 18.
  12. ^ Leahy, Michael (August 31, 2008). "A Turbulent Youth Under a Strong Father's Shadow". The Washington Post. Retrieved November 8, 2008. 
  13. ^ a b c d e f g h Serrano, Richard A.; Vartabedian, Ralph (July 11, 2008). "McCain's broken marriage and fractured Reagan friendship". Los Angeles Times. Retrieved July 11, 2008. 
  14. ^ "The John McCain Story: Timeline". McCain 2000, Inc. Archived from the original on March 1, 2000. 
  15. ^ a b Timberg, An American Odyssey, p. 70.
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  17. ^ Steinhauer, Jennifer (December 27, 2007). "Bridging 4 Decades, a Large, Close-Knit Brood". The New York Times. Retrieved December 27, 2007. 
  18. ^ Nowicki, Dan & Muller, Bill (March 1, 2007). "John McCain Report: Prisoner of War". The Arizona Republic. Retrieved November 10, 2007. 
  19. ^ a b c d Leary, Alex (July 20, 2008). "John McCain: From Orange Park to White House?". St. Petersburg Times. Archived from the original on July 21, 2008. Retrieved July 21, 2008. 
  20. ^ McCain, John; Mark Salter (1999). Faith of My Fathers. New York: Random House. ISBN 0-375-50191-6.  p. 279.
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  22. ^ a b c d e f g h i Kristof, Nicholas (February 27, 2000). "P.O.W. to Power Broker, A Chapter Most Telling". The New York Times. Retrieved April 22, 2007. 
  23. ^ Townley, Alvin (2006). Legacy of Honor: The Values and Influence of America's Eagle Scouts. Macmillan Publishers. ISBN 0-312-36653-1.  p. 97.
  24. ^ a b Alter, Jonathan (January 16, 2008). "When Ross Perot Calls..." Newsweek. Archived from the original on June 10, 2008. Retrieved June 15, 2008.  By the time Perot's statement was made, Perot had run into severe conflict with McCain's soon-to-be ex-husband over the Vietnam POW/MIA live prisoners issue.
  25. ^ Sterba, James P (March 15, 1973). "P.O.W. Commander Among 108 Freed" (PDF). The New York Times. 
  26. ^ Timberg, An American Odyssey, p. 112.
  27. ^ Timberg, An American Odyssey, p. 112.
  28. ^ Timberg, An American Odyssey, pp. 119–122.
  29. ^ Kerr, Jessie Lynne (October 25, 2008). "The McCain Connection: His family moved to Orange Park in 1966; The following years profoundly shaped the presidential candidate's future". The Florida Times-Union. Archived from the original on September 21, 2009. Retrieved October 25, 2008. 
  30. ^ Vartabedian, Ralph (April 14, 2008). "McCain has long relied on his grit". Los Angeles Times. Retrieved May 24, 2008. 
  31. ^ a b Helman, Scott (August 31, 2008). "Taking command - The McCain way". The Boston Globe. Retrieved September 2, 2008. 
  32. ^ a b c d Nowicki, Dan and Muller, Bill (March 1, 2007). "John McCain Report: Arizona, the early years". The Arizona Republic. Retrieved November 21, 2007. 
  33. ^ Timberg, An American Odyssey, pp. 126–128.
  34. ^ Alexander, Man of the People, pp. 89–90.
  35. ^ a b c d e f Radcliffe, Donnie (December 30, 1986). "Christmas Card Presidents". The Washington Post. 
  36. ^ Alexander, Man of the People, p. 92.
  37. ^ Timberg, An American Odyssey, pp. 124–125.
  38. ^ Barakat, Matthew (August 16, 2008). "McCain and his mother don't recall old lawsuits". Associated Press. Retrieved August 22, 2008. [dead link]
  39. ^ a b Romano, Lois (March 2, 2000). "Out of the Fire, Politics Calls; Ex-POW Turns Washington Insider". The Washington Post. 
  40. ^ "Carol McCain". Snopes.com. Retrieved August 26, 2018. 
  41. ^ Weisman, Steven R (June 20, 1981). "Truce, Of Sorts, On White House Tours". The New York Times. 
  42. ^ "White House Remains Ever Popular". The New York Times. September 2, 1982. 
  43. ^ Kantor, Jodi; Halbfinger, David M. (October 17, 2008). "Behind McCain, Outsider in Capital Wanting Back In". The New York Times. Retrieved October 18, 2008. 
  44. ^ Naedele, Walter F (November 18, 1986). "O'Neill is Weighing an Invitation For Post as Bicentennial Spokesman". The Philadelphia Inquirer. 
  45. ^ a b Naedele, Walter F (February 19, 1987). "Bicentennial Group Adds, Loses Staff". The Philadelphia Inquirer. 
  46. ^ Flander, Scott (February 27, 1987). "Painting the Town with Red Ink: Inadequate Funding, Internal Conflict Crippling Fete". Philadelphia Daily News. 
  47. ^ Rogers, Patricia Dane (December 6, 1990). "Entertaining: Setting a Simpler Tone In Uncertain Times". The Washington Post. 
  48. ^ Pressley, Sue Ann (June 6, 1991). "Desert Storm Celebration Is Also a Parade of Tears; Day Will Be Painful for Families of War Dead". The Washington Post. 
  49. ^ Jordan, Mary (June 7, 1991). "Victory Party Storms Into Town;Military Invades Mall for Extravaganza Now Priced at $12 Million". The Washington Post. 

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