Lady May Abel Smith
|May Helen Emma Abel Smith
|Born Princess May of Teck|
|Spouse||Henry Abel Smith|
Richard Abel Smith
|House||House of Württemberg (by birth)|
|Father||Alexander Cambridge, 1st Earl of Athlone|
|Mother||Princess Alice of Albany|
|Born||23 January 1906|
|Died||29 May 1994(aged 88)|
Lady May (Helen Emma) Abel Smith (née Cambridge, born Princess May of Teck; 23 January 1906 – 29 May 1994)  was a member of the British Royal Family, a great-granddaughter of Queen Victoria, as well as a great-great-granddaughter of King George III and niece to Queen Mary, consort of King George V.
Princess May was born at Claremont House, near Esher in Surrey, England. Her parents were Prince Alexander of Teck (later the 1st Earl of Athlone), the youngest son of Prince Francis, Duke of Teck and Princess Mary Adelaide of Cambridge. Her mother was Princess Alexander of Teck (née Princess Alice of Albany), the daughter of Prince Leopold, Duke of Albany, youngest son of Queen Victoria and his wife, Princess Helena of Waldeck and Pyrmont.
As a daughter of Prince Alexander of Teck, May was styled Her Serene Highness Princess May of Teck at birth.
Lady May Cambridge
During World War I, anti-German feeling in the United Kingdom led Princess May's cousin, King George V, to change the name of the royal house from the Germanic House of Saxe-Coburg-Gotha to the more English-sounding House of Windsor. The King also renounced all Germanic titles for himself and other members of the British Royal Family who were British subjects.
In response, May's father, Prince Alexander, renounced his title of a Prince of Teck in the Kingdom of Württemberg and the style His Serene Highness. Alexander, along with his brother, Prince Adolphus of Teck, adopted the name Cambridge, after their grandfather, Prince Adolphus, Duke of Cambridge.
A few days later, the King created Alexander Earl of Athlone and Viscount Trematon. Alexander was now styled The Right Honourable Earl of Athlone. His daughter was now styled Lady May Cambridge, and his surviving son adopted the courtesy title of Viscount Trematon. Alexander's wife, Alice, born a British princess, retained her title and style, Her Royal Highness, and became known as Princess Alice, Countess of Athlone.
She served as a royal bridesmaid on numerous occasions; three times in Westminster Abbey: in 1919 to HRH Princess Patricia of Connaught on her marriage to Captain Alexander Ramsay RN; in 1922 to HRH The Princess Mary on her marriage to Viscount Lascelles; and in 1923 to the Lady Elizabeth Bowes-Lyon on her marriage to HRH The Duke of York.
The bride was attended by four child bridesmaids; Princess Elizabeth, Rosemary Madeline Hamilton Fraser, Jennifer Bevan and Kathleen Alington: and eight adult bridesmaids; Hon. Imogen Rhys (daughter of Walter Rice, 7th Baron Dynevor), Lady Mary Whitley, Phyllis Seymour-Holm, Princess Alice, Duchess of Gloucester, Princess Ingrid of Sweden, the later Princess Sibylla of Sweden (see below), Verena Seymour (daughter of Sir Edward Seymour and granddaughter of the 4th Marquess Conyngham), and Wenefryde Tabor. The best man was Cecil Weld Forester, 7th Baron Forester of Willey Park.
Princess Ingrid of Sweden, future Queen Consort of King Frederick IX of Denmark, introduced her fellow bridesmaid, Princess Sibylla of Saxe-Coburg-Gotha (daughter of Prince Charles Edward, Duke of Saxe-Coburg and Gotha and former Duke of Albany - grandson of Queen Victoria and Prince Albert through their son Prince Leopold, Duke of Albany) to her brother, Prince Gustav Adolf (father of King Carl XVI Gustav of Sweden), whom Princess Sibylla married a year later (20 October 1932) at the Kirche St.-Moritz Coburg (a wedding that King George V forbade the Royal family to attend because of Charles Edward's association with the Nazi Party).
Sir Henry and Lady May Abel Smith were married for over 60 years and had three children:
|Anne Mary Sibylla Abel Smith||28 July 1932||Married on 14 December 1957 to David Liddell-Grainger (26 January 1930 – 12 March 2007); they were divorced in 1981 but have five children:
|Colonel Richard Francis Abel Smith||11 October 1933||23 December 2004||Married on 28 April 1960 to Marcia Kendrew (born 27 March 1940). One daughter:
|Elizabeth Alice Abel Smith||5 September 1936||Married on 29 April 1965 to Peter Wise (born 29 December 1929) but divorced in 1975. One daughter:
Lady May did not carry out any royal duties due to being only a distant member of the royal family. She did attend some major royal events such as the coronation of Queen Elizabeth II and the wedding of Charles, Prince of Wales and Lady Diana Spencer. At the latter event, Lady May was credited with popularising the counterweights at the back of women's necklaces to prevent the clasps from turning around, which she often wore herself on her usual pearl necklaces.
Lady May died one year after her husband. They are both buried at the Royal Burial Ground, Frogmore, not far from Windsor Castle. Her funeral was held at St George's Chapel, Windsor on 9 June 1994. It was attended by the Duke of Gloucester and Princess Alexandra, representing the Royal Family.
- Her Serene Highness Princess May of Teck (1906 – 1917)
- Miss May Cambridge (14–17 July 1917)
- Lady May Cambridge (1917 – 1931)
- Lady May Abel Smith (1931 – 1994)
From her birth, she was known as Princess May of Teck, a title from the Kingdom of Württemberg. She was later named for a few days Miss May Cambridge after the British Royal Family and its relatives ceased using their German titles in 1917, and her father adopted the surname "Cambridge". She was subsequently styled Lady May Cambridge, when her father was created Earl of Athlone, and Lady May Abel Smith after her marriage in 1931.
- "Lady May Helen Emma Abel Smith". National Portrait Gallery, London.
- Daily Telegraph: royal wedding photograph http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/picturegalleries/royalty/9176069/The-Queen-Mother-in-pictures.html?frame=2181538
- "The Royal Wedding Of Lady May Cambridge 1931". British Pathe.
- "The Wedding of Lady May Cambridge and Henry Abel Smith". National Portrait Gallery, London.
- "Court Circular". Independent. 10 June 1994.