Lady Idina Sackville
Life and marriages
Lady Idina was the daughter of Gilbert Sackville, 8th Earl De La Warr, and Lady Muriel Agnes Brassey, daughter of Thomas Brassey, 1st Earl Brassey, and Anna Allnutt. She had two younger siblings, her sister Avie and her brother Herbrand. Her cousin was the writer Vita Sackville-West.
Lady Myra Idina Sackville was known by her middle name, Idina. It was said of her that the 'room lit up when she entered it'. She married and divorced five times.
- David John Wallace (1914 – k.i.a., World War II, Greece, 1944), married in 1939 Joan Prudence Magor (later remarried on 3 March 1948 Gerald Frederick Walter de Winton), and had two daughters:
- Cary Davina Wallace, married David Arthur Russell Howell, Baron Howell of Guildford. Their daughter is the writer Frances Osborne who is the author of The Bolter, a biography of Idina.
- Laura Jacqueline Wallace (b. 22 May 1941), married firstly on 25 June 1963 Dominic Paul Morland, and had issue, married secondly in August 2003 Keith Fitchett, without issue
- Gerard Euan Wallace (1915 – k.i.a., World War II, 1943), married in 1940 Elizabeth Lawson, without issue
Lady Myra Idina Sackville designed Kildonan House, Barrhill, South Ayrshire with the architect James Miller in homage to her childhood home. She never saw the building finished, having split from Euan Wallace before its completion.
In 1919 she divorced Wallace and married on 27 March 1919 Captain Charles Gordon, becoming Idina Gordon. Wallace took custody of their sons and Idina moved to Kenya. She and Gordon divorced in 1923, without issue, and later that year she married Josslyn Hay, 22nd Earl of Erroll and was thus styled the Countess of Erroll. They had one child, Diana Denyse Hay (1926–78).
Idina divorced Lord Erroll in 1930 and their daughter was taken home to England to be raised firstly by her uncle The Earl De La Warr and then by her aunt Lady Avice Spicer in Wiltshire. Later that year on 22 November Idina married Donald Carmichael Haldeman. They divorced in 1938, without issue.
In 1939, she married William Vincent Soltau, who died on 1 August 1964. She divorced Soltau in 1946, without issue.
Lady Idina died in 1955 at the age of 62.
The Happy Valley Set
The elite social group in Kenya known as the Happy Valley set was notorious for stories of drug use and promiscuous sexual encounters. These expatriates living in British East Africa received much publicity for their decadent hedonism. While Idina was married to Josslyn Hay, they frequented the Muthaiga Country Club in Nairobi. At Clouds, her house on Mount Kipipiri above the Rift Valley, Idina hosted generous parties where patrons enjoyed champagne...
In popular culture
The notorious Happy Valley set was depicted in White Mischief, a film dramatising the events surrounding the murder of Lady Idina's third husband Josslyn Hay, 22nd Earl of Erroll based on the same titled book by James Fox.
In the 1920s, the writer Michael Arlen wrote a book The Green Hat where the heroine Iris Storm is based on a portrait of Lady Idina Sackville. This book was turned into a movie A Woman of Affairs starring Greta Garbo.