Financial domination (also known as money slavery) is a fetish lifestyle, in particular a practice of dominance and submission, where typically a submissive or money slave, finsub, pay pig, human ATM, or cash piggie will give gifts and money to a financial dominant (also known as money mistress, findomme, money domme, "cash master", "findom").
The relation may often be accompanied by other practices of BDSM and master/slave relationships, like erotic humiliation, but there may be virtually no further intimacy between the individuals. The relationship between the "slave" and the "mistress" (or "master") may take place solely via online communication, but it is not uncommon for the "slave" to accompany his mistress while they are shopping and paying with their money.
Such a relationship between individuals may be similar to, yet clearly distinguishable from, relationships based on Total Power Exchange. In the latter, the submissive may grant all their money saved and earned to the dominant, in addition to many other aspects of their autonomy, and it is not uncommon for both partners to have an intimate relationship as well. Financial domination can also be distinguished from sugar daddy/sugar baby relationships in which a male provides gifts and money to "his" girl in return for a relationship, generally without any explicit elements of female domination. In financial domination the submissive has no expectation of sexual contact in return for the money, and often there is no physical contact of any kind between the two parties.
Financial domination is a paraphilia stemming from a devotion of financial slavery or to be dominated in a financial way. Many pro-dommes and femdommes found this to be a natural extension for any professional dominatrix who is already being paid for fetish services, and began to exploit it with clients who shared her fetish. Some domme clients were aroused as much by giving money to a dominant woman, as they were by any fetishes they may have been coming to see her for. The dominatrix may also be aroused from being financially worshipped.
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