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'''Gray rape''' is sex for which consent is unclear.<ref name="Tarrant2009">{{cite book|author=Shira Tarrant|title=Men and Feminism: Seal Studies|url=http://books.google.com/books?id=PsY_BAAAQBAJ&pg=PA105|date=12 May 2009|publisher=Seal Press|isbn=978-1-58005-258-0|page=105}}</ref> The term was popularized{{cn|date=July 2016}} by Laura Sessions Stepp in her 2007 ''[[Cosmopolitan (magazine)|Cosmopolitan]]'' article "''A New Kind of Date Rape''" where it describes gray rape as "somewhere between consent and denial and is even more confusing than date rape because often both parties are unsure of who wanted what".<ref name="cosm_Date">{{Cite web| title = A New Kind of Date Rape| author = Laura Sessions Stepp| work = Cosmopolitan| date = 2007-09-11| accessdate = 2016-07-22| url = http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/a1912/new-kind-of-date-rape/}}</ref> The term has been criticized. Founder of ''[[Bitch (magazine)|Bitch]]'' magazine, [[Lisa Jervis]], argued that gray rape and [[date rape]] "are the same thing", and that the popularization of gray rape constituted a backlash against women's sexual empowerment and risked rolling back the gains women had made in having rape taken seriously.<ref>{{Cite book|title = Yes Means Yes: Visions of Female Sexual Power and A World Without Rape|last = Friedman|first = Jaclyn|publisher = Seal Press|year = 2008|isbn = 1580052576|location = |pages = 163–169}}</ref |
'''Gray rape''' is sex for which consent is unclear.<ref name="Tarrant2009">{{cite book|author=Shira Tarrant|title=Men and Feminism: Seal Studies|url=http://books.google.com/books?id=PsY_BAAAQBAJ&pg=PA105|date=12 May 2009|publisher=Seal Press|isbn=978-1-58005-258-0|page=105}}</ref> The term was popularized{{cn|date=July 2016}} by Laura Sessions Stepp in her 2007 ''[[Cosmopolitan (magazine)|Cosmopolitan]]'' article "''A New Kind of Date Rape''" where it describes gray rape as "somewhere between consent and denial and is even more confusing than date rape because often both parties are unsure of who wanted what".<ref name="cosm_Date">{{Cite web| title = A New Kind of Date Rape| author = Laura Sessions Stepp| work = Cosmopolitan| date = 2007-09-11| accessdate = 2016-07-22| url = http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/a1912/new-kind-of-date-rape/}}</ref> The term has been criticized. Founder of ''[[Bitch (magazine)|Bitch]]'' magazine, [[Lisa Jervis]], argued that gray rape and [[date rape]] "are the same thing", and that the popularization of gray rape constituted a backlash against women's sexual empowerment and risked rolling back the gains women had made in having rape taken seriously.<ref>{{Cite book|title = Yes Means Yes: Visions of Female Sexual Power and A World Without Rape|last = Friedman|first = Jaclyn|publisher = Seal Press|year = 2008|isbn = 1580052576|location = |pages = 163–169}}</ref> ConsentEd, a Canadian nonprofit sexual education foundation, dismisses the idea gray rape stating in rape, perpetrators know exactly what they are doing; rape is not an accident.<ref name="cons_Sexu">{{Cite web| title = Sexual Violence Myths: Grey Rape| work = consented.ca| accessdate = 2016-07-22| url = http://www.consented.ca/myths/grey-rape/}}</ref> |
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Revision as of 19:16, 30 July 2016
Gray rape is sex for which consent is unclear.[1] The term was popularized[citation needed] by Laura Sessions Stepp in her 2007 Cosmopolitan article "A New Kind of Date Rape" where it describes gray rape as "somewhere between consent and denial and is even more confusing than date rape because often both parties are unsure of who wanted what".[2] The term has been criticized. Founder of Bitch magazine, Lisa Jervis, argued that gray rape and date rape "are the same thing", and that the popularization of gray rape constituted a backlash against women's sexual empowerment and risked rolling back the gains women had made in having rape taken seriously.[3] ConsentEd, a Canadian nonprofit sexual education foundation, dismisses the idea gray rape stating in rape, perpetrators know exactly what they are doing; rape is not an accident.[4]
Terminology
The concept was mentioned in Katie Roiphe's 1994 book The Morning After: Sex, Fear and Feminism on Campus[5] where she writes, "there is a gray area in which one person’s rape may be another’s bad night."[6] The term gray rape was used to describe the 1996 Brown University rape allegation involving students Adam Lack and Sara Klein. According to Lack he had consensual sex with Klein, Klein was apparently unaware the two had sex until days later after Lack asked about the experience. She denied remembering the incident due to her consumption of alcohol and 5 weeks later, filed charges. Lack said she not only gave consent, but was the one initiating and that he was unaware she was intoxicated. The charges were subsequently dropped, but Lack received academic discipline as a result.[5][7]
After Laura Sessions Stepp's Cosmopolitan article, "A New Kind of Date Rape", gray rape definition came to include regrettable sexual experiences and decisions made under the influence of drugs and alcohol.[2][failed verification][8][failed verification]
Controversy
In 2014, Washington and Lee University expelled a student identified only as John Doe for what was described as "gray rape" after he allegedly raped a woman identified as Jane Doe. According to the claim, Jane met John at a party in February 2014 where the two had sex; she did not ask him to stop at the time. In the summer of 2014 while working at a women’s clinic that helps sexual assault victims, Jane spoke with staff and later reassessed the encounter as rape. Within 21 days John was expelled from Washington and Lee.[9][10] John Doe later sued the school. In 2015, Washington and Lee filed to dismiss the lawsuit, but Judge Norman K. Moon denied the motion to dismiss allowing John Doe to continue seeking damages from his expulsion believing that John had been the wrongly accused of sexual misconduct. Washington and Lee University ended up settling out of court with the student.[9][11]
Some reject the idea of gray rape, saying that it promotes the myth that rape can be an accident. They say that consent is consent, and there is no gray area between consent and lack of consent.[12][4]
See also
References
- ^ Shira Tarrant (12 May 2009). Men and Feminism: Seal Studies. Seal Press. p. 105. ISBN 978-1-58005-258-0.
- ^ a b Laura Sessions Stepp (2007-09-11). "A New Kind of Date Rape". Cosmopolitan. Retrieved 2016-07-22.
- ^ Friedman, Jaclyn (2008). Yes Means Yes: Visions of Female Sexual Power and A World Without Rape. Seal Press. pp. 163–169. ISBN 1580052576.
- ^ a b "Sexual Violence Myths: Grey Rape". consented.ca. Retrieved 2016-07-22.
- ^ a b Chan, Sewell (2007-10-10). "'Gray Rape': A New Form of Date Rape?". The New York Times City Room. Retrieved 2016-07-22.
- ^ Roiphe, Katie (1993). The Morning After: Sex, Fear and Feminism on Campus. New York: Little, Brown and Company. p. 54. ISBN 978-0-316-75432-3.
- ^ Goldstein, Daisy (2004-09-22). "He said, she can't remember: the Adam Lack case". Brown Daily Herald. Retrieved 2016-07-22.
- ^ Clark-Flory, Tracy (2007-08-29). "Casual hookups cause "gray rape"?". Salon. Retrieved 2016-07-22.
- ^ a b Stanford, Julianne (2015-08-10). "Male student – expelled over 'gray rape' claim – can sue college, judge rules". The College Fix. Retrieved 2016-07-22.
- ^ Johnson, KC (2015-01-26). "The 'Rape' Disaster at Washington and Lee". Minding The Campus. Retrieved 2016-07-22.
- ^ Schow, Ashe (2016-02-08). "Washington and Lee settles lawsuit by student expelled for sexual assault". Washington Examiner. Retrieved 2016-07-22.
- ^ Jerrold S. Greenberg; Clint E. Bruess; Sara B. Oswalt (19 February 2016). Exploring the Dimensions of Human Sexuality. Jones & Bartlett Learning. p. 1250. ISBN 978-1-284-11474-4.