By Your Side (Sade song)
|"By Your Side"|
|Single by Sade|
|from the album Lovers Rock|
|Released||13 October 2000 (UK)
14 October 2000 (U.S.)
|Format||CD single, CD maxi single, 12" maxi single|
|Recorded||December 13-17, 1999|
|Writer(s)||Sade Adu, Andrew Hale, Stuart Matthewman, Paul Spencer Denman|
|Producer(s)||Sade, Mike Pela|
|Sade singles chronology|
"By Your Side" is the lead single from the English group Sade's fifth studio album, Lovers Rock (2000). The track was nominated for the 2002 Grammy Award for Best Female Pop Vocal Performance, losing out to Nelly Furtado's "I'm Like a Bird". The video for this single was directed by Sophie Muller.
The song was featured in an episode of the fourth season of Sex and the City, "The Good Fight", originally aired on 6 January 2002, the season five premiere of Daria, "Fizz Ed", and in the season finale of the sixth season of The L Word, "Last Word".
It was also covered by Beachwood Sparks on their 2001 album Once We Were Trees. The video, directed by Chad Misner, was selected for the 2002 South by Southwest Film Festival. The Beachwood Sparks' cover would also go on to be used in the film adaptation of the comic Scott Pilgrim vs. the World.
This is also a very popular song at wedding receptions as many couples choose it as their first dance song. Celebrities who have used this at their weddings include Jennie Garth and Peter Facinelli as well as Dave Navarro and Carmen Electra.
The music video for the song was shot in Los Angeles and was directed by Sophie Muller, who revealed that it is a metaphor of Sade's life. In the video, she is depicted as a mystical figure, mostly seen walking through a forest and into the city. As the singer goes through different scenarios, she gathers these lifeless things, such as a rose and a burned wood stick, and puts them in a little sack. At the end of the video, she walks into the city and we get to see her in the median of the road offering/selling the rose like a flower seller. This strange journey represents her life but "made into a beautiful, mysterious dream." This idea came when Sade was making her album. She and the music video director were driving to the studio and saw people standing in the median of the road selling flowers. At that sight, Sophie thought "it was so sad to be constantly rejected by these cars " and thought "Well, it’s not such a bad job to be looking at beautiful flowers all day." From this came the concept of someone who has been away, and was just standing offering a flower to someone. At the time, eight years had passed since the group last released an album. When we see her as a flower seller at the end of the video, it represents her offering the band's latest album, Lovers Rock, to the world. As far as direction is concerned, Sophie Muller said that "she (Sade) had not done anything in eight years—there had not even been a photograph taken of her. I think I was being protective the day we did it; I did not want to push her to do something incredibly difficult, but wanted to ease her back in." The video contains very extreme and vivid colors, which were inspired by Chinese and Indian films as well as Japanese masters. Specifically, the pale green light was influenced by Indian over-saturated imagery. This is because the director wanted each bit to be different and "wanted to make it like reality, but more beautiful". For example, the forest was meant to be like a forest, but a bit more peaceful than a real one would be.  Not many special effects were used in the making of the video. Everything was built to look the way it does. The only visual effect is the huge field where she is seen walking. For it, a little field was built and painted all around her. And there was a little green screen, when she walks towards the city.
Track listings and formats
- "By Your Side" (Album Version) - 4:34
- "By Your Side" (Radio Edit) – 4:17
- "By Your Side" (The Neptunes Remix) – 3:57
- "By Your Side" (Ben Watt Lazy Dog Remix) – 8:55
- "By Your Side" (Yard Mix 1) – 4:16
- "By Your Side" (Reggae Mix 1) – 3:57
|Dutch Mega Single Top 100||66|
|German Singles Chart||67|
|Irish Singles Chart||29|
|Italian Singles Chart||10|
|Swedish Singles Chart||29|
|Swiss Singles Chart||61|
|UK Singles Chart||17|
|U.S. Billboard Hot R&B/Hip-Hop Songs||41|
|U.S. Billboard Hot 100||75|
|U.S. Billboard Adult Contemporary||18|
|U.S. Billboard Hot Dance Club Play||2|
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