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Kristin Nelson
Nelson in 1964
Born
Sharon Kristin Harmon

(1945-06-25)June 25, 1945
Burbank, California
DiedApril 27, 2018(2018-04-27) (aged 72)
Santa Fe, New Mexico
NationalityAmerican
Other namesKristin Nelson Tinker
Occupations
  • Actress
  • painter
  • author
Spouses
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(m. 1963; div. 1982)​
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(m. 1988; div. 2000)​
ChildrenTracy, Matthew, Gunnar and Sam Nelson
Parent(s)Tom Harmon
Elyse Knox
RelativesMark Harmon
(brother)
Kelly Harmon
(sister)
Pam Dawber
(sister-in-law)
Harriet Hilliard Nelson
(mother-in-law)
Ozzie Nelson
(father-in-law)
David Nelson
(brother-in-law)

Sharon Kristin Nelson (née Harmon; June 25, 1945 – April 27, 2018) was a painter, actress, and author. Sister of actors Mark Harmon and Kelly Harmon, she was married to actor and musician Ricky Nelson for 19 years.

Early life

Kristin was the daughter of American football star Tom Harmon and model and actress Elyse Knox. Her younger siblings are model and actress Kelly Harmon and actor Mark Harmon.[1]

She attended Marymount High School, an all-girls Catholic school in Bel Air, along with other children of celebrities including Mia Farrow, who was one of her closest school friends.[2]

In 1963, at age 17, she married teen idol Ricky Nelson and gave birth to their first child six months later.[3]

Career

Acting

Following her marriage to Rick in 1963, she joined him and his family on their television show The Adventures of Ozzie and Harriet as a regular cast member, first appearing in the episode "Rick's Wedding Ring".[4][5]

In 1965, she co-starred with Rick in the romantic comedy Love and Kisses, in which they demonstrated the troubles of a young couple of school age who get married—an "inspired casting", according to one critic.[6]

She played police officer Jim Reed's wife Jean on Adam-12, guest-starred on other series and appeared in a few theatrical films, including The Resurrection of Broncho Billy, which won an Academy Award for best live-action short film. She retired from acting in 1982 following Liar's Moon.[citation needed]

Art

Kristin Nelson. Mother May I?

Kristin had painted since the age of 17, and had her first one-woman art show in 1967.[7] Her work, which was described as "widely acclaimed"[8] and has been likened to that of Grandma Moses.[9] Her oil paintings sold for up to $5,000 in the 1970s.[2]

Kristin's brightly colored compositions found favor with Jacqueline Kennedy, Mia Farrow, Tyne Daly, Dwight Yoakam and other celebrities.[10] Her art career received a boost when Kennedy purchased her painting When the Kennedys Were in the White House.[2]

Her paintings are conceived without perspective and are brightly colored[1] with many figures included.[11] Judy Blundell said, "Any symbolism is straightforward and honest. As an artist she is not concerned with being clever or elusive; she is simply using her talent as a means of true visual documentation."[11][12] Subjects include When the Kennedys Were in the White House (1964) and The Day He Died (1990), a memorial to her father painted on a window frame that depicts a country church and rain clouds.[1] In 1999, her paintings were published in a coffee-table-sized autobiography, Out of My Mind.[1][10][13] The paintings document her life story and are supplemented with diary entries and poems.[11]

In 1988, she met the director-producer Mark Tinker, who asked her what she wanted to do with her life.[14] She told him, "I want to paint."[14]

Personal life

Marriage to Rick Nelson

Kristin first met Ricky Nelson when she was "just another 12-year-old fan" of his.[2] They began dating on Christmas Day 1961, when she was 16 and Rick was 21.[15][16] A year later, the couple announced their engagement.[17][18] They were married on April 20, 1963, in a Catholic ceremony at St. Martin of Tours Catholic Church in Los Angeles.[18][19] Nelson was pregnant,[18] and Rick later described the union as a "shotgun wedding".[citation needed] Rick, a non-practicing Protestant, received instruction in Catholicism before the wedding[19][20] and signed a pledge to have any children of the union baptized in the Catholic faith.[18]

The couple went on to have three more children, but their extravagant lifestyle forced Rick to tour for long periods, placing great pressure on the marriage. By 1975, the Nelsons were on the verge of breaking up. When Rick returned from a tour in 1977, he discovered Kristin had moved him out of their home and into a rented house.[21] Less than a month later, she found him there with two Los Angeles Rams cheerleaders. Rick later claimed that she had set him up to use the incident against him in court.[22]

In October 1977, Kristin filed for divorce and asked for alimony, custody of their four children and a portion of community property, but the couple temporarily reconciled.[21]

In April 1980, the couple bought Errol Flynn's 1941 Mulholland Drive estate for $750,000.[23][24][25] Nelson wanted Rick to give up music, spend more time at home, and focus on acting, but Rick continued touring relentlessly.[26] The dispute over Nelson's career created unpleasantness at home.[27]

In October 1980, Kristin again filed for divorce.[28][29] Attempts to negotiate a preliminary settlement agreement were unsuccessful.[29] In February 1981, Nelson was temporarily granted custody of the children and $3,600 monthly spousal support. Rick was required to pay family expenses such as property taxes, medical bills, and school tuition.[30]

Nelson claimed that Rick was hiding assets, but in fact he was almost broke.[31][32] Each accused the other of drug and alcohol abuse and of being a poor parent.[3] After two years of acrimony, the couple was divorced in December 1982. The divorce was financially devastating for Rick, with attorneys and accountants taking more than $1 million.[33]

Speaking in a 1998 documentary about the Nelson family, Ozzie and Harriet: The Adventures of America's Favorite Family, Nelson said of her marriage to Rick: "I spent my whole life fighting the fairy tale. First trying to be it, then trying to tell the truth."[34]

Children

Kristin and Rick Nelson had four children. Their daughter, Tracy, was born six months after the wedding on October 25, 1963, at St. John's Hospital in Santa Monica, California.[35][36] She weighed four pounds, one ounce, and was slightly premature.[36] As a preschooler, Tracy appeared in Yours, Mine, and Ours with Lucille Ball.[37][38] In her teens, she attended the exclusive Westlake School for Girls. During her parents' marital difficulties, she stayed with her father at the Mulholland Drive house.[39][40] Tracy went on to become a professional dancer as well as a successful film and television actress.

Twin sons Gunnar Eric Nelson and Matthew Gray Nelson were born on September 20, 1967.[41][42] They moved in with their father as soon as they turned 18, three months before his tragic death.[43] Shortly after, they formed the band Nelson, which is still active.[44]

Their fourth child, Sam Hilliard Nelson, was born on August 29, 1974.[45][46] At six years of age he was placed in the care of his maternal grandparents[39][40] and became the subject of a custody battle between Nelson and her brother Mark Harmon in 1987, when Mark accused her of being an unfit parent.[3] Sam earned a degree in psychology and a minor in film from Boston College and has been working in the music business.[47]

After Rick Nelson's death in a plane crash in 1985, his four children inherited what was left of his estate.[48][43]

Custody case

In 1987, two years after Rick's death, Nelson was undergoing drug rehabilitation when her brother Mark Harmon and his wife Pam Dawber petitioned for custody of Kristin's youngest son Sam, on the grounds that Kristin was incapable of good parenting. Sam's psychiatrist testified that the 13-year-old boy depicted his mother as a dragon and complained about her mood swings and how she prevented him from being with his siblings.[3] During his parents' divorce battle between 1980 and 1982, Sam was under the care of his aunt Kelly before moving in with his grandparents for 18 months and eventually going to live with Harmon and his family.

Harmon dropped the custody petition after his sister made allegations of cocaine use by Dawber.[49][50] Nelson retained custody, although Harmon was granted visitation rights.[51] Nelson, her brother Mark and her son Sam also agreed to enter family therapy.[3]

Marriage to Mark Tinker

Nelson married TV producer and director Mark Tinker (Mary Tyler Moore's stepson) in 1988; they divorced in 2000. After the divorce, Nelson moved to Santa Fe, New Mexico.[3]

Death

Nelson died of a heart attack at her home in Santa Fe, New Mexico, on April 27, 2018. Her daughter Tracy confirmed her death on Facebook four days later,[3][52] writing that "her heaven would be her dogs, sushi, and a Santa Fe sky."[52]

References

  1. ^ a b c d Nash, Eric P. "Books in Brief: Nonfiction; California Dreamin' ", The New York Times, November 16, 1997; retrieved February 24, 2010.
  2. ^ a b c d Wilkins, Barbara (1974-05-24). "The Rick Nelsons Come of Age". PEOPLE.com. Retrieved 2019-12-14.
  3. ^ a b c d e f g "Inside the Tragic Downfall of Kristin Harmon: Mark Harmon's Late Sister and Former Member of TV Royalty". PEOPLE.com. Retrieved 2019-12-15.
  4. ^ Bashe 145
  5. ^ Selvin 150
  6. ^ "Nelsons combine teenage fun romance in 'Love and Kisses'", The Dispatch, Lexington, p. 34, September 14, 1965.
  7. ^ Sheree Homer, Rick Nelson, Rock 'n' Roll Pioneer, p. 76, McFarland, 2012 ISBN 978-0-7864-6060-1
  8. ^ "Kristin and Rick Nelson", Los Angeles Times, June 9, 1974; retrieved February 24, 2010.
  9. ^ Gale Group. Contemporary Authors, Volume 171, p. 410, Gale/Cengage Learning, ISBN 0-7876-2677-5, ISBN 978-0-7876-2677-8. Snippet view on Google Books
  10. ^ a b Scott, Vernon (1999). "Dynastic Hollywood Family". UPI Hollywood Reporter. Archived from the original on November 24, 2010. Retrieved February 18, 2010.
  11. ^ a b c Blundell, Judy. "Naive art draws on artist’s desire to tell story"[permanent dead link‍], Taylor Daily Press, February 1, 2009. Retrieved February 24, 2010.
  12. ^ [1] www.kristinnelson.com
  13. ^ Nelson Tinker, Kristin (1999). Out of My Mind. Abrams. ISBN 0-8109-3691-7.
  14. ^ a b ""Life after 'Ozzie' and 'Harriet'", The Blade, Toledo, September 28, 1997, p. 86[permanent dead link‍]
  15. ^ Bashe, Philip (1992). Teenage Idol, Travelin' Man: The Complete Biography of Rick Nelson, pp. 138,140–1, Hyperion: New York. ISBN 1-56282-969-6
  16. ^ Selvin, Joel (1990). Ricky Nelson: Idol for a Generation, p. 140, Contemporary Books, Inc.: Chicago; ISBN 0-8092-4187-0
  17. ^ Bashe 142
  18. ^ a b c d Selvin 149
  19. ^ a b Bashe 144
  20. ^ Selvin 137,149
  21. ^ a b Selvin p. 230
  22. ^ Bashe p. 207
  23. ^ Bashe pp. 214–5
  24. ^ Selvin p. 246
  25. ^ It remained Nelson's home until his death in 1985 (Selvin p. 246).
  26. ^ Selvin p. 251
  27. ^ Bashe p. 218
  28. ^ Bashe p. 219
  29. ^ a b Selvin p. 252
  30. ^ Selvin p. 254
  31. ^ Selvin p. 259
  32. ^ Selvin p. 260
  33. ^ Bashe p. 221
  34. ^ Weinraub, Bernard (1998-06-18). "Dousing the Glow Of TV's First Family; Time for the Truth About Ozzie and Harriet". The New York Times. ISSN 0362-4331. Retrieved 2019-12-14.
  35. ^ Bashe pp. 144, 225
  36. ^ a b Selvin p. 151
  37. ^ Bashe p. 250
  38. ^ Selvin p. 171
  39. ^ a b Bashe p. 224
  40. ^ a b Selvin p. 255
  41. ^ Bashe p. 158
  42. ^ Selvin p. 173
  43. ^ a b Goodman, Mark (1991-08-05). "Nelson, the Next Generation". PEOPLE.com. Retrieved 2019-12-14.
  44. ^ Selvin p. 267
  45. ^ Bashe p. 187
  46. ^ Selvin p. 217
  47. ^ Roberts, Jeremy (2016-12-06). "Too scared to fly: Sam Nelson's musical odyssey to his legendary father". Medium. Retrieved 2019-12-14.
  48. ^ Bashe p. 271
  49. ^ Bashe p. 282
  50. ^ Selvin pp. 296–9
  51. ^ Darrach, Brad (September 7, 1987). "Life After Ozzie & Harriet". People. p. 41. Retrieved February 18, 2010.
  52. ^ a b "Tracy Kristine Nelson". www.facebook.com.
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