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Billy Graham crafted the Modesto Manifesto while traveling for a business trip in Modesto, California.

The Modesto Manifesto[1][2] was a set of standards for religious leaders that became notable as the signature practice among men in which they avoid spending time alone with people of the opposite sex to whom they are not married.[3][4] It has additionally taken a more modern meaning as a display of integrity, a means of avoiding sexual temptation, to avoid any appearance of doing something considered morally objectionable, and to avoid being accused of sexual harassment or assault.

Created for male evangelical Protestant leaders by Billy Graham, it has been popularly known as the "Billy Graham rule."[5] Its adoption by former U.S. Vice President Mike Pence has had it additionally nicknamed the "Mike Pence rule".[6] The Modesto Manifesto has found a prominent foothold on Wall Street and more generally in American finance for its ability to limit the "risk" of perceived sexual impropriety.[7][8]

Background

"Billy Graham rule"

In 1948, Graham held a series of evangelistic meetings in Modesto, California. Together with Cliff Barrows, Grady Wilson and George Beverly Shea, he resolved to "avoid any situation that would have even the appearance of compromise or suspicion".[9] The accountability agreement, which has become known as the "Modesto Manifesto",[10] covered not only their interactions with women, but also commitments to integrity with respect to:

From that time onward, Graham made a point of not traveling, meeting, or eating alone with a woman other than his wife Ruth.[11] Graham biographer Grant Wacker observed that "Over the years Graham received intense media scrutiny, but hardly anyone accused him of violating any of those four principles."[12]

By Graham's own admission, though, he was not an absolutist in the application of the rule that now bears his name: his autobiography relates a lunch meeting with Hillary Clinton that he initially refused on the grounds that he does not eat alone with women other than his wife, but she persuaded him that they could have a private conversation in a public dining room.[13][14]

"Mike Pence rule"

Vice President Mike Pence with his wife, Karen, in 2017.

In March 2017, The Washington Post noted that former U.S. Vice President Mike Pence never eats alone with a woman other than his wife, Karen, and that he won't attend events featuring alcohol without her by his side.[15][16][17] Emma Green, writing for The Atlantic, noted that the controversy was an example of how "notions of gender divide American culture": while "socially liberal or non-religious people may see Pence's practice as misogynistic or bizarre", for "a lot of conservative religious people" the "set-up probably sounds normal, or even wise".[18]

Polish science fiction writer Jacek Dukaj called this rule an inevitable and likely to grow in popularity as an outcome of the Me Too movement and cancel culture.[19]

Prevalence on Wall Street

The rule has become increasingly popular on Wall Street, and more generally, in American finance, in the wake of the late-2010s #MeToo movement.[7] Many male (and more rarely female) bankers, financial advisors, and financial service professionals have adhered to the rule in order to avoid the appearance of sexual impropriety.[8] According to a 2019 LinkedIn report, 30 per cent of corporate superiors (of both male and female genders) felt uncomfortable mentoring female colleagues.[20] Female workers are considered by some to be "an unknown risk" to banks, akin to market, liquidity, contract, and user risks. According to a December 2018 Bloomberg study, financial professionals often refuse to eat dinners alone with female colleagues and clients, sit apart from them on flights, book rooms on different hotel floors, and avoid meeting them one-on-one, particularly in private rooms.[21] Private meetings with senior members are typically conducted "with the door left wide open".[21] This rule has been identified as a factor in the lower levels of women in finance.[22] The Economist criticized and praised the rule's spread across Wall Street in 2018. It has allowed the workplace to become "all the most transparent" the paper said, adding that it was "[men], rather than the women, who were creating all the risk."[8]

Worries about exaggerated, mischaracterized, incorrect, inaccurate, or misleading recollections of interactions with females are said to fuel some of the rule's popularity on Wall Street.[23] In response to the #MeToo movement, Wall Street developed a "culture of walking on eggshells" around women on Wall Street due to its belief in the highly subjective nature of sexual harassment and assault.[21][24] The practice has been critiqued by corporate and human resources lawyers for potentially being gender discrimination. However, it is difficult to prove that the rule is actually being applied as most of financial services is project -, client-, and account-based. The Guardian reported that in August 2019, "27 per cent of men avoided one-on-one meetings with female co-workers, 21 per cent of men said they would be reluctant to hire women for a job that would require close interaction, and 19 per cent of men would be reluctant to hire an attractive woman."[25] The same study also found that women were more reluctant to hire attractive women in jobs that required close interaction.[25] MarketWatch reported in June 2019 that nearly 60 per cent of men were uncomfortable being alone with their female colleagues.[26]

Reactions

The rule has been criticized for viewing women as potential objects of lust, as well as restricting opportunities for women to network with any male colleagues who happen to implement this rule.[15][27] When applied to workplace dinners or meetings in the United States, it could result in illegal labor discrimination under Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964.[28][29][30] American pastor Tracey Bianchi says that one result is that "women are marginalized and cut out of opportunities to network, share their ideas, and advance in the organization."[31] Bianchi also says that the rule conflicts with the practice of Jesus himself, who spent time alone with the Samaritan woman at the well.[31] American pastor Ty Grigg says that the rule (assuming all American pastors implemented it) has not been "effective at curbing infidelity". He says that the rule "has framed relating with the opposite sex with fear", and that this leads to a diminished mutual respect, which in turn creates "the kind of environment where inappropriate relating is more likely to occur".[32] Others, though, suggest that unfaithful pastors must have failed to implement the rule.[33] Messianic Jewish author Michael L. Brown says that critics of the rule have misunderstood the purposes of the rule. He says that the rule prevents third parties from suspecting that an illicit romantic relationship exists (avoiding the appearance of evil). It also protects against any future accusations should the other party become embittered and seek to attack the innocent boss. Finally, it does protect both parties from developing natural attractions and potentially falling into adultery.[34]

U.S. public opinion

According to a 2017 poll conducted by the Morning Consult for the New York Times, 53 per cent of women and 45 per cent of men believe that it would be inappropriate to have dinner alone with someone of the opposite sex who is not their spouse, compared to 35 per cent of women and 43 per cent of men who would consider it appropriate.[35]

See also

References

  1. ^ "The "Modesto Manifesto" | Christian History Magazine". Christian History Institute. Retrieved March 30, 2020.
  2. ^ "What was the Modesto Manifesto?". www2.wheaton.edu. Retrieved March 30, 2020.
  3. ^ Briggs, Megan (April 24, 2019). "There Are Actually 4 'Billy Graham Rule'(s)". ChurchLeaders. Retrieved March 30, 2020.
  4. ^ "Billy Graham made sure his integrity was never in question". Religion News Service. February 23, 2018. Retrieved March 30, 2020.
  5. ^ "Editorial: Following the Billy Graham rule doesn't make you noble. It makes you a sexist dinosaur". Los Angeles Times. July 16, 2019. Retrieved March 30, 2020.
  6. ^ Bowles, Nellie (November 10, 2017). "Men at Work Wonder if They Overstepped With Women, Too". The New York Times. Retrieved November 10, 2017. Still, some workers said they were starting to follow "the Pence rule," which was formerly known as the Billy Graham rule, after the evangelical preacher, but is now named for Vice President Mike Pence. Mr. Pence has said he does not eat alone with women who are not his wife or attend an event without her if alcohol will be served.
  7. ^ a b McLean, Bethany. "Inside Wall Street's Complex, Shameful, and Often Confidential Battle with #MeToo". Vanity Fair. Retrieved March 30, 2020.
  8. ^ a b c "Wall Street may be finding new ways to perpetuate the old boys' club". The Economist. ISSN 0013-0613. Retrieved March 30, 2020.
  9. ^ Graham, Billy (1999). Just As I Am. HarperOne. pp. 128. ISBN 978-0060633929.
  10. ^ Dowland, Seth (2014). "The 'Modesto Manifesto'". Christian History. 111.
  11. ^ "What part did the Modesto Manifesto play in the ministry of Billy Graham?". Billy Graham Center Archives. January 31, 2007. Retrieved May 16, 2017.
  12. ^ Wacker, Grant (2014). America's Pastor. Harvard University Press. p. 11. ISBN 978-0674052185.
  13. ^ Graham, Billy (1997). Just As I Am : the Autobiography of Billy Graham. Harper Collins. pp. 651. ISBN 9780060633875. OCLC 883482847.
  14. ^ Gayle, J.K. (March 30, 2017). "When Hillary Clinton Persuaded Billy Graham to Break the 'Billy Graham Rule'". BLT – Bible * Literature * Translation.
  15. ^ a b "Twitter Tangles With the Billy Graham Rule". Relevant. March 30, 2017. Retrieved April 2, 2017.
  16. ^ Parker, Ashley (March 28, 2017). "Karen Pence is the vice president's 'prayer warrior,' gut check and shield". The Washington Post. Retrieved April 2, 2017.
  17. ^ Showalter, Brendan (March 30, 2017). "Mike Pence Ridiculed for Practicing 'Billy Graham Rule'". The Christian Post. Retrieved April 2, 2017.
  18. ^ Green, Emma (March 30, 2017). "How Mike Pence's Marriage Became Fodder for the Culture Wars". The Atlantic. Retrieved April 2, 2017.
  19. ^ "Dukaj: Wyrażam niewiarę w moc sprawczą państwa i człowieka w ogóle". wyborcza.pl (in Polish). November 30, 2019. Retrieved March 10, 2020.
  20. ^ "Men nervous to mentor women: Poll | LinkedIn". www.linkedin.com. Retrieved March 30, 2020.
  21. ^ a b c Tan, Gillan (December 3, 2018). "Wall Street Rule for the #MeToo Era: Avoid Women at All Cost". www.bloomberg.com. Retrieved March 30, 2020.
  22. ^ Stock, Kyle (September 20, 2010). "Ranks of Women on Wall Street Thin". Wall Street Journal. ISSN 0099-9660. Retrieved March 30, 2020.
  23. ^ Levin, Bess. "Wall Street Goes Full Mike Pence to Avoid #MeToo Accusations". Vanity Fair. Retrieved March 30, 2020.
  24. ^ "U.S. men avoid spending time with female colleagues in the wake of #MeToo movement". The Japan Times Online. May 18, 2019. ISSN 0447-5763. Retrieved March 30, 2020.
  25. ^ a b Mahdawi, Arwa (August 29, 2019). "Men now avoid women at work – another sign we're being punished for #MeToo | Arwa Mahdawi". The Guardian. ISSN 0261-3077. Retrieved March 30, 2020.
  26. ^ Settembre, Quentin Fottrell, Jeanette. "In the #MeToo era, 60% of male managers say they're scared of being alone with women at work". MarketWatch. Retrieved March 30, 2020.{{cite web}}: CS1 maint: multiple names: authors list (link)
  27. ^ Turner, Laura (March 30, 2017). "The religious reasons Mike Pence won't eat alone with women don't add up". The Washington Post. Retrieved April 2, 2017.
  28. ^ Grossman, Joanna (December 4, 2017). "Vice President Pence's "never dine alone with a woman" rule isn't honorable. It's probably illegal". The Big Idea. Vox. Retrieved December 5, 2017.
  29. ^ Hirshman, Linda (October 30, 2017). "Stop trying to limit the way men and women work together. It's illegal". Washington Post. ISSN 0190-8286. Retrieved October 7, 2019.
  30. ^ Spiggle, Tom (January 1, 2018). "Following the 'Pence Rule' in the workplace will get you sued". Chattanooga Times Free Press. Retrieved October 7, 2019.
  31. ^ a b Bianchi, Tracey (June 23, 2016). "Ladies Who Lunch—with Men". Christianity Today. Retrieved April 2, 2017.
  32. ^ Grigg, Ty (July 18, 2014). "How I Learned to Stop Worrying About the Billy Graham Rule and Love Like Jesus". Missio Alliance. Retrieved April 2, 2017.
  33. ^ Russell, Bob (2016). After 50 Years of Ministry: 7 Things I'd Do Differently and 7 Things I'd Do the Same. Moody Publishers. p. 84. Retrieved April 2, 2017.
  34. ^ Brown, Michael (November 20, 2017). "Why the Mike Pence Rule is as Christian as it is Wise". The Stream. Retrieved May 4, 2018.
  35. ^ "It's Not Just Mike Pence. Americans Are Wary of Being Alone With the Opposite Sex". The New York Times. July 1, 2017. Retrieved August 14, 2018.
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