Cousin

For other uses, see Cousin (disambiguation).

A cousin is a relative with whom a person shares one or more common ancestors. In the general sense, cousins are two or more generations away from any common ancestor, thus distinguishing a cousin from an ancestor, descendant, sibling, aunt, uncle, niece, or nephew. However in common parlance, "cousin" normally specifically means "first cousin".

Systems of "degrees" and "removals" are used in the English-speaking world to describe the exact relationship between two cousins (in the broad sense) and the ancestor they have in common. Various governmental entities have established systems for legal use that can more precisely specify kinships with common ancestors existing any number of generations in the past, though common usage often eliminates the degrees and removals and refers to people with common ancestry as simply "distant cousins" or "relatives".

Basic definitions

The ordinals in the terms "first cousins", "second cousins", "third cousins", describe the "degree" of the cousin relationship. The degree of two cousins' relationship is determined by the number of generations to their closest common ancestor. When the cousins are not the same generation, they are described as "removed". In this case, the smaller number of generations to the common ancestor is used to determine the degree, and the difference in generations determines the number of times removed. Note that the ages of the cousins are irrelevant to the definition of the cousin relationship.

First cousins The children of two siblings. David and Emma are first cousins because they are non-siblings who share the same grandparents.	Adam Agatha Bill Betty Charles Corinda David Emma
Second cousins The children of two first cousins. Frank and Gwen are second cousins because they are non-first cousins who share great-grandparents.	Adam Agatha Bill Betty Charles Corinda Dawn David Emma Eric Frank Gwen
Third cousins The grandchildren of two first cousins; also the children of two second cousins. Harry and Isabel are third cousins because they are non-second cousins who share great-great-grandparents.	Adam Agatha Bill Betty Charles Corinda Dawn David Emma Eric Frank Felicity George Gwen Harry Isabel
First cousins once removed Two people for whom a first cousin relationship is one generation removed. The child of one's first cousin; also the first cousin of one's parent. Frank and his father's first cousin, Emma, are first cousins once removed.	Adam Agatha Bill Betty Charles Corinda Dawn David Emma Frank
First cousins twice removed Two people for whom a first cousin relationship is two generations removed. The grandchild of one's first cousin; also the first cousin of one's grandparent. Harry and his grandfather's first cousin, Emma, are first cousins twice removed.	Adam Agatha Bill Betty Charles Corinda Dawn David Emma Frank Felicity Harry
Second cousins once removed Two people for whom a second cousin relationship is one generation removed. The child of one's second cousin; also the second cousin of one's parent. Harry and his father's second cousin, Gwen, are second cousins once removed.	Adam Agatha Bill Betty Charles Corinda Dawn David Emma Eric Frank Felicity Gwen Harry

Additional terms

The following is a list of less common cousin terms.

Term	Definition	Example	Chart
Double cousin	Double cousins arise when two siblings of one family reproduce with two siblings of another family. The resulting children are related to each other through both of their parents and are thus doubly related. Double first cousins share both sets of grandparents in common and have twice the degree of consanguinity of ordinary first cousins. Double second cousins can arise in two ways: from two first-cousin relationships among their parents or from one double-first-cousin relationship between their parents.	David and Irene are double first cousins because each is related through their mother's family and also their father's family, the result of a brother and sister (Ben and Helen) having married another brother and sister (Hugh and Betty). For David and Irene, each has a mother who is an aunt by marriage of the other and a father who is an uncle by marriage of the other.	Gary Glenda Adam Agatha Betty Ben Helen Hugh David Irene
Half-cousin	Half cousins are the children of two half siblings.	David and Lilian are half cousins because their fathers (Ben and James) are half brothers, their grandmother (Agatha) having divorced and remarried.	Adam Agatha Anthony Betty Ben James Janet David Lilian
Step-cousin	Step-cousins are either stepchildren of an individual's aunt or uncle or nieces and nephews of one's step-parent.	David and Mary are step-cousins because David's uncle (Charles) has become Mary's stepfather as a result of Mary's mother (Corinda) having divorced and remarried.	Adam Agatha Betty Ben Charles Corinda Colin David Mary
Cousin-in-law	A cousin-in-law is the spouse of an individual's cousin or the cousin of one's spouse.	David and Eric are first cousins-in-law to each other because Eric's wife (Emma) is David's first cousin.	Adam Agatha Betty Ben Charles Corinda David Emma Eric
Maternal or Paternal cousin	A term that specifies whether one individual is a cousin of another through the mother's side of the family (maternal) or the father's side (paternal). If the relationship is not equally paternal for both or equally maternal for both, then the paternal cousin of one is the maternal cousin of the other.	Emma and David are paternal first cousins (being related through their fathers). Emma is also Nicola's paternal first cousin (as related on Nicola's father's side), but Nicola is Emma's maternal first cousin (as related on Emma's mother's side). David and Nicola are not cousins to each other.	Adam Agatha Luke Laura Betty Ben Charles Corinda Mark Maud David Emma Nicola

Kissing cousins are defined by the Oxford English Dictionary as "relatives or friends with whom one is on close enough terms to greet with a kiss".

Relationship charts

Cousin chart

A "cousin chart", or "table of consanguinity", is helpful in identifying the degree of cousin relationship between two people using their most recent common ancestor as the reference point. Cousinship between two people can be specifically described in degrees and removals by determining how close, generationally, the common ancestor is to each person.

If one person's →		Grandparent	Great-grandparent	Great-great-grandparent	Great-great-great-grandparent	Great-great-great-great-grandparent
Is the other person's ↓	Then they are ↘
Grandparent		1st cousins	1st cousins once removed	1st cousins twice removed	1st cousins thrice removed	1st cousins four times removed
Great-grandparent		1st cousins once removed	2nd cousins	2nd cousins once removed	2nd cousins twice removed	2nd cousins thrice removed
Great-great-grandparent		1st cousins twice removed	2nd cousins once removed	3rd cousins	3rd cousins once removed	3rd cousins twice removed
Great-great-great-grandparent		1st cousins thrice removed	2nd cousins twice removed	3rd cousins once removed	4th cousins	4th cousins once removed
Great-great-great-great-grandparent		1st cousins four times removed	2nd cousins thrice removed	3rd cousins twice removed	4th cousins once removed	5th cousins

Canon law relationship chart

Canon Law Relationship Chart. See an example of how to use chart.

Another visual chart used in determining the legal relationship between two people who share a common ancestor is based upon a diamond shape, usually referred to as a "canon law relationship chart".

The chart is used by placing the "common progenitor" (the most recent person from whom both people are descended) in the top space in the diamond-shaped chart and then following each line down the outside edge of the chart. Upon reaching the final place along the opposing outside edge for each person, the relationship is then determined by following that line inward to the point where the lines intersect. The information contained in the common "intersection" defines the relationship.

For a simple example, in the illustration to the right, if two siblings use the chart to determine their relationship, their common parents are placed in the topmost position, and each child is assigned the space below and along the outside of the chart. Then, following the spaces inward, the two would meet in the "brother/sister" diamond. If their children want to determine their relationship, they would follow the path established by their parents but descend an additional step below along the outside of the chart (showing that they are grandchildren of the common progenitor); following their respective lines inward, they would come to rest in the space marked "1st cousin". In cases where one side descends the outside of the diamond further than the other side because of additional generations removed from the common progenitor, following the lines inward shows both the cousin rank (1st cousin, 2nd cousin) plus the number of times (generations) "removed".

In the example provided at the right, generations one (child) through ten (8th great-grandchild) from the common progenitor are provided; however, the format of the chart can easily be expanded to accommodate any number of generations needed to resolve the question of relationship.

Mathematical definitions

There is a mathematical way to identify the degree of cousinship shared by two individuals. In the description of each individual's relationship to the most recent common ancestor, each "great" or "grand" has a numerical value of 1. The following examples demonstrate how this is applied.

Example 1: Tom and Sue share a common ancestor, Bob. Bob is Tom's great-great-great-grandfather, making Tom's degree of descendance 4 (great + great + great + grand = 4). Bob is Sue's grandfather, so Sue's degree of descendance is 1 (grand = 1). The smaller of 4 and 1 is 1, so Tom and Sue are first cousins. The difference between 4 and 1 is 3 (4 - 1 = 3), so Tom and Sue are 3 times removed. Tom and Sue are first cousins, three times removed.

Example 2: Mary's great-great-great-grandmother is also Helen's great-great-great-grandmother. Mary's degree of descendance is 4. Helen's degree of descendance is also 4. Mary and Helen are fourth cousins. Since 4 - 4 = 0, there is no degree of removal.

Example 3: Billie's great-grandfather is Sarah's great-great-great-great-great-grandfather. Billie's degree of descendance is 2. Sarah's degree is 6. Thus Billie and Sarah are second cousins (the smaller of 2 and 6) four (6 - 2) times removed.

Alternative definitions

Asymmetric definitions

The definitions discussed in the article above are the ones found in dictionaries of standard English, but they are not universal. At least one alternative usage also exists.

In this alternative system, the degree of the relationship from cousin A to cousin B is determined by the distance from A to the common ancestor and the number of times removed is the difference in generations between A to B. Sometimes "upwards" or "downwards" is used to indicate the direction of this difference. For example, if A has a grandparent whose sibling is B's parent, then B is A's "second cousin, once removed (upwards)", whereas A is B's "first cousin once removed (downwards)". Note that this is not standard terminology, and is completely absent from many major dictionaries.

As seen in this example, this usage is asymmetric, since different terms are used to represent A's relationship to B and B's relationship to A. By contrast, the standard usage of "cousin" discussed in the main part of this article is symmetric (in this example, the standard terminology would be that A is B's first cousin once removed, and B is A's first cousin once removed), and is also dyadic (for example, one can say "A and B are first cousins once removed").

Colloquial usage

In day to day speech, "cousin" is often used unmodified. Normally it means a first cousin, but some people use the term "cousin" to refer to cousins of all types, such as first, second, and third cousins, as well as cousins once or more times removed. Modifier terms such as "half-cousin" or "step-cousin" are rarely used in everyday speech.

Usage for extremely distant relations

Although use of the word "cousin" in this context is infrequent (especially outside of evolutionary literature), any two individual organisms regardless of their respective species (or any other level of taxonomy) are in fact very distant cousins by virtue of shared descent from a single cell whose descendants survived beyond the Paleoarchean Era.

See also

• Collateral descendant
• Consanguinity
• Cousin marriage
• Cross cousin
• Family
• Genealogical numbering systems
• Generation
• Kinship terminology
• List of coupled cousins
• Most recent common ancestor
• Parallel cousin

External links

• European kinship system
• Genealogy.com definition of various cousins
• Genealogy.com: What makes a cousin?
• Genetic Genealogy